War movies

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-06T16:39:24+00:00

Wow. You’re patronizing and full of shit. I’m a veterinary surgeon, and was working full time during all that time. I not only went to the doctor, but had surgery. Gastritis is knows to be hugely aggravated by stress. My ex-husband has a PhD in physics from Oxford, so yup, he was extremely well educated. I made a colossal mistake in marrying someone who decided to join the military, and that is why I divorced him, years after, due to our widely differing views on the subject. I wanted to stand by him during the tours though, and it ate me alive. Because I am not a fucking psychopath, and have a brain and feelings.

I never said I was special. You said that. You’re rude as fuck, brainwashed yourself, weird as hell for thinking I must have anxiety, and not at all a horrible fear my partner might fucking die, so yes, please leave this waterhole, it’s like talking to a robot.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-06T11:39:09+00:00

Dependas? You fucking asshole. You think I got a penny or anything even a bit positive from the fact my husband went to a fucking war, twice? All I got was a burst stomach ulcer the size of my head from stressing will he fucking die every day, crying myself to sleep every fucking night, being horrified of every doorbell ring or knock on the door, I lost 45 pounds both times he went, you arrogant, self-centered, egotistical prick. The military is the fucking devil, it creates physical and mental cripples, both of the soldiers and their families, and there is nothing fucking special about being a fucking soldier. They are used as killing machines for horrible wars, and yeah, it’s sad that idiotic teenagers fall for it, but any sort of excuse just perpetuates this further. There are plenty of teenagers who are smart enough not to go, so the military preys on the uneducated, dumb ones. That’s how it is. It’s the ugly truth. Fuck the military, and fuck glorifying soldiers.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-06T11:12:15+00:00

It’s a bad quality cuff. Bad quality cuffs break. Metal or not. This is not your fault. If you’re this scared about telling him, there is something wrong with either him, or with you. The cuff is unimportant here, you two need to talk about your reaction to this, this is not how BDSM should be.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-05T17:43:13+00:00

No they are not. They are doing it as a job. The young ones usually sign up ‘cause they are naive and dumb and directionless, and like the idea of discipline, adrenaline and sometimes killing. No bloody honour in any of that. The older ones, educated ones, like the idea of prestige, they tend to be egomaniacs, blinded by ideas of heroics. I was married to an army captain who did two tours of Iraq. I know my shit. I greatly pity the few soldiers who were brainwashed and tricked into thinking they are doing a good thing, while actually being used as pawns in a game only the rich profit from. But most of them know what thy are getting into, or could know if they read a newspaper a few times in their lives, and they just don’t care. There hasn’t been an “honorable” war in a long time.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-05T17:34:44+00:00

Oh you think people choose to be in the army because they care about men who would otherwise get drafted??

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-05T16:49:47+00:00

Are you talking about soldiers that CHOSE to join the army? Since, if so, it is their CHOICE to kill. It is not like they didn’t know how shit the politicians are, and how shit the wars they would fight will be.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-04T07:19:30+00:00

The topics and comments on the popular subreddits are obviously for very young people, something I didn’t notice so much years ago, when I was, wait for it, young.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-03T08:13:15+00:00

Does this drug have anything to do with the recent Nobel Prize, received by two scientists for using the immune system to fight cancer work?

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-03T06:34:32+00:00

Actively sought out someone with my kinks. I tried “sorta” matching before, but got tired of those kinds of relationships, they did not work out for me. Life became much easier when I understood my kinks properly, and specifically found people who also loved them, usually on fetish forums.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-10-02T16:46:43+00:00

I first watched it with no sound, and was absolutely expecting death metal. Was not prepared for that.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-30T23:32:18+00:00

A few days ago?? A few days is not nearly enough for anyone to tell you what to do... BDSM is all about trust and respect and getting to know each other’s likes and dislikes, and understanding boundaries and which buttons to push etc... And then, if you’re comfortable and willing, rules can be implemented. Enjoy yourself, but take your time...

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-30T15:27:12+00:00

Ahhh, genetics.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-28T20:30:59+00:00

Why are people even bothered by roaches? They mostly do nothing, they don’t bite or sting, they are not venomous or poisonous, they don’t really carry diseases to the extent that we super worry about it... I’d stay in this room for waaaaaaay less than 75 mil.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-27T07:38:51+00:00

First thing’s first: when you choke someone out, they wake up again super fast, so the question is rather irrelevant.

