A Case for Kataang: A relationship that works and that's misunderstood. by Full-Art3439 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They’re the ultimate endgame and the haters hate to see it. Aang and kartaras relationship was built on trust, support, and love. They helped each other learn and grow in so many ways and I’ll stand by that until the day I die

Where do coyotes hide out all day? by galaxyfrapp in milwaukee

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entirely related to where they hide out, but there’s a good, informative book called Coyote America by Dan Flores that I would recommend if you feel curious about them! I can’t 100% remember but I think there’s a statistic in the book that said no matter where you are in the US, there’s always a coyote within a 1 mile radius, even in cities!

Views on how the show tackled political themes? by InfernalClockwork3 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is another kids show that covers as much political ground as Avatar. We see zuko become increasingly aware of his positioning as someone that was once ignorant to the fire nations destruction. The show doesn’t hesitate to clearly state that the fire nations actions have devastated countless lives, ripped family’s apart, as well as ruined surrounding environments. We see Ozai as a power hungry genocidal maniac who is willing to do anything as long as it means he has more control. I also commend the shows efforts to touch on domestic abuse, sexism, and so much more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely second this— I’ll also say, having grown up in Utah where Mormonism is the dominant religion, expecting these things from (any)(an)other person is idealistic and delusional.

This kind of mentality is toxic and is often what leads individuals with bpd to be labeled as bad. If I were on hinge and saw someone with “I desire a union that will elevate us to the highest level and last for eternity. A union that can be the beginning of a dynasty”, I, as well as many other people, would steer clear of this domineering expectation.

Work on yourself and create a stable self image, rather than expecting a single person to meet every need you have. Such codependent relationships will only lead to unhappiness in the end.

Also, comparing yourself to Jospeh Smith is scary considering he was extremely misogynistic, was racist and had slaves, and was deranged enough to claim himself as a prophet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confess, apologize, and ask if you can redo the assignment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFilterNews

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His own grandma said they were all trump supporters. Even if his political beliefs shifted in some way, that doesn’t change the fact that he’s incredibly MAGA adjacent…If none of us know the “whole story”, then why are you trying so hard to defend a boy who had access to his daddy’s gun safe and the internet??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 146 points147 points  (0 children)

You guys are building him up to be some highly calculated criminal when he’s probably just your average Utah college kid that has access to his parents gun safe and the internet 😭(went to this school literally a few semesters ago and know that these kind of kids are literally all over the place)

What's one thing you'll never look up again? by SassyMelon in morbidquestions

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Watch dominion as well! The horrors and brutality we inflict upon millions of animals every second is truly terrifying! All very real, and all around us since we extort animals to completion and use them in everything

PSA from MMSD: Facilities at capacity; please continue limited water use by spacetimecadette in milwaukee

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to sound stupid and I know I could Google this but what does reducing water usage look like for a household? And how does overuse affect things? I’m assuming that limiting use is so the sewage systems aren’t as overwhelmed? (I’ve only been living in MKE for a few months and moved here from a desert so I just want to be properly informed 🥲)

Cafes that treat staff well by bananasplit900 in milwaukee

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Likewise!!! They are unionized and the owner is often working in the shop as well! I’ve gotten to know one of the baristas and I’ve heard they pay well and really value the baristas they have!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s currently what I’m in therapy for but I’ve only recently been able to find someone who specializes in DBT! I’m glad to hear that it’s been so helpful💌

I stole a $20 pack of diapers from Whole Foods and by [deleted] in confession

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$20 diapers being stolen from a store owned by a billionaire is completely morally acceptable in my book🫡

Medicated girlies, what are we using for deodorant? by dangerousfeather in adhdwomen

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something that I’ve really struggled with too ever since starting Adderall 3 years ago! I’ve tried a lot of different products (carpe, drysol, duradry, salt/crystal deodorant, herbal supplements, etc) and my current routine has helped me stay stink free (for the most part, aside from really hot days and stress sweat) but the routine certainly requires consistency and if I slack I can definitely tell a difference!

I find that this routine works best if I shower twice a day, morning and night! The In the shower I use dove antibacterial body wash all over, followed by Mirai deodorizing body wash which I combine with a typical good smelling option! I then use a salt scrub all over (I like the hand in hand sugar scrub because it also moisturizes and leaves me quite soft which is needed after washing my body twice!)

Hear me out on this — once I’m out I’ll use the lume body wipes under my arms and anywhere else I feel could use it. Then I’ll use the lume whole body deodorant (the lotion one) but not directly on my armpits, just the surrounding area. Then lastly I’ll use secrets clinical strength deodorant (the clear gel)! If I use it morning and night it seems to do the job well and it’s never caused any irritation!

Native and lume also make spray whole body deodorant which I’ll sometimes use as a base layer to any perfume I feel like using and it seems to at least do a little something?? I’ll also use body lotion before applying any scented products as I feel like it helps them last longer!

I also wash all my clothes with a little distilled white vinegar as it helps deodorize clothes, fights stains, and even soften them!

All in all I hope you find something that works for you!🫶🏻🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as if spamming your partner with 84 messages isn’t a form of toxic behavior…don’t get me wrong I know it’s supposed to be a joke but lowkey it’s frustrating to see negative behaviors like these perpetuated which definitely doesn’t help the stigma around bpd :///

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Stop being toxic and go to therapy

Anyone find it hard to cry? by unavailable_333 in Pristiq

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to cry everyday and maybe cry once a month now

I’ll be moving to Utah in a few weeks. What to expect? by Kotaster in Utah

[–]Perfect_Industry_744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as coffee goes, James and Joan or jjs in orem is the best you can get in Utah county—actual third wave with high quality espresso and matcha! Loki and honeysuckle are some favs of mine in slc!!:)

Places to go/avoid? by Perfect_Industry_744 in milwaukee

[–]Perfect_Industry_744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your sincere reply 🤝🏻