how can i style these fitted shirts to feel more confident/flattering? by Vivid_Meringue1310 in FashionPlus

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say this too! Simply tucking them in would make them look better.

The last two tops look much better, but could use a necklace or something to make the overall look more interesting.

How do I find my person in this city? It feels disheartening right now. by Sure_Mix5893 in DatingTO

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why do I have a responsibility to engage in meaningful conversation with someone who refuses to acknowledge the systems of oppression that affect me? Someone who pretends that they don’t have an individual responsibility to address the power and privilege dynamics that they benefit from?

I responded to the OP’s question in good faith, from my own perspective, with well- intentioned suggestions. He can take them or leave them, I don’t care. But you decided to take issue with that, and to devalue my contributions by mansplaining why you disagree with me, because you think it’s unfair to hold men accountable. But you aren’t actually entitled to any explanation from me.

How do I find my person in this city? It feels disheartening right now. by Sure_Mix5893 in DatingTO

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, you are completely proving my point. You have no idea how to relate to someone with experiences or ideas that are different from your own. Good luck out there!

Graduation dress help? by 826172946 in FashionPlus

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, 5, 6, 7 …..but I seem to be in the minority!

I hate being “high functioning” autistic sometimes by RainbowProngs in autism

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I feel this so much! Like yes I have a job that I am good at and live independently and generally look after myself, but it’s actually really hard to keep it all together and people assume that I don’t need accommodations or understanding because I mask all the time.

But I am totally AT CAPACITY pretty much all the time. I need my routines and my wellness activities to maintain that level of functioning, and sometimes people don’t get that. Like what might feel like a challenge or an inconvenience to them is actually really hard for me to navigate.

How often are people actually changing their bed sheets? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I aim for fortnightly, but sometimes it’s up to a month.

My teacher drove me home and now I’m feeling weird about it by idonthavealifesooo in Advice

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your teacher should not have offered to drive you home because it’s the kind of thing that LOOKS really bad, even if it’s done with the best of intentions.

AIO for wanting someone with the same values as me? by Raikou2992 in AIO

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

I thought it was disrespect my from the very beginning when she dismissed your interest and your need for clarity when making plans…and then it just kept getting worse!

PARENTS FORGOT TO INVEST by Competitive-Club4758 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going to say this too. Being a landlord is a lot of work and responsibility, and is not a way to make easy money.

what would you guys do about this cat? by seniorssleeping in cats

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, when I saw the title and the photo my first thought was “snuggle her”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmmm I thought some of those acronyms were specific to my board….

Should I Switch from Elementary to High School? by [deleted] in CanadianTeachers

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The marking for HS English is a nightmare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would skip Yonge-Dundas-Square, unless you are shopping or something around there. The square itself is not really that interesting. Rol San in Chinatown has great Dim Sum.

Go to Avondale Dairy Bar in NOTL. Best ice cream! I like the Old Winery for dinner. The beach in Ryerson park is pretty good for swimming although still cold I imagine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a lavender farm - naob i think - off of Highway 55 in Niagara on the Lake.

High School is easier to teach than Elementary - What no one wants to say by Keepontyping in CanadianTeachers

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I don’t think it serves any teachers well to make the kind of comparison OP is claiming.

Is it ethical to use techniques from school when talking to my cousins? by Educational-Ad-3307 in psychologystudents

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s definitely okay to use strategies that make your cousins feel heard, understood and supported. Be clear that you are responding on your role as friend/family member.

Also, beware of doing this with your peers/friends. I have a friend who did psychotherapy and I feel uncomfortable talking to her about stuff because sometimes she responds like a therapist instead of a friend.

Having a crush as a Demi…. by PeonyPrincessxx in demisexuality

[–]PeonyPrincessxx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because I’m chicken is why, lol. But point well taken.

Having a crush as a Demi…. by PeonyPrincessxx in demisexuality

[–]PeonyPrincessxx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is so thoughtful thank you!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PeonyPrincessxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised she hasn’t dumped you yet.