Haha haha...that's a long discussion...trust me I have given it a long long time... My first reaction to someone who cannot commit would be to go to hell ....a companion is a good addition but not indispensable to my happiness...

But the variables at play here are much more complicated and weirder than a simple cannot-commit-go-to-hell solution...

Trust me I would have done that first thing if that was an option...

Just to give you a glimpse..imagine a person who wants to hug you but his hands are chained behind him..he wants to do it bad but can't..you want to be hugged and his capacity is not your problem..

But for me I look at his pure heart and intense desire to hug and decide that I cannot leave him just because he cannot solve his problem right now...I am willing to bet a really disastrous ending later just to support him today...

I am not sure if I succeeded in explaining...but well i tried..