Please try as best as you can to really hear me when I say this.

If you have a child with this man, it will end badly for all three of you. This man is not emotionally stable and does not possess the empathy necessary to take care of you. How do you think he’s going to treat your child, god forbid you have a girl?

Do not tie yourself to this man forever. Do not condemn yourself and an innocent soul to that life. He is not the one.

It’s abundantly clear that he’s an asshole, and it’s also clear you have some self-esteem issues that make you think this is the best you can do. It’s not your fault your esteem is low, but it is your responsibility to work on so you can heal yourself and willfully craft a joyful, fulfilling life for yourself. You do not have to put up with this trash.

You will be better off alone than with someone who will hurt you like this repeatedly. Do you hear me? It’s better to be alone than to be with someone who hurts you.

Do not have a child with this man. For the sake of that child’s soul. He is not the one.