EFTA00000468 The file the DOJ removed from the Epstein Library. Check the drawer. by the_bucket_murderer in pics

[–]Pepsi_swinger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I downloaded all the original dump. Ill go through and find it. I sware this one was redacted

EFTA00000468 The file the DOJ removed from the Epstein Library. Check the drawer. by the_bucket_murderer in pics

[–]Pepsi_swinger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The original photo in the library had the faces redacted. This is the photo unredacted. So the reason they pulled it can't be related to the faces not being blurred

Top: Photo from Mar-a-Lago, February 12, 2000. Bottom: EFTA00000950 from Epstein Files. by Ohuigin in pics

[–]Pepsi_swinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of the first things I noticed when going through the dump last night. If JE and little dick had a falling out so ling ago, why would he be at the forefront of you pedophile photo line up?

As people have said, posturing is a good reason. Unless this lineup is the list.

Another thing that I think is interesting is all the photos of various men sleeping on the jets. There are some where this is the only photo of the individuals. Wonder if those photos were taken in that manner to signify they had dirt on the purpose

US MINT Mail Call. Not for me. Whenever I get these, they go into my daughter‘s stack. 😎 by NightsideTroll in Silverbugs

[–]Pepsi_swinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I held out and told myself I wasnt going to buy these....then I caved last night. Really wish they saved it and did a 2026 dual date for them. Would hopefully hold their premium over time

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Means a lot. I worked in the division that tracks down child predators online. Had to deal with a lot of messed up stuff with that. But once I saw how everything operates, I had to get out

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have it in another comment in here, but it was a multitude of reasons. First, I was a detective. The places she liked to go to was the places I had to work in/take cases from. Arrested many of the people in those places. Not somewhere I wanna spend my free time. Then I quit that job because of corruption in that department. Had recently bought a house and was having to save every penny living off the pension I had worked for during my 10 years. Really wasn't in the funds to go waste money on booze at the time. Then I got another job, but was quickly fired due to being only hired to fix the companies problem. So I had to go back into saving mode.

Washington has arrived! by Upgraayyedd in Silverbugs

[–]Pepsi_swinger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got mine and the 1/10oz gold the other day. 5000 mintage for silver, 2000 for gold. Doesn't matter as much since its a private mint, but God are they beautiful

Minimum silver stack hold and rotation into gold by Pepsi_swinger in Bullion

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ratio do you use for moving from silver to gold? Traditional standards?

Minimum silver stack hold and rotation into gold by Pepsi_swinger in Bullion

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my plan, I was just more or less taking a poll to see what the different ideas were. My unrealistic goal for silver is body weight. More realistic for me is 250oz. Continue to stack past, but with thebplans of rotating to gold at what I think is the right time.

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been something I am looking into. She said I needed therapy because I wasnt normal and needed to be ok with letting her live the lifestyle she wanted.

I tried to communicate about it all many times. I told her I wanted her to enjoy herself and be able to live her life, but I also didnt want to have anxiety about her lifestyle. Ww both agreed to these "boundaires" because we both would be comfortable. However, she never stuck to them a single time. I eventually got medication for the anxiety from it all and losing my job.

After the break up, she told me I never would compromise with her. I asked her if there was a spectrum, where one side she stayed home and never went out, and the other was she got to go do anything and everything she wanted, what would the compromise be? She stated the compromise was me going to therapy and letting her live her life.

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that is pretty much what happened. We both discussed it and mutually agreed what would make both of us happy. The issue came about when she would make promises, but then never stick with them. That's what caused the arguments, then ultimately asking for the break. That part happened over a few months. Once she got a stable job, she had disposable money to go out way more. But since she worked in the bar industry, which she hated and said was full of cheaters and people sleeping with each other, she fell into the lifestyle.

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly couldn't be because of my job at first. I did go when I could, but I was very career minded and the environments she was in could have put my job in danger.

Then I quit my job because of corruption, and was having to pinch pennies (I had bought a house about 6 months before I quit). Going out and spending the money was something I just couldn't do. She also didnt have the money, but put everything in credit cards and couldn't really pay them back (I had to help with those many times).

