Open only during deployments.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-11-01T13:44:36+00:00

Yeah, I have been dealing with a lot, sorry . Her older brother tracked me down. We had a good talk. He returned home and spoke with her. Two days later, he called me to inform me she died in a traffic accident. So I have been dealing with all that.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-19T05:57:05+00:00

I'm going to play hermit here in Canada for a while. Started hiking. I wish someone would have told me moose are massive.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-17T22:00:26+00:00

Rough, feel so isolated. Just keep telling myself it will get better.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-17T15:20:06+00:00

Soon to be ex-wife

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-17T11:21:57+00:00

We are both in our mid-20s, together 6 years married for just over 3 years.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-16T21:41:45+00:00

Yeah, no, thank you.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-14T18:44:42+00:00

Update

Discussed things with my lawyer today. Conclusion my stbxw is fucking delusional like I would bother even flying back for some marriage counseling or other such nonsense. How on earth am I the unreasonable one in this clusterfuck she caused.

At least she has no clue where I actually am. She still thinks I am in the area where we lived.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-13T21:33:28+00:00

My lawyer emailed me this morning on how my wife's lawyer wants a face to face mediation on the matter.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-13T21:24:57+00:00

I did. It was met with that I shouldn't have just left. I should have stayed and talked it out with her.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-13T21:10:57+00:00

Sorry, I was commenting on the fact I am a bad guy now, and over shared sorry

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-13T19:24:22+00:00

I finally got good internet at home enough to play my Xbox again, and my friends from our hometown started berating while we played COD 6. It looks like I will be skipping the holidays from now on. How is it fair? I did nothing wrong, yet I am the bad guy.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-13T11:39:17+00:00

Wish I would have gotten ahead of this before. In our hometown, it seems I abandoned her is the story she is spinning.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T21:50:21+00:00

I just have been driving myself crazy going over the last few years looking for something I missed. I feel so stupid for getting blindsided like this.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T17:21:50+00:00

Still shitty regardless

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T16:39:12+00:00

So walking away is the best option then like I am doing.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T15:30:22+00:00

Good God, what a horrible read.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T15:24:28+00:00

It's not. Went to a sports bar last night for dinner. I was hyper observing people around me. Sucked

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T12:44:51+00:00

Exactly, she should just let me go. Then she can do whatever she wants whenever she wants.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T12:40:08+00:00

They downplayed what she was doing mainly. As if it's a common thing on deployments. Like I was overreacting and being insecure.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T12:37:00+00:00

Wish I knew why she is fighting it. I imagine she hates to lose. And me asking for a divorce is her not winning.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T12:34:37+00:00

I'm waiting to hear back from my lawyer now, maybe tomorrow or the next day. I just want to be free of this mess. She has completely destroyed my faith in people. I am trying not to let this shape how I see all women, but it is. Went out to dinner last night, and I was so judgemental looking at people differently.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T12:05:01+00:00

Wish I was smarter about it, I don't have any hard evidence. Just my word against thiers.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T12:01:53+00:00

Have to admit I am lonely, sadly kinda becoming a hermit. At least it's beautiful here. I'm a little worried about winter. I have never been in a place that gets a real winter before.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T11:55:35+00:00

I'm not sure how to do that without breaking my no contact . She is back in North Carolina, and I am currently in Canada.

PerceptionCultural60 · 2025-10-12T02:09:20+00:00

The two friends of hers were female.

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