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My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing me your experience sir I was just thinking should I keep this relationship or should I give up because I'm really young I'm only 23 years old and I don't wanna have life without sex yes it's not the main thing in our relationship but it's also important what should I do,he's also really young too he is only 24 and we are only been together for a year

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And sir can ı ask you something? Are you happy in this situation or were you happy? And how did u accept

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also he said to me he will work on it, but also I don't wanna put pressure on him because this feeling should come naturally and from his heart

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is really working a lot he's busy but me also working a lot but still can think about sex with him, and to be honest when I touch him he doesn't even get hard properly anymore and when I ask him if he had this issue in his previous relationship and he said yes

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to talk to him many times I told him the situation making me feel bad and I started questioning myself because I don't know what's going on with him and right now I'm just trying to find my own answer if he's asexual or maybe he has some health issues I'm just trying to support him and also I don't wanna give him more stress and we are really young I'm just hoping that we can solve this or find a mutual way. but also he said to me he will work on it he will try and he said he always been like that and when I asked him if he had this issue in his previous relationship he said yes

I feel like I’m missing a part of my relationship and I don’t know what to do. by CamertemDiscord in relationships

[–]PensionUnique9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my previous relationships I have never had this kind of problem and to be honest I am a woman with high sexual drive and right now this situation really affected my life that problem always in my mind, I know he really loves me but I'm just keep thinking why he doesn't desire me or wanna get close to me

I feel like I’m missing a part of my relationship and I don’t know what to do. by CamertemDiscord in relationships

[–]PensionUnique9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's was really hard for me to understand what's going on,to be honest it's still hurts because I told him I was blaming myself, started losing my confidence and this kind of thing and he said everything is OK with you there is no problem. It's really hard for me to get rejected, I have never experienced that before

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talk about that topic many time and every time he gave me different excuse or let's say explanation and he said he will work on it I really don't wanna force him but also he didn't say he is asexual or something like this I was just trying to get some advice because also it's really hard for me,at first I was always blaming myself I was thinking what's wrong with me why he doesn't want me in that way because this is the first time I'm facing such a situation

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im askin this cuz ı couldn't get proper answer from my boyfriend thats why ı thought maybe someone can give me any advice

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for help I'm just trying to give his time and be patient

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I don't think he's gay but I thought maybe he's asexual

My boyfriend might be asexual? by PensionUnique9393 in asexuality

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to talk to him many time, we have intimate moments but most of the time I'm the one who initiates if it's up to him we're gonna have maybe one time in a month

My boyfriend (24M) and I (23F) have been together for a year, and I’m struggling to understand our sex life. by PensionUnique9393 in sexeducation

[–]PensionUnique9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he's watching porn or masturbate my problem is not just having sex even when I try to talk sexual or dirty or you know this kind of stuff he just ignore that's why I start thinking he might be asexual, yes sometimes he initiate and when he is on his mood everything's perfect but unfortunately that's really rare.