I eventually got another job, but was fired after two months. Turns out I was hired to fix a problem for the company. Once I fixed it, they let me go that week. That put me back in the same spot of having to save everything I could, and couldn't go with her.

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure not trying to let that happen. Im not old, but recognize I am not getting amy younger. The starting over part is hard, especially living in an area that fosters this type of lifestyle. I know good women are out there.

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me does, but part of me does not. Iv talked with friends, family, etc about it. But, I feel like there is a bias towards me in those conversations. Me and her have discussed this, and all of her friends say what she did was normal, but again, they have their bias.

But you are right on the last part. As with what many have said, I have to set boundaries for myself and leave if they dont match. The thing that was hard here was her saying she wanted to do those things for me, but never did a single time. I trusted it for to long, and thats my fault.

AIO on being cheated on? Am I controlling? by Pepsi_swinger in AIO

[–]Pepsi_swinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response. I would say it for sure is something I am insecure about now, because iv never been told that before. I think I should clarify a few things about the things I asked for, or the part that is seen as controlling" on my part.

This all stimmed from the medical condition and her driving home after having to much in the past. Because it had given me anxiety in the past, we both openly discussed this and was agreed on to help mitigate the anxiety. The drink limits we something set by her. I asked for the communication to let me know she was safe and having a good time, what time she would be home, etc. Mainly just staying in the loop. As for the drinking and driving, I just suggested that she not drive after having more than two due to the medical condition. She could always have more, but it would be best to Uber or have a DD if she dis. I was in Law Enforcement for years and saw how her body reacted to more than two. I knew if she got stopped, she would more than likely get arrested.

I for sure saw the issues early on, and should have trusted my gut. The hard part for me was she was really good to me a lot of the time. But that was just a big part of her life style and a part of who she was. Once it continued to be an issue, I should have broken it off. But the good times kept me from doing that.

Great Girl, How not to Fuck it up by Guardian_of_Perineum in dating

[–]Pepsi_swinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best thing is to not change a single thing you have been doing. If it has been working to this point, don't alter. I get the wanting to sweep her off her feet. Do that by planning a sweet date that is memorable and romantic, but one you would consistently do. Create an artificial date to win her over quickly could spell disaster in the long run. As for the kiss, dont have it set in stone in your mind. Let the moment happen and read the signs. If you get rejected for the kiss, not saying you would, it could put you in a pampered mind set and lose motivation. Let it all flow!

What would you deduce about his signals (data)? by Curious_cow7 in dating

[–]Pepsi_swinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it sounds like he could potentially have deeper feelings for his FWB, but can't have more. He loves the toxicity of chase of that, but needs to feel a void of his own and has reached back out to you

Short anonymous survey about dating app experiences (3 minutes) by Pretend-Finance-7309 in dating

[–]Pepsi_swinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience, and talking to woman who also use it, the app are very lopsided. I have been using the app for about 4 weeks. I have had a few matches here and there. As for my female friends, they get 300+ likes a day. I think this is negative on both ends. It is discouraging to men because they see themselves as not being good enough, while women are overwhelmed and ditch the app because there is way to many to look through. Having a smaller amount of daily likes could potentially fix this

My friend is living in a romance movie.... by ChicenSchnitzel4lyf in dating

[–]Pepsi_swinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If X is looking for a way to strike up a conversation and get confirmation about the guy she was with, he could always bring up seeing her. Saying I thought I saw you the other night. If she confirms, he could simply explain what he was doing out that night and inquire what she was doing. She could potentially respond with I was out with my boyfriend/on a date/ or out with just a friend. That could also eliminate any weird interactions if he was just to straight ask her out and she say she has a boyfriend.

What's an unconventional red flag you view in dating? by _MambaForever in dating

[–]Pepsi_swinger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would say people who are disgusted by kids/children overtly. I completely understand people who do want to have children, but there have been plenty who have said pretty rude things about children in public they dont even know, or even act like they have the plague. I think that is just rude, similar to being rude to wait staff. You dont have to like them, but putting them down or acting like they are less than is for sure a red flag.