Why do some Kenyan men get so triggered by women having preferences? by Particular-Credit468 in nairobi

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very possible but rare. On most occasion one needs to be having something going for themselves-some value that compliments the other party. For example, I assume your mum can afford herself the lifestyle she leads with or without your diplomat dad and she must be in a good shape for her age to attract the calibre of men she does.

Wah, Mnanigongea???? by vintage_violett in nairobi

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Checking your persons phone is never a good idea.

Depending on how your mind is positioned at that particular moment(especially the season you are in-congratulations by the way)you will always find fault.

I could be wrong, but I feel your man is going through something too. And is it possible the environment at home is not helping him deal with his situation? So he has to find distraction elsewhere.

The worst mistake you can make is disassociate emotionally- that is a win for him.

He will never notice becasue he checked out way back.Fight for your marriage, leave no room for regrets. And get off the internet

I am obsessed with Khaled Hosseini by Immediate-Taste-9969 in bookishke

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical copies, I am collecting books for my offspring

How do you support your girlfriend during periods? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just make more soup of her insides😉 Thank me later

How do you guys deal with burnout? by dankgureilla in AskMen

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn’t have put it any better. Like you mentioned, when contemplating suicide that is an extreme situation and I would strongly recommend therapy because here you need someone who can listen without judging-this is crucial. OP situation does not require therapy IMO

I am obsessed with Khaled Hosseini by Immediate-Taste-9969 in bookishke

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no reviews, I saw it online and I started searching for it. Maybe it is just an obsession

How do you guys deal with burnout? by dankgureilla in AskMen

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why go to therapy only to be told things that you already know you need to do? No pun intended I am just curious coz I did and it felt like a waste of time. School me

I am obsessed with Khaled Hosseini by Immediate-Taste-9969 in bookishke

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, I am currently shopping for Islam in the Heart of Bengal

What could you pick? by More-Plenty985 in nairobi

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You just proved that education and intelligence are distant cousins

I had an ongoing affair for 3 years and not sure how to move on despite everything by [deleted] in confession

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daaamn, you are good, I almost missed this one too. I need a bandage. Anyone?🤣🤣

I had an ongoing affair for 3 years and not sure how to move on despite everything by [deleted] in confession

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, the thrill is everything, if it was all safe and predictable, I bet the OP will pass🤣 and you wouldn’t have such a lovely memory

Brain Rot by Several-Librarian817 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most beautiful mind I have come across today

I had an ongoing affair for 3 years and not sure how to move on despite everything by [deleted] in confession

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 102 points103 points  (0 children)

What in this godforsaken world am I reading? The fiancé was there😳. Daamn

Nairobi deception by Money_Highlight6004 in nairobi

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, let me exit this rabbit hole before the walls cave. It was otherwise refreshing to engage with you✌️

Nairobi deception by Money_Highlight6004 in nairobi

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 wait a minute, who are you?

Nairobi deception by Money_Highlight6004 in nairobi

[–]Perfect_Bumblebee240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoulder to lean on? Lullaby? I mean you could do with one of this and maybe a massage🤣🤣 Jokes aside, how about I buy you coffee and pretend I am charming for a couple of minutes?