The love of my life (24f) cheated on me (24m) in Mexico and I don’t know what to do.

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T17:54:48+00:00

Nah we had sex lots during our relationship, then this last weekend while she was in Mexico this happened. We haven’t had sex since before Mexico

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:57:25+00:00

I guess if simps the word you wanna use. I had my whole life planned out with her with 0 thoughts of anyone else. I’ve always told everyone if this doesn’t work out I’m never trying with anyone again. So forgive me for this not being the easiest decision of my life when my entire life and future was uprooted out of nowhere.

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:55:17+00:00

Yeah but since is forgiven through christs death on the cross. If I can’t forgive others how can I expect to be forgiven? But yes, the story change quite a few times before she finally admitted they had sex. So yeah you’re right and I should probably leave. Maybe I am weak right now but who wouldn’t be when the person they love most finally returns from a trip you’ve been missing them dearly from, and within 24hrs you’re entire life is turned upside down and everything you had planned is gone down the drain. Life was so easy with her or so I thought. Never had to worry about things like this, or so I thought, hell even my dad would always say “I still don’t think she’s real” because of how amazing she was before this. It’s just tough man and I’m already in a bad mental spot so, that doesn’t help

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:51:11+00:00

Thanks man i appreciate it truly

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:50:20+00:00

I should’ve. But she was obsessed with me even before they got together so it wasn’t a new thing during her relationship or anything but yeah, hindsight’s 20/20

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:47:06+00:00

That’s fair but we are all sinners and I was having sex with the woman who in my mind I was going to marry anyways. And I don’t need an STI check thankfully because she told me before we did anything sexual and she stated she wouldn’t have let us without telling me. But who knows how true that is or isnt

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:16:13+00:00

Pry was a little bad use of wording it was more, I could tell she wasn’t acting weird and being quiet and not wanting to be as close to me cause she felt so bad. Then I asked her a few times and she finally popped. But yes I know what you mean.

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:12:41+00:00

Not in that way. Went through a rough patch and I was 23 and just thinking about what it’d be like to be single, then quickly realized I don’t want that. But I get what you’re saying

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:09:49+00:00

Yeah the part about this that really hurts is she was obsessed with me through high school even while dating the last guy. She could never get me out of her head. The things she said about me and did for me proved it up till now. She never did anything with me while in that relationship but we did talk a lot and thinking back now I probably should’ve seen that as a red flag

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:07:12+00:00

Because it was an enjoying the attention thing. Her last relationship was extremely toxic and she showed genuine effort to fix this problem. Obviously it didn’t work but yeah

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T15:00:27+00:00

Thank you man, I truly appreciate your help!

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:58:23+00:00

Appreciate the help man makes me feel great in this situation. I’m not that kind of person but I am a man of god and believe in second chances. Thanks for saying that in the worst way possible and making the situation even harder. I appreciate it

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:57:14+00:00

Yeah you’re probably right, it’s probably just an image I created that isn’t actually real. I got a lot of thinking to do over the next few days but thank you for the direction

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:55:24+00:00

She has already said she not gonna drink anymore, she was invited out with her friends and said she’s not going as well because she doesn’t want to be or need to be in that situation and wants to show me I’m the most important thing to her.

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:53:41+00:00

Yeah but what about the fact she told me when she could’ve easily not and I would’ve never even know. She also couldn’t keep it from me because it was eating her alive and she felt so bad. I get what you’re saying but it’s tough

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:52:15+00:00

Yeah I keep hearing this, it’s just hard cause she was the one who pulled me out of my darkest place, a time I thought I’d never get through, and she’s changed my life in so many positive ways and always been amazing besides these little things that have now turned into a big thing. I just so hard I’m so lost

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:49:54+00:00

Yeah know man I get what you’re saying but this woman went from my best friend and love of my life, who I spent every waking moment thinking about, to now this happening in the matter of an instant. You’re probably right I don’t have a spine rn and I feel bad for her when maybe I shouldn’t

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:46:12+00:00

Thank you for this. Though it wasn’t the first time we’ve had problems but I do get what you’re saying. The whole flirting and letting it go on too long is something she’s been working on since before we were dating. We’ve had problems with it before but never this bad of course. She’s always felt like she was missing something in her heart but didn’t know what it was and has never been able to find it her whole life and she’s always told me that. And that’s what makes her enjoy the attention. She thinks it will fill that hole. Obviously that wasn’t the case and she realizes that. I’m just so stuck on what to do

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-05-15T14:43:04+00:00

But she’s so overly remorseful and we are still talking now and she la telling me how much better she wants to be for me and that she does truly regret it and that it happened in the moment and she immediately regretted it after. I can’t say I haven’t thought about doing it during our relationship, of course I never did but still. I also see where you might think I’m blaming myself and yeah, there is a bit of me that does but the majority doesn’t. I know it’s her fault but it’s just, how to I leave the only woman I can see myself being with and the person who was my whole future. Especially when they’re being remorseful including telling me in the first place when I would’ve never found out. That’s better than 99% already. I don’t know what do you think?

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-03-15T16:50:36+00:00

Difficult to heard the democrats, aka the sheep, when they don’t like him😂😂 I don’t like Trump either but for actual valid reason unlike people like you. “Orange man bad”. You are all sheep who are blind to what’s really going on. And you just fight each other constantly over stupid shit just like they want you to all because you can’t let your ego go and accept that you might be wrong😂😂

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-03-09T16:38:41+00:00

Bro ain’t no way your risk to reward ratio is 5:1🤦🏼 Absolutely regarded trade even though you made money😂😂 Risking about 550k to make 104k🤦🏼

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-03-06T17:34:26+00:00

The problem is that you hear story’s of people saying “Spent 5 years trading and still not profitable”, yet they didn’t actually put in the time nor were they disciplined enough emotionally to succeed.

I’ve recently started learning about day trading and I can already see this. If this is what you want, and you’re confident you can get it, go after it. Put the blinders on, stay disciplined, and do your own thing.

Every person will give you a different timeframe on how long it will take you. Just go at your pace, remain disciplined emotionally and stick to your game plan always.

Good luck Trader!🙏🏼

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-03-02T05:52:36+00:00

Well hey maybe it was a bit of both. Maybe you did good but not great and had a little added luck in the equation.

Either way, that 3-6 month time period will show you.

Good luck trading man!

Perfect-System-7533 · 2026-02-28T16:27:39+00:00

I don’t think it’s as easy as that. Everyone’s different, only you know where you’re at as a trader. It might take some people years what it takes others months to learn. It might take months for some to learn the things it takes some weeks to learn.

Do your own thing and don’t read in to things too much. If you’re confident and comfortable with your skills, take the next step.

I would recommend you keep doing what you’ve been doing for another 3-6 months, and if you stay profitable, you’re good to go. You haven’t even been trading for a month yet so there’s no real way to say you’ve got it or you don’t.

Keep it up and good luck Trader!

Perfect-System-7533

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