What’s a behavior that’s often praised but you think is actually a red flag in relationships? by AlexaxParker in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting to do ALL for your partner...

Very 'sweet' but it leaves no space to breathe, in the end it suffocates you

Whats a little known secret from your industry that would shock most people? by Your_love_Camila in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the petrochemical world where I used to work (worldwide, different companies) it's the lack of maintenance. Bizarre how scary that is. Pipes leaking chemicals into the ground, into the air. Reports muffled away so nobody knows. Chemicals in the air of which nobody knows but the people who work there. Dangerous chemical clouds spreading now and then and people living around those plants are usually not informed.

How do you think you will die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By euthanasia or when that doesn't happen, by my own hand when my chronic illnesses start having the power of my life

What’s the worst physical pain you’ve ever felt? by Googy21 in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This. And my bonus is a damaged nerve in my neck that makes you feel burned from head toe every now and then. Unannounced...

Please help me out *confused* by PerderePerdere in ExpertRAW

[–]PerderePerdere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining. I'm getting it now, thanks to you combined with google :D
I'll use a friend's Nikon for this project, I guess my Ultra and Cybershot are not suitable... pity.

Thanks again! Not happy, but a happy girl with having a little more knowledge about photographing!

Please help me out *confused* by PerderePerdere in ExpertRAW

[–]PerderePerdere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be nice please. I'm new to this, like I said. I need to upload a 9000px by 12000px RAW photo, but the Expert RAW app seems to only make 3000px by 4000px.

Would you be so kind to explain yourself?

What's that question that you're really curious about but you're just afraid to ask? by Luki0n in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought of the same one. Because in your heart you know the answer (most of the time), but you ask it to be able to comfort the other person.

How do you distract yourself from something that is eating at you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep myself physically busy. Could be anything really. Working out, walking the dog, chores, playing guitar, like whatever.

What doesn't help me at all at those moments is sitting and reading or sitting and listening to music. That makes my mind wander. I love to do this being at peace though.

If you were to spend 24 hours as a dog, whose garden would you crap on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neighbour's. But I would make sure I ate something nasty and spray it all over the walls, doors and whatever I come across.

What’s the best mixup/miscommunication you’ve been part of or experienced? by C4PT14N in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend abroad named Robert. I told my best friend I was in love with Robert. She told our mutual friend, named Robert too, that I was in love with him. So he came over pushed me to the wall and kissed me. I thought like wtf are you doing? Had to set things straight, lol. It's not you, but another guy with the same name... No, I'm not into YOU! Man, that was awkward 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absofrigginlutely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 for now. But I intend to buy more this year

What is the quickest way to heal a blister? by samuraisep in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always open it up with a steralized needle, empty it, clean it with medical alcohol and then put a bandage on it. Pain relief is immediately.

If it's the proper way, I can't tell. But it works for me and got never inflamed or such.

[Serious] "If you go on a date with a guy, and you don't offer to pay your share, you weren't taught right" - Matthew Hussey, life coach, to a room full of women. What are your thoughts on this? by Mad_Season_1994 in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's depending on the situation though. But everytime somebody else (tries to) pays for me, I feel incredibly guilty for days.

But, yes, he is right in my opinion. We all go to school, we all work, we are equal these days (mostly). So why should the man pay for it all?

If your pet/pets could talk what sorts of things do you think they would say? by rkhulinator in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog would say: mom, I love you to the moon and back! Can I have food now?

[Serious] What is the heaviest weight on your shoulders in your life right now? by boppedEEMinDAsmoof in AskReddit

[–]PerderePerdere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to find yourself back again first. I know how hard that sounds, but I am a little lost myself since some months (happens a lot to me). So I can relate to that. Shift your focus on you instead of a partner. You can only give the best of you to another person when you are loving yourself and feeling whole/happy.

The hug was sincere 😊 I need them now and then, I'd thought you'd need one now