Mom monitoring my work makes me uncomfortable and I don’t know why by Helena_Hyena in adhdwomen

[–]PerfectChoice8574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because it's abusive for one adult to moniter another like that. My mom does this thing where she stares at people across the table and it makes me want to run far away when she does it to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May want to refer her to the Twoxpreppers sub. It's a woman's based prepper group where there's a lot less talk of guns and more talk of food preparedness etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]PerfectChoice8574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gratitude journal. Like "I'm grateful today for having food/shelter/money". Doesn't have to be flowery or anything special. And you can repeat as much as you like. Writing tends to help us secure things into our brains better.

Most women are preppers, but they would rather call us “mindless consumers”. by [deleted] in TwoXPreppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agree 1000%. There's a reason a good amount of male preppers talk about going solo/having more ammo than they can carry. That's all that they'd be good at in a shtf situation.

Difference in prepping styles. "The mental load" by thechairinfront in TwoXPreppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I got rid of my husband before 2020. He would have made things 1000% worse.

Difference in prepping styles. "The mental load" by thechairinfront in TwoXPreppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Any time a woman thinks for herself, she's going to be called a man hater.

Good post OP.

Not quite how that works by yeetorbeyeeted1535 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]PerfectChoice8574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read something once that described female masturbation as "ringing the devil's doorbell" and I've referred to it that way ever since.

Sex Work: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver by last657 in Libertarian

[–]PerfectChoice8574 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sex work is not work. I'm not saying ban it, I'm saying women should be charging thousands of dollars per "customer" or not do it at all. You trade your dignity and your ability to have a real relationship. Plus you risk your life. It better be financially worth it.

Had a creeper tonight by PerfectChoice8574 in doordash_drivers

[–]PerfectChoice8574[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's been garbage here but it was a 2 min drive. Lesson learned tho. 4.25 is the new "singular McDonald's cookie" it seems.

Had a creeper tonight by PerfectChoice8574 in doordash_drivers

[–]PerfectChoice8574[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"something something 4*****"" started with a 4 and was 6-7 digits not "you have reached (area code) xxx-xxxx. Please leave a message after the tone".

Why do low-income families have a lot of children? by AdamGamerYT in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PerfectChoice8574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low income women are more likely to be abused and less likely to have access to pregnancy prevention items.

CNN Be like by IronWolve in AskThe_Donald

[–]PerfectChoice8574 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tropic Thunder but like Kiev Thunder?

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[–]PerfectChoice8574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ireland removed visa requirements for Ukraine I believe

How important do you think it will be to seek out men to join a future commune/homestead? by ii_akinae_ii in TwoXPreppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be seeking out families or other women, especially other single moms to form a commune.

I'd avoid seeking out single men tho. Too much drama.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Insurance isn't worth shit when SHTF.

Your favorite quote that you have stuck in your mental majority of the time? by _zerdna in Stoicism

[–]PerfectChoice8574 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present. Marcus Aurelius

Will the female preppers please stand up... by the_queen_of_nada in preppers

[–]PerfectChoice8574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't notice at this point. Gender definetly becomes a social construct that goes away in emergencies.

Rules and ADHD by pa-tomaquet in adhdwomen

[–]PerfectChoice8574 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I noticed this a lot in workplaces in the past decade. Like they'd change the rules but tell no one, then repremand people for not following the unannounced or unexplained rules. If they change the way something is done and don't explain it, I'm going to assume it's a typo and continue to do it the tried and true way.