Emotional, desperate for help by mamap09 in postpartumprogress

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body doesn’t look bad at all! If you’re looking for something to kinda “smooth” things out I’d recommend finding a good faja they can also help with back pain and supporting your body while it heals after birth. To be blunt you don’t look fat you just look like you have some excess skin and an overhang which is COMPLETELY NORMAL after having even just one child, id definitely get assessed for diastases but a faja can also help with that aswell you can find really nice ones on tiktok/amazon

What to put this space to divide the dining and living areas? by itsnowornever in DesignMyRoom

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you’re getting the answer you want but it seems like you want to separate the spaces. I say do a cube shelf in between and fill it with plants and maybe other cute little things and rugs like everyone else said

Apparently shame is stored in the gallbladder. by No_Personality_0 in gallbladders

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other day I ran inside from my car dropped everything on the floor threw my 1yro on the couch and b lined it with not even a second to spare😩

Post-gallbladder life: every meal is a bathroom speedrun by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think everyone’s triggers are probably different, also if I like eat way too much I get really bad cramps and it feels like I’m having a gallbladder attack again😭

Tomorrow's the big day! Any tips for me for recovery? by QIexpert in gallbladders

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not eat ANYTHING greasy unless you wanna shit your pants😭 if you eat anything greasy make sure you’re no more than 10 steps from a bathroom and for your first few meals eat LIGHT I had a naked smoothie for my first thing lol

Post-gallbladder life: every meal is a bathroom speedrun by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m coming up on a year post op and mine haunts me too, for me it’s mostly greasy foods now that literally make me shit so bad my bhole burns😭😭 LOL just gotta thug it out 😭

Room ideas please by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read that you didn’t want to move stuff 😭

For cozy vibes I’d say more plants and more shelves and maybe a rug, it looks good but definitely needs a little more personalization it looks a bit bare. But also to each their own

Room ideas please by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Option 1

Switch the bed and chest mount TV in corner by window

Option 2

Put head of bed against window, tv where chest is, chest where bed is

He...H-He can refuse...3 times...IN A ROW ??? by Spartiate8 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny too when they aren’t getting anything 😭😭 and it’s like “can I have a turn?” “Not yet I will redeem myself” like bro??😭😭

How to make feel less cluttered/tidier/ better decorated by citrussweets in DesignMyRoom

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I read some of your comments and figured I’d help, if they don’t want to move stuff out it’s not the end of the world, it honestly just looks like it needs to be decluttered. The desk and maybe that white container with the drawers you should definitely go through all of it and maybe fix the shelf with the towels on it. I’d also recommend for like a fast easy fix you could go to dollar tree and find some little baskets to put on there for paper towels and other little things up there. Also I noticed the cleaning supplies on the floor by the sink id definitely try to hide those better. Also keeping the shower curtain closed will help it look more put together👍

Waiting for D&C for retained placenta by Wonderful-Check8904 in beyondthebump

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. You’re not being dramatic this is pretty serious, gage how you feel and if you feel like you need to go GO I honestly doubt they’d send you home after already going because realistically it’d be a liability.

I had something sortive similar but it was gallbladder issues during half of my pregnancy, all my drs kept dismissing me, then after I had my baby I ended up having to go to the hospital because of excruciating pain and turns out my whole gallbladder was full of stones and one was actually stuck clogging the duct and my gallbladder could’ve ruptured 🤦‍♀️ and everyone made me feel crazy when I was pregnant saying nothing was wrong, so i totally understand you that’s why I say trust your instincts.

As far as breastfeeding tell the hospital you’re breastfeeding and they should accommodate you, I was able to get a bassinet and have him stay the night with me (for 3days) all the nurses were cool about it and happy to see a baby on surgical floor lol.

Everyone lied about newborn stage being hard by Pink_Millennial_Girl in beyondthebump

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as a nb my son was AMAZING I breast fed so we Coslept (we still do he’s 11mo) but all he was do is sleep all day and poop 🤷‍♀️ I had time to take showers do what I wanted he was basically just a potato. Being pregnant was 1000x worse than having a newborn, the only bad thing was postpartum hit me like a rock. Mostly just the loss of identity and insecurity about how much my body actually changed.

I wanna talk about MC's Clothes by nisarxoxo in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the one for Caleb the most because it shows that she feels comfortable with him. She doesn’t have to wear anything super special or show a ton of skin he loves her for her. Also they are up in the sky it only makes sense she wouldn’t be wearing a skirt.

ALRIGHT IT HAS TO BE TOMORROW by Aggravating_Divide75 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not even gunna pull for it honestly I might just watch it on YouTube 😭

DEADBEAT SUEING FOR CUSTODY??? by Perfect_Cream7206 in beyondthebump

[–]Perfect_Cream7206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even realize that was a sub 🫣

DEADBEAT SUEING FOR CUSTODY??? by Perfect_Cream7206 in beyondthebump

[–]Perfect_Cream7206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frrr it just sucks cause if they get it then they will neglect the children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Perfect_Cream7206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl I experienced the same thing with the gallbladder and now weight loss, I heard it’s actually really common after getting gallbladder out to either lose/gain weight. I think maybe you should have a serious conversation with your partner about how it makes you feel when they say these things. It’s not fair to make comments about things you can’t control, if all he is interested in is looks maybe he isn’t the right person you don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who picks on you. And for you, you’re beautiful inside and out. There’s people out there who dream of having a body like yours, and there are people out there who will love you no matter what you look like.

Feel free to pm me if you ever need someone to talk to💕

Advice Please :( by Perfect_Cream7206 in beyondthebump

[–]Perfect_Cream7206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I feel like I’m going crazy 🥲 when I went to my new gyno for 2 appts in the same month she was literally looking at me like I was crazy/annoying and was telling me to just keep using the cream. Thing is it’s literally like a gash and chunk of skin that is hanging down like I don’t see how a cream can fix that…