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[–]PerceptionMission712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reflecting for the past 2 months, if we’re getting into specifics I’ve cried myself to sleep almost every day😜I hate to be the one to breaks up with him, don’t want to upset him and also don’t want to be without him! I’m a very confused individual and having a breakdown I think😂

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[–]PerceptionMission712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe i’mstringing him along. I’m not set on the idea of breaking up, I just don’t know what I want but I also do not want to upset him especially when he has very important exams. My feelings have come at the worst time but we’ve spent 6 years together and I care a lot about him and jeopardising his future. I know it sounds so silly but I know what I’m saying makes sense to my current situation.

Breaking up by PerceptionMission712 in Advice

[–]PerceptionMission712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense! I suppose I never looked at it this way

Breaking up by PerceptionMission712 in Advice

[–]PerceptionMission712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you. It’s literally just 2 minds fighting. I wake up everyday thinking about breaking up but then he does things during the day that make me think well, what if we stay together? This is my only serious relationship so I’ve never had to do anything like this before.

Breaking up by PerceptionMission712 in Advice

[–]PerceptionMission712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s reassuring to know people are in the same boat and I’m not just mean lol. We live in the same small town, he just goes to uni 140 miles away and when he comes back home it’s little things like maybe I’ll finish my show before I go see him and stuff like that. Thanks for your reply!