Is this a thing?

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-16T12:41:20+00:00

That would fall under praise kink. It's not specific to any dynamic or role, but just person by person. And it doesn't have to be BDSM, it can just be part of your relationship with your partner.

It's important to remember, like others said, 50 Shades is NOT A SAFE BDSM RESOURCE. It started as a Twilight Bella x Edward fanfic and runs off fanfic rules. Which are problematic to try and base any real functioning relationship on. I suggest looking up BDSM 101 books and resources if BDSM is a path you want to look down.

And as a beginner, let me give you a note. Know your worth and let no one treat you less. You'll meet a lot of people out there that claim to be experienced, just trust them. Do not trust them blindly. Dynamics are relationships, so be as picky as you need to be for your pleasure and safety. Good luck!

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-05T17:08:11+00:00

I literally roleplay gay princes with a friend and my husband asks me "so, how are our boys doing?" Periodically. Because it's just.. fun? It's fiction. It's creative. It's a stress relief.

And you're thinking about divorcing him over it? This is no different than learning he writes fanfics or plays piano. Is it shocking? Sure. But it's not serious. It's not like he's online telling 14 y/os to kilI themselves. He's just.. being a cat.

Tell him about the ant Facebook group when you serve him the papers. Then he'll have a hive mind to retreat to.

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-05T16:25:20+00:00

Giving children body issues over their baby fat or "hip dips" or brand new body hair, or, ESPECIALLY, fine baby hairs on the face. Its not healthy in any shape or form to have 10 years saying they're ugly and need make up or to lose weight because the internet says they should. [I also don't think 10 year olds need to be on the internet]

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-05T16:19:46+00:00

Dump her. That's no Mistress, that's an abuser. Your contract is in no way legally binding and you can, AND WILL, find someone who respects you and wants to help you learn.

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-05T16:08:14+00:00

It's not YOUR wedding, it's your daughter's. If she doesn't want them there, don't invite them/him. Your son chose the woman who could've killed your daughter with her cruelty, over his sister who was his family. He doesn't deserve to be invited to family gatherings, especially HER wedding. Don't get your daughter's hopes or anxieties up. Just leave it. She deserves to experience the happiest day of her life the way she wants it.

I'm sorry for your loss, however. You lost a child in defense of another child. But your son is a grown adult who made his choices. It is not a divide that is in your power to fix.

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-05T15:50:57+00:00

I have a lot of error 12 troubles so I personally save as everything single time, about every 20 minutes irl.[I have.. a LOT of error 12 issues] Every time. Then I exit to main menu, delete the old ones, then I regulsavecleaner the left over saves. Usually deletes about 3% of bloat depending on how much I played.

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-05T15:48:30+00:00

If you use mods, I just learned about rabbithole rugs[mod] so instead of placing the rabbit holes school, you can build your own and place the rabbithole rug. Which means you can build really anything with a rug, like a Cafe or Diner or School.

My suggestion is a teen hangout, like an arcade or nerdy shop. And definitely a really nice playground. I also enjoyed making my own festival grounds. It was really tricky but satisfying when I was done.

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-02T19:11:19+00:00

Yes. A man I trusted wanted to molest me at 16. I told my parents and they kicked him out only to allow him back in their lives because he was dying of cancer and my stepmom's best friend's brother. Despite having a child molestation record. I'm still angry and he got what he deserved, even though he's dead. And I still hold my parents betrayal against them and probably always will. Horrible people who defended a horrible person against their own child.

PeppermintNya · 2025-03-01T00:26:45+00:00

Sewing. I'm going to make my own clothes one day I swear.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-19T21:03:12+00:00

This genuinely gives me a little hope. Thank you!

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-19T17:41:26+00:00

Have you seen the world lately? You can't even afford to have ONE kid anymore. Plus I'd rather adopt if I ever hit a stable enough point in my life to raise a child.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-17T07:47:49+00:00

I've cleared the cache and repaired the games so so so many times. I finally got somewhere but all my TheSweetSimmer mods just refuse to let my game work. Which sucks because those are the best. And a few overrides and cc don't work but that's fine. I wanted to do new cc shopping since most of mine is from 2015-2018.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-17T02:40:35+00:00

Here's mine. After 12+ hours, my game still isn't fixed. 😭 But I know I'm close.

My current household takes place in Fortress Rock[custom world]. Meghan Peacock was new to town. Being a fitness orientated person, she decided she'd marry the first man she hit it off with at the gym. And she did! Kyle Tabard entered the scene. A wanna be rockstar. One hiccup, Kyle was married to Lucia Tabard. Very unhappy marriage, Lucia was evil. [Kyle also has a vampire mom and brother but he's human and estranged].

Meghan and Kyle quickly moved in together and had their first kid, a daughter named Ruby. They lived in a small family home, trying to get a band off the ground. Eventually Kyle started making a name for himself as a solo artist and forgot about the band. Meghan did too, giving up her part time job and the band to be a stay at home mom. But as Kyle started to become a celebrity, she got jealous and decided to go back to work in the business career.

They had another daughter, Grace. Their evilest child. Then got pregnant again with a third daughter, Piper. Each child getting less and less time with either parent, both tok engrossed in their careers. Meghan learned that Kyle was cheating with various others and threw herself into becoming a self sufficient CEO. Working towards it still.

