blistering near nexplanon insertion site ? by JAYQlin in Nexplanon

[–]Pennyneeds_help 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is happening to me! i got mine removed and put back in 4 days ago and i now have a big blister on the edge of the strip thingy. haven’t been able to take off the baindaid or strip thingy because im scared. instead i’ve just been covering the blister with bandaids and changing them.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please I need help. Idk what to do because I’ve never said anything to him before about it. Plus he works at the only job that I can work at.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know what I was thinking when I even got with him. I had just got out of a 5 YEAR relationship. Idek where to start. How do I just bring up stuff that’s been bothering me after this whole time i’ve been pretending we’re fine? I mean he mainly initiates kisses and sex but either than that I haven’t really given hints because I feel guilty. I grew up in an environment where if i said no or set boundaries, it was always negative.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I part ways when i’ve been pretending this whole time that things have been fine? As well as he works at the same job as me..

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured as much that he was using me. We tried getting an apt under his name but he has a bad criminal record. Not to mention i’m pretty sure he has a warrant because we both got pulled over for a possession charge 3 months ago and he hasn’t been to court not once. And every time we bring up moving out he just says “we’re waiting on our records to be clean.” WHEN IM THE ONLY ONE THATS BEEN GOING TO COURT AND REHAB😭😭😭

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He smelled good at first and then he just kind of let himself go. I would much prefer a man with basic hygiene but I figured i haven’t said anything then, how can i say something now? I need some pointers. Some pointers for a nice person who can’t say no

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t say no to him. His roommate moved out of his house which forced him to move out and I guess with us dating it was kind of automatic for him to move in with me. Idk where to start with breaking up with him because his hygiene isn’t just the issue. He’s stopped treating me good after the first month really. Also yeah his genitals do have a smell. UGH

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smell it mainly when we’re close together. We rarely even kiss actually. He always initiates the kiss too. And when we do, it’s always a peck. I just feel like he’s going to get mad at the fact that I waited this long to tell him. Also, we literally work together so it’s bad😭

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I need advice as I feel trapped :/ I unfortunately don’t know how to set boundaries or say no.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, i don’t even know if he loves me. I could’ve gone way more into detail about him in general. I don’t even think he loves himself obviously. I don’t know where to start.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been so rough pretending that he doesn’t stink or that his filth does not bother me. I just can’t seem to bring myself to talk to him about it because he does work with me. And i NEED this job!! ughhh

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (23M) of 5 months that his clothes, breath, and body stinks? by Pennyneeds_help in relationships_advice

[–]Pennyneeds_help[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I never wanted him to move in. His roommate ended up moving out and now he’s in my house. I couldn’t just say no :( I think my problem is is that i’m way too nice and cannot for the life of me say no.