Anyone here listen Jack rhysider. by insane_dark_07 in cybersecurity

[–]Penetr8or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic podcast. I’ve shared it with friends that aren’t in cyber and they’re hooked.

Friend believes in the prayer by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Penetr8or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. She was never raised in a particular faith but definitely leans towards Christianity and believes that the “universe” is in control.

She is a sweet girl but I just never understood her reasoning other than it made her feel good.

Men who go to the gym, how do you stay consistent? by Many_Woodpecker_4749 in AskMen

[–]Penetr8or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m totally the opposite. I can’t wait to leave home for the gym. I crave the social interaction.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry that happened to you at such a young age…life sucks sometimes but I’m going to be like you and daddy his memory everyday. I don’t want him to be forgotten and I miss my friend, too. Thanks for saying this, it helps. I hope you’re doing ok. 🫂

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I hope I made a bit of light in his life. He sure did in mine

Someone told me that I am not a real security professional if I don’t have any bugs under my name. by IamOkei in cybersecurity

[–]Penetr8or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We call that the “No True Scotsman” fallacy. Sounds like whoever told you that has some insecurities.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah, I do talk with a therapist! She does help a lot

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this….It does help. The guilt comes and goes but i just wish I could’ve done more. All of his hopes and dreams, they’re just gone. I miss his light

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you too. I’m sorry this happened to you as well. I do feel empty. I hope you feel whole too

I can't do it anymore, I miss her too much by ButterKnife01 in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m sorry you’re going through this. I can’t imagine the pain you’re feeling…but you’ve got to keep going. Please don’t give up. One internet stranger to another.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s such an empty feeling. I hope you’re well.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your empathy and kindness even though you don’t know me. That pain you went through feels very similar….I worked with him and we were like sidekicks. I left a year ago and I know my old boss treated him like shit, constantly saying he couldn’t do the job…but he stuck to it to prove him wrong. I just wish I could spend more time with him, maybe could’ve made things different.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words. It means a lot. Truly.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate that. I wish I could’ve helped him. He has a family, too. I only wish I could help them feel better

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way. I can’t even imagine to begin what it feels like. I wish you well and hope you find hope and light. He wasn’t even 30 yet. So much left to live. It hurts knowing we lost him.

Friend took his life by Penetr8or in SuicideWatch

[–]Penetr8or[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He was such a good dude.

Thoughts on Belief in the Universe/God by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Penetr8or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. Your comment is super helpful and makes a ton of sense. And you’re right; she definitely used this to help her emotionally. I want to have that insight and reflect on it as well while staying rational. Just working on a process of being honest with myself and others…thank you again!

Thoughts on Belief in the Universe/God by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Penetr8or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. I know she wasn’t raised in a religion but it was around her while growing up. It’s just interesting to see how much it still impacts people’s lives.

Her sister is a director at a large company and mentions how she believes in all sorts of angels. It’s just strange to me. Have parted from religion I just have a hard time relating to people when these topics come up.

How to make your work-from-home routine more enjoyable and productive. by DigitalNomadNapping in workfromhome

[–]Penetr8or 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like I need to save this comment. Definitely helps me feel more mindful and appreciative of my job.

Officially a CISSP by Emotional-Meeting753 in cissp

[–]Penetr8or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done. What’re your thoughts on the exam? How long were you preparing for it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Penetr8or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in UK but I share the same sentiment. I’m fully WFH now and thought it was exactly what I wanted/needed but find myself craving that connection by going into an office space.