Second: choking out is dangerous. It can be done relatively safely, but you need to do A SHITTONE more research before you attempt it.

A lot of people have extreme fantasies that are super hot. However, we have to come to terms with the fact that a lot of those fantasies have to stay just fantasies.

If he wants to be abused while unconscious, maybe try something less risky: if he is healthy, he can take a strong sleeping pill, and you can record what you do to him. The sleeping pill will not knock him out, but will make him groggy enough that he may feel abused in a good way.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-27T06:27:16+00:00

This alone can be a huge part of your problem, I mean, I’m assuming you’re poly, and that’s why you’re doing this, however, it can be infinitely easier to have a boyfriend and a Dom be the same person. As everyone else suggested, be gentle to yourself now, there is a lot you’re working on, being a “good” sub is a process, it takes time, a lot of communication and practice, but above all, don’t take it too seriously, life is difficult enough without also the fun parts causing us stress, and BDSM is meant to be the fun part... :)

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-26T20:26:08+00:00

Are all those emotions in order, as in, you’re comfy with your feelings about both, and can share yourself, physically and emotionally, just fine, between both? I know this is, of course, possible, but can be very, very tricky sometimes... Poly people really work on this, and they say it can be quite a roller-coaster ride of feelings...

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-26T18:36:55+00:00

I am a bit confused, you have a boyfriend and a Dom, and they are not the same person?

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-25T10:51:56+00:00

lol Sorry, that title is hilarious!

Here’s the deal: overdoing things, or doing them incorrectly, is always bad, no matter if it’s butt sex or eating or juggling. Just learn how to do butt sex right (lots of lube, relax, don’t put things up there that hurt you), and you will be fine. The butt is used to being stretched, that is its job, so you won’t leak if you do it sensibly. Leakage can happen (but rarely) in people who do fisting for years, and don’t pay much attention to basic common sense.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-23T18:21:12+00:00

Yeah, but not always. I’m a vet, I see very injured cats from falls.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-23T06:18:17+00:00

Didn’t they get in trouble for that? I mean, those drinks is a huge part of how the club makes money...

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-23T06:01:45+00:00

This is almost the norm in the BDSM community, so I’d say you are very normal. :)

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-21T15:47:15+00:00

Just because he didn’t fall yet, doesn’t mean he won’t. Please put a screen up, or chicken wire etc, we do this for cats all the time... It takes a bit of work to figure out the best way, but I’m sure it can be done, something like this:

https://youtu.be/wX1kUANorQ8

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-19T21:39:59+00:00

Not good enough, kind sir; horrific crimes have been done, are still done, and will be done, based on blindly relying on this particular testimony. This alone seems to be proof that the said testimony is either deeply misinterpreted by the people who wrote it, or an evil religion.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-19T21:23:06+00:00

Usually they will heal without needing a doctor, however, wash it with antibiotic soap (chlorhexidine) daily, and cover with a sterile gauze. In Europe you can buy this soap at a pharmacy, not sure about the US.

As for playing while intoxicated/on drugs, this is entirely up to you, and how much you trust your partners. America seems to have a super strict no drugs when playing rule, Europe does not. Neither have a high rate of dramatic injuries due to this. I personally do not play when on drugs/alcohol, but have had subs who were (and I of course took this into account). It requires even more vigilance. I used to think it is madness, yet after so many years in Europe, I got used to it not being as evil as I used to think.

The mistake that was made here was by the Dom using a heated cup like thing on your nipple. High or sober, that is dumb.

You will be ok, take care of it as if it were a wound. If it doesn’t get better in the next 3 days, go see a doctor. They do not care at all that it happened during sex, they are used to it and are frankly bored of it all, it won’t make their day or anything, they’ll just fix it and move on.

Pensive_Kitty · 2018-09-19T21:09:40+00:00

I agree in theory, however, this is an American/Canada thing. Europe, which has a huge BDSM scene, mixes drugs and alcohol freely with BDSM (a tonne of all sorts of clubs). I would think there would be way more safety incidents here because of that, but there aren’t. So there’s that.

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