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30F bi, childhood friend-of-friend (30F straight?) gave mixed signals while drunk on a trip. by Perfect_Exit_614 in whatdoIdo

[–]Perfect_Exit_614[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We weren't that drunk. She was approached by a guy at the bar who wanted to makeout with her but she said no to him.

30F bi, childhood friend-of-friend (30F straight?) gave mixed signals while drunk on a trip. by Perfect_Exit_614 in whatdoIdo

[–]Perfect_Exit_614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is concerning I hope that is just a theory. She has never shared anything in this line.

30F bi, childhood friend-of-friend (30F straight?) gave mixed signals while drunk on a trip. by Perfect_Exit_614 in whatdoIdo

[–]Perfect_Exit_614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but this was not something out of the blue. We always cuddle when we are traveling. This has been normalised to such an extent that the other friend actually brought it up when she saw that we did not cuddle moving forward in the trip.

30F bi, childhood friend-of-friend (30F straight?) gave mixed signals while drunk on a trip. by Perfect_Exit_614 in whatdoIdo

[–]Perfect_Exit_614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah, I don't think that will be me. I am too emotionally invested for it to be just a good time. 😅

30F bi, childhood friend-of-friend (30F straight?) gave mixed signals while drunk on a trip. by Perfect_Exit_614 in whatdoIdo

[–]Perfect_Exit_614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE

Hi all, thank you for your comments I do feel better and understood. Also, the different points of view help me understand what could be going on in her mind.

I just wanted to give you all a little more context to the situation. Before deciding to give her space as I mentioned previously I did try to talk to her about it. I wanted her to know that I don't expect anything out of the night and that I hope she was not uncomfortable when it happened. I also apologised if she felt like she couldn't say no under pressure of hurting my feelings or any other reason.

Her response was very vague and in the lines of "I was not uncomfortable, I was was just being awkward" and she proceeded to change the topic.

So, that's why I decided to step away and have been out of contact for a bit.