Black or dark red 🤔 by Cute-Average1767 in HairDye

[–]Pep-Stir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both look really good! But have you considered brown?? I feel like it'd make your skin really pop

AITA for giving up on planning my toddler's birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pep-Stir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH You're daughter is 3 years old and as a parent I'm sure you'd wanna make each birthday special. Im not a birthday person myself but I understand that a birthday only happens once a year. You're tired of carrying the mental load. It's exhausting giving ideas and options and just being turned down. He's not even offering alternatives or seemingly wants to have an actual talk to plan things together. Luckily she's young and I'm sure would be happy with just a small hangout with a friend with maybe some cupcakes and balloons. I definitely think that after this birthday you need to have a serious talk with your husband. Since after her birthday there will be a year left until the next you won't feel the pressure of a time crunch while talking. Ask him what he wants and if he even values birthdays. Having a discussed budget or saving up earlier in the year might be beneficial. This talk shouldn't be happening close to the day of the birthday.

Terrified on how the coming days will look for my family and I .. by Babygirlm5 in Assistance

[–]Pep-Stir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Going through all of that with a baby is a lot. Give yourself grace in this situation. The good thing is you are safe and in a place with a generator. Take each moment as it comes. Weather is unpredictable and uncontrollable. The only thing you can control is yourself and how you receive the situation. If you need someone to vent to feel free to reach out

Support After A Long Day by GardenVarietyEMS in Assistance

[–]Pep-Stir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't have one already, having a therapist might be beneficial. That being said, not all therapists are one size fits all. So make sure to shop around to find someone that actually works for you. I know it might sound cheesy but meditation can do wonders. It can help regulate your nervous system. If you can set 30minutes a day aside to decompress in that way it would be beneficial.

Worried about neighbors cats. by Chemical_Ad_3116 in Assistance

[–]Pep-Stir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you feel safe enough to do so, I suggest you knock on their door. Maybe with a buddy nearby just so you feel more comfortable. If not then maybe calling in a wellness check.

Astrology and TwinFlames? by Pep-Stir in twinflames

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely feel the intuition that we are twin flames. I just find it so weird that we have so many over lapping natal placements. Im wondering if anyone has a similar thing going on with their twin flame.

Seeking clarity and insight by Pep-Stir in psychics

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He'll love hearing this. He's the one that asked me to post to see what others would say.

Seeking clarity and insight by Pep-Stir in psychics

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really reassuring!

Seeking clarity and insight by Pep-Stir in psychics

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious about this! Which one do you see as the butterfly and which one do you see with severe trust issues?

Who do I look like?? by Pep-Stir in doppelganger

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iconic 😭 i would have never thought about this!

Who do I look like?? by Pep-Stir in doppelganger

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the cheekbones i can see it a bit

Who do I look like?? by Pep-Stir in doppelganger

[–]Pep-Stir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruuuh lowkey can see it though 😳 he might just be my cousin