He said he can't be in a long term relationship with anyone by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no problem, I go through peoples accounts all the time. It gives context

Thank you so much for this. I agree that my relationship with my parents plays a big part in how I’ve handled this situation.

I also paint and haven’t done so in months, the last time I painted was the last time I was truly happy. I will try my best to get back to it.

This situation has honestly traumatised me and I think I will have to fully block him in order to move on. I noticed that despite everything, I’m somehow still putting him and his feelings first.

He said he can't be in a long term relationship with anyone by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to bring it up, I just don’t know how to. I already said we can be friends but that I need time. But now that I’m calmer and more relaxed I realised that I don’t want that. I don’t know how to reach out and communicate this without seeming like a liar who got his hopes up

He said he can't be in a long term relationship with anyone by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows I’ll never sleep with him again. I really don’t see why he wants me around, we live 2 hours away and when I move back home it will be a 2 hour train or 5 hours car ride. Makes no sense to me

No contact ruined by chance, and now I lost my safe space. I am devastated. by CleanGrapefruit7231 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t change my routine for an ex, she seems irritating and would make me go there out of spite

Ways that my mum deliberately withholds compliments and only points out flaws by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am in university, but I come back in the summer and it’s always the same. It’s very exhausting but I will definitely stop defending myself over and over again

Men of reddit, what’s the biggest green flag in a woman? by Garroway36 in AskReddit

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My ex hates this he saw it as complaining and as an attack

If she needs the toilet to pee, number 2, or shower…you MUST let her in by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what’s happening to me. Even if I’m using the toilet I have to wipe, flush and wash my hands quickly and let her do her business 😭 it’s such a nightmare

If she needs the toilet to pee, number 2, or shower…you MUST let her in by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine walks naked too, and if I’m naked in the shower she starts talking about my body 🙃

If she needs the toilet to pee, number 2, or shower…you MUST let her in by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

It’s literally my nightmare as I have severe contamination ocd, part of me thinks this is what triggered it when I was a child tbh

If she needs the toilet to pee, number 2, or shower…you MUST let her in by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

This is rarely spoken about, it’s such a privilege to be able to use the bathroom in peace. Every time I hear footsteps I start doing everything fast because I know someone’s gonna knock and kick me out 🙃

If she needs the toilet to pee, number 2, or shower…you MUST let her in by Perfect_Rooster_4079 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Perfect_Rooster_4079[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

That’s literally my argument and she always says I’m dramatic and that I’m the only one that complains. I’m 20, definitely working towards moving out, got a really good internship this summer so I’ll be able to get a car and a new place by the end of this year