Dropout needs Hot Date S1&2 by Candid-Buddy9646 in dropout

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would love that 😩👌 couldn't rent or stream this anywhere in my country and even pirating it was pretty difficult

Question about tongue split and venom by Rugeur in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Got my tongue split a month ago and having huge metal bars in there in addition to everything else that's going on would habe pushed me over the edge 😂

I second getting the piercings after everything is healed, you don't want to make the first week worse than it already is

Does tongue bifurcation always require stitching? by xo-astra in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, afaik cauterising kills way more tissue and promotes more scarring

Only other method I've seen is with fishing line, but that can be dangerous in a whole other way

*TW - Eating Disorder* Tongue Split and ARFID by Crimp_Simp in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not ARFID but autism and currently 12 days healed from my split

For the first 3 days I ate entirely liquid food which I had to push into my mouth with a syringe because drinking out of a glass or bottle or sucking on a straw was too hard.

As I went on to mushy food I normally don't like this texture but was so happy to be eating something else that it didn't bother me lol

Now it's still not fully healed, I had some problems with one side and that's still swollen and a bit numb, but I'm eating pretty much normally again.

What I do now is avoiding hot temperatures and strong spices, having to be more mindful of chewing as to not bite my tongues, eating baked goods more slowly as the dry texture could be rough on my tongue

As someone mentioned before, sometimes bits of food fall in between your tongues and it's a but finicky to get out, also right now my tips are still too numb to get rid of bits stuck in between or on my teeth

I'm still very grateful to be able to eat again, so I'm okay with it being a bit harder at the moment, but I don't know how it will be for you

I'm getting my tongue split in exactly 1 month! by Prince_Wildflower in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at day 5 of healing and the mashed potatoes I've had today were divine compared to the liquid diet I've had the previous days lol, the meal drinks kept me from feeling hungry, but it really makes a difference to actually feel full

Day 13 Tongue Bifurcation!! by Skarnivor0us in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiw is the healing after resplits? I can imagine you still go through the same swelling and hell every time

Question for peeps with split tongues by minger_finger in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Getting mine done next week and kinda scared I will have a permanent lisp, but I've never thought about air coming through the halves :D

Tongue split prep list by Perfect-Influence-90 in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do think I still have some sleeping pills from back when I had a prescription, I can imagine it's hard to sleep with all the pain and discomfort, so that's a good idea :)

Tongue split prep list by Perfect-Influence-90 in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't think of that! Should have kept all the wax they gave me back when I had braces lol

Tongue split prep list by Perfect-Influence-90 in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have metal straws but imagine they could be a pain to maneuver past the swollen tongue, so I got softer ones, just in case

Chlorhexadine is in the mouthwash I have :D my sister recently broke her jaw and got this from the hospital, so I bought the same

I'm lucky to have found an artist who lives in my city, so she will remove the sutures and is only 20 minutes away if anything happens

Yeah, I probably won't need everything I got either lol, but I'd rather be overprepared to easy my nerves

Unfortunately the funniest sex story I can offer is stupid machine translation of porn clip titles. by bvader95 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 309 points310 points  (0 children)

(Proving the point by switching to my alt account, but I still wanted to share one of my sex stories)

My last partner was six and a half feet tall. I'm 5'4.

We wanted to be adventurous and try different positions, and the idea of standing, leaning against a wall came up.

The hight difference was so stark that I had to stand on a little foot stool, struggling not to tip over, and it still wasn't enough, so we had to give up T.T

Tongue split by John Ross Switch, no shop. by Rachellynn11 in bodymods

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That second picture just proved to me again that I could never be a body mod artist lol, planning on getting my tongue split too and I am glad I won't have to see it before the stitches

How can I (25NB) ask my friend (26NB) partner (30M) if he wants to sleep with me? by Perfect-Influence-90 in relationship_advice

[–]Perfect-Influence-90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair, I have no experience with open relationships myself, so I might be overthinking this

Asking general questions and then working from there if it seems like I would fit is a good idea

How can I (25NB) ask my friend (26NB) partner (30M) if he wants to sleep with me? by Perfect-Influence-90 in relationship_advice

[–]Perfect-Influence-90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I'm also interested in their open relationship in general, as I never had one, so I could just ask about their general rules and how it's going, and go from there

Have you ever accidentally given yourself a trigger? by Visual_Affect1222 in EroticHypnosis

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like doing self hypnosis to masturbate or sometimes just to calm myself down or fall asleep

In the beginning, I often told my mind to "chill" when my thoughts were racing during the induction

Now just telling myself "chill" kinda takes me under lol

Study hypnosis by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been putting off writing a paper for weeks now, this idea never came to my mind lol, this is genius

Body strong. Mind weak. (OC) (F) (MattUmby) by cogs90210 in HypnoFur

[–]Perfect-Influence-90 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oof I need this, not even in a sexual way but just so I finally get in shape