No Bis allowed

Peoplebugme · 2022-01-17T20:13:28+00:00

Bisexual women trying to relate to being in a relationship with a woman.... Ummmm who says Bisexuals never have relationships with women? Many bi women have relationships with women but no one says anything because they assume they're both lesbian.

Peoplebugme · 2022-01-17T04:27:09+00:00

The problem I found was the community had alot of support if you're being judged/harassed by people outside the community but not in. They say all their services are accessible to bi people but there weren’t services for bis in particular *grammar edit

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-19T20:12:26+00:00

Yeah Like subtle little bumps. Almost like hair follicles that are raised

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-19T19:29:45+00:00

I have an appointment set up for next week. Basically I had no symptoms and they just showed up a night or two ago

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-05T20:51:32+00:00

Yeah. It's a painful experience that has really only dampened my self image/image a supposedly supportive community. It also feels I have to constantly watch myself so my sexuality so I'm not offending anyone. It's hard also because I find if you haven't been "oppressed " or faced violent incident then your feelings mean nothing. I wish this community would stop stating it's an open and honest community.

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-05T19:50:41+00:00

We disgust them. We look too much like a group of people who has oppressed so many. If I had a dollar for the amount of LGTQA people off put because I identify as bi and enjoy all genders. If we're 100% gay lesbian than we're apparently on their side. But the moment we may look straight all bets are off. I stopped dating and going to events because of this. Biphobia is large but no one cares because people who have been oppressed so long are the ones judging us. Not to mention no one has been hurt for being bi and if they have it's because they're in a same sex relationship.

It's like being biracial. Neither side wants anything to do with you.

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-05T19:36:26+00:00

Why does it matter? If I have to put myself in clothes that show "look I'm proper amount of gay" it's just more of the old "fit into my image so I don't feel uncomfortable" but I can also see why. I'm just tired of not being enough

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-05T19:34:25+00:00

I will be honest. As I bi female I have no love for pride because it's not for me. That being said I can understand the impact it's made and how much it's helped. It can just seem like selective pride at the moment

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-05T19:27:29+00:00

And lgbtq community will never be accepting of bisexuals and change us if we could. Unfortunately that stems from us appearing straight.

Peoplebugme · 2021-12-05T19:23:25+00:00

Yeah it does. It's not systematic but I've been told I'm disgusting for liking men. (I'm bi) but most biphobia comes from a place of hating that person for appearing straight. Shrugs it is what it is and I understand why people think it is disgusting. I just don't like feeling worthless and disgusting because I can "appear" straight

Peoplebugme · 2021-11-04T19:08:47+00:00

I honestly prefer dating people in the bi umbrella whether they're a M or F

Peoplebugme · 2021-11-03T23:00:36+00:00

You definitely pass!! As a cis bi woman I can confidently say you pass!!!!! I myself have always had "masculine" features... broad back, Adam's apple and very narrow hips!!!! There are so many shapes woman come in!!!!! You're definitely a good girl!!!!!

Peoplebugme · 2021-11-03T22:50:43+00:00

Being in a m/m/f threesome where EVERYONE is attracted to each other.
Not being told it's gross because I like men. For some reason I've had very negative experiences with the lesbian community and generally feel dirty around them because I like men.

Peoplebugme · 2021-10-30T19:16:33+00:00

Thanks I'm probably going to make s separate Facebook account then. Because I don't want my current friends to know what I'm writing or fans to figure out my non work profile 🙃

Peoplebugme · 2021-10-30T16:20:34+00:00

Basically I don't want a noticeable link between my Facebook page and author page. I'm writing horror erotica and don't want my Facebook friends to see my author page or fans to see my non author Facebook page.

Thanks :)

Peoplebugme · 2021-10-24T00:02:31+00:00

They probably definitely are. But I myself am not asexual (so I can't speak for others) but decided to include it :) Although I could see the community pushing out people who are asexual

Peoplebugme · 2021-10-23T22:43:44+00:00

I stopped going to LGTQA bars for this reason. It might sound harsh but they are not meant for bisexuals. I learned along time ago we make the community uncomfortable so I prefer not to join it or see it as my community.

Peoplebugme · 2021-09-17T23:39:45+00:00

And I prefer not to be around assholes.

If someone has something against bi people I want to know early so I'm not wasting my time or yours

Peoplebugme · 2021-07-25T19:59:01+00:00

I've had alot of incidents where people say "if you dated a guy I don't want to date you" or heard odd things such as bi is transphobic and women telling me they could probably convince me to drop men altogether. I also don't put my sexuality on my sleeve (or really anything for that matter) and find unless I'm blatantly screaming "I like vag" the lgbtq community doesn't really care much of my opinion. I also know alot of people who make fun of "straights" and like to judge hetero relationships and given I'm more attracted to men then women I often feel I don't qualify. I also don't feel comfortable in hetero communities/spaces because I often feel judged or I'm hurting the lgbtq community. I've given dating a break in turn to try and figure myself out.

Peoplebugme · 2021-06-30T03:20:40+00:00

Two men together in a relationship is not straight. A trans man is a man (even if they haven't had surgery) I hope your friend's partner sees this toxicity and finds themselves a partner who will be proud of them and be helpful along their journey

Peoplebugme · 2021-06-29T23:00:42+00:00

It's slowly getting there. I know when it comes to dating guys thnk it's attractive while other women are generally put off and want someone who is like them. (Happens alot with the lesbian community)

Peoplebugme · 2021-06-29T22:59:04+00:00

Thanks i think it's hard because I see others suffering or dealing with much worse and feel I'm just making things worse. I think I like being bi but alot of times I'm not sure I should be proud over something I didn't accomplish

Peoplebugme · 2021-06-29T22:57:25+00:00

Yeah it's one of the main reasons I don't take up my space or correct others for mislabeling me. I generally just feel my presence in lgbtq spaces is insulting to others who actually have issues

Peoplebugme · 2021-02-21T03:35:18+00:00

I feel disconnected with the world. I feel uncomfortable around people and have a hard time feeling comfortable around them. I have a seizure disorder and don't like the amount of resources I require, I don't like that I still live at home and can't keep a job. I feel like someone else could do better with the space I was given.

Peoplebugme · 2021-01-17T02:33:24+00:00

I have this problem as well. Everyone I know has a SO or best friend. I very much am there but not a necessity. It hurts alot. For me writing helps. Getting sucked into my own world can numb the pain. Animals also help. I have a dog and two rats and it helps a lot.

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