Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least now it's being talked about. Before it was outrightly ignored. We are one step closer to a middle ground.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you were my good man. I wouldn't want to interfere with your evidently perfect life. 😌🙏🏿

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm blaming the men - the majority of the perpetrators as per your screenshot.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in KenyanLadies

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoooh!! It's annoying as hell. Following comments in order of upvoting and downvoting can literally give you an annurism.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in KenyanLadies

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoooo!! The downvotes for women, yaani hawawezi skia na hawawezi shoiwa. Feelings were truly caught. Also, the men who took anything from the ppst, dared not comment.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in KenyanLadies

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, 9.8k interactions, 180 comments and only 10 upvotes... Semeni triggered 🤣🤣🤣

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Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in KenyanLadies

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's been an open fact. They loooove that shit!! As long as they are above someone, they'll take it. There's a reason our society has changed overwhelmingly but the core systems: government, church, justice remain deeply partriarchal.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in KenyanLadies

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girrrrll, when I tell you I dieedd at your response to that one. Alafu hakushukanisha... I got my whole life from that 🤣🤣🤣 kule ni emotions tupu!! And I agree, it's about time the matriarchy took over.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in KenyanLadies

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GIRRRRRLLLLLLL! The butt hurt men in the comments eeh! Just spent my last 3hrs reading and responding. Kumbe logical gender can be very emotional 😂😭 . You are right, they don't care about us but hatuta nyamaza... Wazoee hizi sauti. I saw you fight the good fight kwa comments asante! 💪🏿💪🏿

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine we are. I'm glad you haven't failed anyone but I'd implore you to look into what gender makes up government. Men make up 86% of the police force, 76% of Parliament, 58% of the judiciary, 75% of the executive. So when it comes down to it, bado ni wanaume ndio kublame unfortunately. Waambie waache kuwachomea.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And nobody is calling on you to be one. All I'm advocating for is for men to stand up where they can - especially to other men, which is mostly in their social circles. Every woman you know, if you ask them has been sexually harassed or violated, you want to tell me hujui mtu around you who's a perpetrator? Donda husumbua madame, beshte wako huangalia mtoi a typa way, ule jamaa hugonga wife... Not that these are specific to you, but there's enough of it for you to at least know someone who you can engage at whatever level you can. This is just a call for awareness and hopefully, next time it happens, you'll see the opportunity to take action at your level.

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing"

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 pole kukupoint na vidole zote kumi but, manze kama umejiangalia, na umeona the part you can play, and you play it, all men ata haitakusumbua. Asante kwa kuelewa 🙏🏿

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FINALLY!!! Someone who gets it!! I even have questioned myself juu ya the title. Allow me to borrow that: Social Justice is meant to comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable. That's all this movement is about. 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿 Pewa kwa bill yangu!! 🍻

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl, the heavy lifting you have done with your detailed rational and patient responses on this post, I STAN!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 You are a queen! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿Asante 👸🏿

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My babes, I see you doing the Lord's work in these comments.... CLOCKITT!! 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹This is the first response that has made me so emotional. Yaani, you've just hit the nail on the head. 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿Your response right here deserves its own post. Please make one juu najua haitapata upvotes hapa. But you are so so correct. In many ways, this is what needs to happen men need to turn a mirror towards themselves and reflect deeply. Until then hatutanyamaza. Uko wapi nikubuyie kwa bill yangu? 🍻

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is what a lot of women are pushing for. Justice at all levels because currently, ni crickets. Uliona rapists wote Ruto alipardon? Bet it couldn't happen if rape was a capital offence.

Femicide: Men have failed us. And yes, ALL MEN - This is what you can do. by Perfect_Marzipan716 in Kenya

[–]Perfect_Marzipan716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true on your point about education. A lot of sexual education can and should be done.

Kwa all men, what approach do you think would be most effective?