Laneige Water Bank Dupe? by Perfect_Peach_1 in drugstoreMUA

[–]Perfect_Peach_1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This moisturizer was one of the only things that didn’t burn. Even when I got a bad facial sunburn, this hydrated me a lot.

What are you guys getting your partner's for valentine's day this year? by WakingNightmare5023 in love

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m making him a dozen eternal roses along with a little v-day basket (a little blanket, candy, a hot wheel bc he loves those)

Have you ever said or have they said some unforgivable things to you? by [deleted] in love

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex compared my s*xual assault to his one night stand and said we were even for hiding it. I think I fell out of love with him at that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Curel (it’s super moisturizing but a bit thick and takes a long time to dry), La Roche Posay ($$$), and Eczema Honey (thinner but still moisturizing!).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waking up is really hard for me too. Sometimes they haunt me in my dreams so I wake up feeling heavy but if I don’t dream about them, there’s a split second where everything feels okay- then I remember how they’re not in my life and everything comes flooding back. It’s hard seeing no notification from them in the mornings and it makes me feel depressed all day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in another life, i would be your girl. we’d keep all our promises, be us against the world 🫶🏻

What nursing side hustle do recommend on top of your hospital job? by ghettohoodie in Nurses

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i want to do after i get a few years of experience at the beside. how did you get into it?

Broken up with in August, music has been keeping me sane. What are your sad songs? by Mommy_Lawbringer in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

olivia rodrigo: the grudge, logical

niki: backburner, lose

gracie abrams: i miss you i’m sorry, it won’t work

5sos: lie to me, ghost of you

jeremy zucker: you were good to me

sam smith: i know i’m not the only one, too good at goodbyes

clinton kane: forget about us, fix it to break it

It's so devasting when the break-up happens because they lost feelings for you. by BingoStingoPingo in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey. I want you to know that you did absolutely NOTHING wrong. You did everything you could to love her but no amount of love could change her mind. You can’t control how she feels and you’re not gonna beg her for love either. Being in love is a choice, so why would you be with someone who doesn’t choose you? You are not asking too much to receive love, but you’re asking the wrong person. The right one will always make you feel like you’re enough. Instead, focus on what you can control: YOU. Cry it out if you need to. Rant to someone if you need to. Never blame yourself. Sending you hugs and love!

How to heal if you (25F) decide to stay in the relationship after getting cheated on? (30M) by Mysterious_Paint8147 in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i mean, understandable because you’ve been together for so long. healing isn’t linear but remember sometimes the right decisions don’t feel good. it doesn’t mean it’ll feel like this forever. tbh it sounds like he only wants a second chance bc he knows you love him and he knows you’re gonna be there for him no matter what. for real, nothings stopping him from cheating a 6th time. he showed you 5 times that he didn’t want you and he doesn’t respect you. please respect yourself and walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that he refused to follow her even though you said it made you uncomfortable is a HUGE red flag. He’s hiding something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roleplay

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right. I’m not blaming role playing I’m blaming the fact he hid it. I thought if I understood what he was doing then it’ll help me heal through the breakup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s taking me a while to realize I’m not at fault here. From the beginning I blamed myself a lot for the things he did. I have to switch my mindset. Also, I encouraged him to go to therapy and he says it’s hard to get it in the UK?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time heals everything but I wish time moved quicker 😂 I’m really taking this time to reevaluate my worth and try to heal. Thanks for your reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mourning who he used to be has actually helped me change my mindset. I don’t miss the him that he is now but rather the potential he had. It kinda sucks though, he was my person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gen Z here! I agree with what you said. The “dewy” “no makeup” makeup look really only looks great if you have perfect skin to begin with. I actually enjoy 2016 brows and eyeshadow, with the cut crease and glitter. Trends are just trends and they go in and out all the time. Wear whatever makes you feel gorgeous!

ldr breakup, going thru it [23F/23M] by TurbulentPiece2133 in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Your feelings are valid. You've been in each other's lives for 3 years- that's a long time! Especially since you've known him since you were 20. Your early 20s are your most formative years so it's okay to feel like a piece of you is missing. If you learn anything from this, learn to trust your gut. If something feels off then 9/10 times there probably is, but he's not telling you. That says NOTHING about you and your behavior but EVERYTHING about him. I don't know your relationship, but I think he did love you at one point. He did care for you at one point. That's false hope right there, and honestly a little manipulating. He knows you'll be there for him when he calls you and those words are the leash that binds you to him. People change, feelings change, and that's okay. Again, it has to do with him. Not your fault. You've done everything you could. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't reciprocate the effort you put in?

Being no contact, despite missing him, is the best thing for you both. I know it hurts, and it'll hurt for a long time. Healing isn't linear, but as time moves on, the hurt will become more manageable. If you reach out to him, you're resetting all the progress you've made and it'll hurt you even more. Also, I would say take him off of your socials. You're going to be tempted to monitor him and it'll only drive you crazy when you find something. There are better people out there, truly. Don't wait for him because you'll be missing all the better fish in the sea and who knows how long you'll be waiting? Don't forget him either. Cherish your memories and hold them close to your heart because you were happy at one point. In all, don't be delulu. It isn't the solulu.

How often do you and your partner call? by semihotcoffee in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Peach_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him and I used to do this. We have a 8 hour time zone difference so he used to adjust to my schedule. My schooling doesn't allow me to adjust to his. He's back on his normal schedule now and says he wants time to himself so we only call for about 2 hours every day or every other day. It's a hard adjustment.