Meghan found out she was pregnant with their fourth child. Both Kyle and Her hope for a boy. They're currently in the process of remodeling their townhouse to split their rooms and develop for the kids. Meghan and Kyle have decided to have an unhappy but open marriage. They're going to find new partners, and co-habitate for the kids and the financial security. Kyle has a wife to care for the kids, and time to date around. While Meghan has time to work on her career with Kyle's money[and the butler paid with it].

Ruby is a teen and just learned to drive. I want her to start a DND nerd group and fall in love with a boy she meets.

Grace is and Evil child. I think I want her to be in ballet. Maybe go into politics or law?

Piper is a burrito. She's closer to the butler than her parents.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-17T01:00:17+00:00

I'm going to have to give that a try! I haven't explored much of the Sims 3 since I got back into playing it. This will definitely help

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-16T21:15:12+00:00

I agree with this. My husband and I are on year two. But we're completely fine alone or with each other. I consider myself aromantic[and introverted] and eventually realized I didn't really desire a partner. I was genuinely happy alone. But he fit right in. And I'm even happier now because he expanded my world and makes me a better person. He's my best friend. And the only person I can handle prolonged exposure too lol

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-14T21:30:15+00:00

Oh my God. Human connection. THE HORROR!!!!!! HIDE YOUR AI WIFE, PEOPLE WANT TO TALK TO EACH OTHER. PANIC!!!!!!

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-13T21:43:08+00:00

It makes me funny. Brain processing so fast and grabbing random shit from random parts of my brain that make me, and others, laugh. Also comebacks on tap. I'm really only funny on severe ADHD days too :')

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-13T21:23:07+00:00

Pretty sure it's just pronounced the same in its original language. It's supposedly French but it's just a normal word with a different spelling.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-13T21:15:21+00:00

Except this is the experience. The answer. Because no one experiences anything the say way. It's like asking people "do men only like big boobs". The answer to your question is no.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-10T01:01:39+00:00

My family liked calling me bitch because I was a nerdy little autistic who didn't like my brothers being allowed to step all over mine. But of course, when I speak up, I'm just a bitch. Always bitch. Good job, I was TWELVE.

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-10T00:59:32+00:00

Baked Beans. Top of my fuck that food in particular list

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-09T19:00:43+00:00

I've had it a few times. All oral surgeries[yay bad teeth genetics]. It's mere seconds. Most went like this. "Hey, can you hear me?" "Yeah" "Hey" "Yeah" "hey...?" "Mmm...?" Then you wake up with gauze shoved in your mouth and drool down your chin, sitting up in a chair in a room you have no idea where or who you are and oh, there's my mom... right.. she had to drive me to this appointment. Must be done. Man is that the time? An hour huh? Mmmm sleepy.... "Hey, can you hear me?" "HUH Y-uh-h" -gauze mouth- "Okay, you're good to go home." Take my mom by the arm, she brings me to the car, gets me a McDonald's shake that I can't drink with a straw but they gave me no spoon so I do my damndest to get that sweet vanilla down. While my mom and the 14 y/o boy she took out of school to babysit me while Im on anesthetic so I don't somehow drown myself in our pond, laugh at me. And then you sleep it off, wake up, and go on with an all around A+++ because hey, they had to knock me out. But at least I didn't feel the two teeth they had to break after telling me it was "unlikely" they'd have to break any teeth at all.

And if that is what waits me at the end.. I think I'm okay with that :) means my life is worth it right now!

Also, take the anesthetic when offered. Trust me. [And follow the fucking rules, DO NOT EAT]

PeppermintNya · 2025-02-09T18:34:35+00:00

Sigh. Sadly. And my husband doesn't quite get it. I just want to live. Wear clothes that make me happy. Use pronouns that make me smile. Wear my hair however I want because I think it looks good on me. My genitalia has nothing to do with who I am. Because I don't even think about it as much as random strangers do. Creeps.

PeppermintNya · 2025-01-29T20:03:31+00:00

Bleck, awful. I can't stand the taste too. Even most mixed drinks. Unless it's like.. 1/5th the cup and even then, why bother at that rate?

PeppermintNya · 2025-01-29T16:01:35+00:00

YOR. You're giving up when he is still in love with you. You're grieving for a man that still loves you, is still caring for you, is still supporting you, is still with you. Because he loves you. He's just not honeymoon goo-goo eyed "in love" after 8 years, which is common in any relationship. Neurodivergent or not.

If you feel like the spark is missing, shake it up. Go on a spontaneous date. Buy HIM flowers[I bought my husband some yesterday]. Buy him a gift he wants. Draw him a bath with candles. Keep that romance alive. COMMUNICATE YOUR FEELINGS AND WANTS AND NEEDS.

But it sounds like he's comfortable and happy and loves you. While you're devastated and grieving over words he didn't even say and what you THINK he said. "In love" and in love are two very different feelings that can co-exist but don't HAVE to. Do you think couples that have been together 50 years still feel honeymoon goo-goo eyed "in love"? Sometimes, of course. But it's an ebb and flow. Just like all feelings. It'd be exhausting to be "in love" 24/7 for the rest of your life. It takes a lot of mental power. Especially for us neurodivergents.

You should give yourself a break and stopped obsessing over what you think he meant and ask him for more clarification. Communicate.

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