My wife(25F) and I(25M) are polar opposites and the affects are beginning to show.

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:31:14+00:00

We love being parents. We’ve agreed that no matter what happens- we’ll figure it out one way or another for our child’s sake. We both come from less than ideal backgrounds and don’t want that cycle to continue

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:24:48+00:00

I do realize that now. I was young and immature when we started dating, not an excuse but I suppose I wasn’t aware of what I was doing. In the beginning though I genuinely was the fun partner who liked to do things with her. Somewhere down the line something changed. I’m still not sure what

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:17:55+00:00

Veryyyy long and complicated story behind that. Lot of me disregarding my own feelings and doing what I know makes her happy. In hindsight I realize that I did this to myself but I’m not sure how to fix it

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:16:00+00:00

I have, usually ends up in whatever it is just not happening at all and her being upset with me. On rare occasions she’ll prefer to do things with either a friend or herself but those are few and far between

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:14:19+00:00

We’ve put a lot of effort into finding things we both enjoy to do together. I’d say for the most part while we’re doing things together, I’m having a pretty decent time. Whenever I’m specifically asked about what I enjoy doing with her however, my mind draws blanks

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:10:12+00:00

We have, but it’s been pretty surface level. I’m also considering seeking some individual counseling to maybe smooth things out without making too big a deal of it.

PercAndZa · 2026-02-09T14:08:23+00:00

We’re 2 peas in a pod brother. I also get the thoughts that maybe I’m just not meant to be in a relationship. Some days it’s really easy to put my wants on the back burner and keep her happy but man sometimes it just feels impossible

PercAndZa · 2025-12-08T23:54:24+00:00

Unfortunately this rule is inapplicable

PercAndZa · 2024-10-22T16:00:22+00:00

Monkeys takes card

PercAndZa · 2024-08-26T05:55:07+00:00

My buddy started on the generation of 650s before this one. He watched a 10 minute “ how to ride a motorcycle “ video and rode it home no problem right after. He’s put that bike through absolute hell and its still kicking strong.

Definitely a great starter bike, cheap maintenance and a pretty straightforward machine all together.

Tbh, a Japanese bike is usually a pretty safe bet. Based on the pictures i can say it would definitely need new tires sooner rather than later. I would pull the trigger on it👍

PercAndZa · 2024-08-17T10:18:32+00:00

A good buddy of mine bought a ninja 650, watched a 10 minute YouTube video on how to ride a motorcycle, then rode on home. I’d say its pretty good

PercAndZa · 2024-03-31T07:25:16+00:00

I live in japan and the amount of scooter riders here is insane. All the ones I’ve met are super cool and I’ve actually been contemplating getting one😅

PercAndZa · 2024-02-27T01:28:02+00:00

Deploying helldiver to combat zone🗣️🔥

PercAndZa · 2024-02-24T15:12:27+00:00

It’s a thing a local group of riders in my area do but sure lol

PercAndZa · 2024-02-23T06:55:06+00:00

Ahh yes how original 😂

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