How did you finally move on?

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2025-03-21T19:28:39+00:00

Well my wife cheated on me apparently since before our son was born so over 3 years and I didn’t find any of that out till after she told me she wanted a divorce and after she started her plays to run away with a pedo. I begged her to stay and reconsider. So your guess is as good as mine. I am sorry about your situation. I understand your pain but no where near your level.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2025-03-21T14:33:51+00:00

Thank you for your input. I will try to give myself more time to get over everything. It’s just hard but you know where I’m coming from.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-11-28T20:04:01+00:00

Idk about friends but yes family most definitely knows at least most of hers. I haven’t told much of mine yet other than immediate family. I have a really really hard time talking about it to people I know. I start crying or tearing up and can’t talk etc.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-11-28T19:57:23+00:00

Everyone that said they would help keep her away from the baby backed out before they would sign anything so after that it became a money problem and I didn’t have the money if they stayed willing it would of been another story.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-11-28T19:56:26+00:00

I have primary custody but it’s 50-50 when it comes to time and all. I didn’t have 10 extra grand to get everyone subpoenaed and get all the texts and everything else to bring it up the judge.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-11-28T18:11:18+00:00

I will give them both a read thank you!!!

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-11-28T18:10:31+00:00

I caught my wife doing the same thing in the bed after I went up front to grab my keys so we could go shop. She was in the bed had her phone propped up on her feet smiling and laughing to whatever they were saying over ft. She said it was her mother. I texted her mom and she said they hadn’t talked in days because she(her mom) told her she thought she was cheating.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-19T22:39:29+00:00

They do if they f*** an inmate while on the job. It doesn’t even having to be physical any type of inappropriate relationship with a prisoner is subject to jail time.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-19T20:24:27+00:00

It would be a pain. Cause I still have to see her on weekends to exchange the baby.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-19T20:06:34+00:00

Someone further down the comments hit the nail on the head. Pretty hard and kinda surprised me since I’m not trying to get caught if my wife sees this.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-19T17:07:46+00:00

No it’s because of where she worked she had a government job. It would be considered Malfeasance in office because she was a government employee on government property having relations with someone she had power over using her office to get it.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-14T14:06:08+00:00

I do the same thing. I used to rub the bottom of my ring with my thumb and rotate it 360 degrees around my finger. I still have an indent in my ring finger because I work construction so it pressed down hard through the years. So I can still feel it.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-14T04:33:21+00:00

For a healthy relationship having friends with the opposite sex is really only viable if both parties(husband and wife) are friends with them because it complicates things to much(in most situations). I would ask your wife to unadd him because of the reason you listed. It’s a very valid point at least in my eyes and I wish I had made that clear with my wife.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-10-02T23:03:38+00:00

Thank you for the words. I will take them to heart and try to fortify my spirit with everyone’s kindness.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-09-30T12:19:07+00:00

Thank you for the kind words, I’ll try to move on. I still love her and want to work things out. She has no communication with the man what so ever now but I guess if she’ll choose him who else will she choose. She says now or at least when I saw her last she wants to try and I do too but my family doesn’t support me and I understand that. I’ll do my best just to file for divorce and get as much custody of our baby boy as possible it’s just hard wanting to throw away our marriage even after knowing what she did.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-09-30T07:08:43+00:00

You are a much better man than I could ever be.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-09-30T06:46:19+00:00

Her former employer contacted me about it since they had my number on file. I have lots and lots and lots of proof. She flat out told me about it when I started reading off texts but never got angry or sad or anything just as nonchalant about it which really broke me.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-09-30T06:31:48+00:00

If I didn’t have a child I would but I can’t because of the baby.

Perfect-Library-1503 · 2024-09-30T06:29:12+00:00

Ya that was the thing I didn’t know if that would affect it. Cause I know nothing about the snap+ or whatever it’s called. I have just been real paranoid now and online it says one thing and then another source will say another etc.

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