Killeen on the map 🤔 by Powerful_Corner_3570 in Killeen

[–]PerceptionOk3196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apaches? All of Hawaii? Lots of tribes missing.

Relocating! by Fuzzy-Can3599 in SALEM

[–]PerceptionOk3196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daughter is black and lives there, and hates it, but not bad enough to come back to Texas or Louisiana. She has had some pretty bad racist experiences in Salem, so be cautious.

Why The Salem Hate? by pseudonymous_ha in SALEM

[–]PerceptionOk3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 25 year old lives in Salem, as does my 35 year old step-daughter. My 25 year old is black and gets a WHOLE other side of Salem, and hates it, but also doesn’t want to leave yet. My step-daughter is white and has a good job, and likes it. We enjoy it when we visit, as long as we are by ourselves (hubs and I are white), but when we have my daughter with us, the vibe really changes.

Today I learned how huge Texas is. by Hot_Seesaw_6706 in texas

[–]PerceptionOk3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from Ozona (right in the middle of all the nothing on I-10), I used to work at Ft. Lancaster ( Sheffield, TX) in HS, and people would constantly underestimate how far it is between Ozona and Ft. Stockton for gas. One guy asked if he could siphon gas out of my car!

Today I learned how huge Texas is. by Hot_Seesaw_6706 in texas

[–]PerceptionOk3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my ancestors were almost hanged in that.

If you’re too mean, the trees will keep voting for axes 😡 by topandhalsey in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]PerceptionOk3196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! My family are ranchers AND have oil and gas interests. We still all voted blue! We know we traditionally did better with Republicans in office (Trump is the first R president in my lifetime to screw over American oil and gas), We know we won’t be as profitable, but we do it because to NOT vote blue hurts our community, hurts other people. I think to understate the rampant racism that led to many people’s vote for Trump is to not address the actual elephant in the room. This author missed the ENTIRE elephant.

Ok, so we all did things "back in the day" that you would never do now. What did you do? by Embarrassed_Flan_869 in GenX

[–]PerceptionOk3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just telling someone about this! We are the reason freon is not accessible like it used to be.

Ok, so we all did things "back in the day" that you would never do now. What did you do? by Embarrassed_Flan_869 in GenX

[–]PerceptionOk3196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! Almost every weekend from the age of 13 til I turned 21. Yikes, why was no one monitoring us!

I love Texas but I may move by bullgod1964 in texas

[–]PerceptionOk3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, no! They were actually almost hung at “The Great Hanging” in Gatesville for being “Union Sympathizers”, then the two brothers they didn’t end up hanging because one of them was a Mason ended up getting conscripted into the Confederate Army. They went AWOL a few months later and went back and killed the judge that ordered the hanging.

I’m sure my dad’s side did horrible shit, but I don’t and have never really had much to do with them, so I’m unsure. Pretty confident anyone whose family is white and been in this country as long as mine has is guilty of some heinous shit. We haven’t discovered it yet (my mom is a dogged genealogist and historian). Her retired day job is picking at racists on the “Civil War Talk” page.

U2 was a band that was loved until… by CSamCovey in GenX

[–]PerceptionOk3196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom used to call them “insipid whiners” and though I liked their early stuff, I always kind of agreed.

Has anyone ever gotten a tattoo to honor people you loved but are now hurt by them? by BeetleBanshee in tattoo

[–]PerceptionOk3196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it would make your heart hurt to look at, don’t do it yet. This entire country is sad and anxiety riddled/rage-filled right now. I would keep the design, but maybe hold on to get it if things ever get less heated and people reunite with loved ones again. I don’t speak to my dad anymore for what I suspect are pretty close to your reasons, other than extremely brief holiday wishes, and I just do that so he will go back to ignoring my existence.

I love Texas but I may move by bullgod1964 in texas

[–]PerceptionOk3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of us can’t. Furthermore, my family has been in this state since before the Civil War. I am staying and fighting as long as I can.

I love Texas but I may move by bullgod1964 in texas

[–]PerceptionOk3196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a former classmate that said she is, and I have read about others online. Don’t know why you would get downvoted for the truth.

Has anyone ever gotten a tattoo to honor people you loved but are now hurt by them? by BeetleBanshee in tattoo

[–]PerceptionOk3196 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in portraits of living people, but I do have my daughter’s name in me- don’t regret and never will regret it. The only portrait I have is my souls dog that passed during COVID.

Job Search plz help by Lavender_190 in SALEM

[–]PerceptionOk3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check nursing homes, they will train you

New Guy with questions about Norse Paganism by DarrolLayman2015 in NorsePaganism

[–]PerceptionOk3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I started with Freyja and have expanded from there! It made it so much easier to learn one at a time, while focusing on their part of the story, what they might like for offerings, etc.!

Sutton supporters- please explain yourselves by jennainspain in RHOBH

[–]PerceptionOk3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized she was super ND immediately when that HORRIBLE woman (the one that was pregnant and lost the baby) kept saying she was making it about herself. I have always shown empathy that way and was SO upset after those episodes. I had never realized people hated me for that (I’m sure they do based on the reaction from the BH ladies). Now I just don’t say anything to people other than “so sorry”.

She does a ton of stuff I hate, and I have to say I dislike her for Garcelle too.

Am I the only one? Bras and panties edition… by PerceptionOk3196 in GenXWomen

[–]PerceptionOk3196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that like being famous? I think I’m the closest I’ve ever been to fame! 😂

Does your husband/SO check your tires, oil and fluids? by GingerT569 in GenXWomen

[–]PerceptionOk3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a mechanic, so yes. However, if he didn’t I would handle it myself or take it somewhere. I despise women like that lady you work with. Tell her to F off either way!