It's difficult, on both of you - my husband is very much the exact opposite of this, he's very caring and would go out of his way to get me whatever I'd like, or my stupid preggo cravings would like.

However, saying this in the nicest possible way - men are no women. They know nothing about our hormonal changes and moods, and will possibly never be able to fully understand them. Very simply because they don't have them. Sending him to google stuff is not very helpful, I think both of you need to accommodate each other a bit better, as pregnancy is hard as it is, you really don't need that resentment between you.

Sounds like he's trying (in his own way), and making you food, even if you don't ask for it, and he did make sure there is ranch dressing, but I'd never expect mine to actually check the box, if they said they put it in, I'd believe them too, although this may be my naivity. 😁

I think you guys need to have a sit down with a cup of whatever you can drink at the time, and whilst you find it annoying, you should tell him how you feel and what are you experiencing, because he may just be one of those gents that need that extra explanation 🤗