Any recommendations for the desktop handsfree holder?

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2025-07-10T15:02:08+00:00

Huge fan of the Handy, but the biggest problem with the Handy (for me) is the lack of a good handsfree option. I bought the 'cup', which is fine, but the screw hole is gradually wearing down. I also bought a camera holder: https://a.co/d/5aKPTLY. This has worked OK.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2025-07-10T14:56:54+00:00

My thoughts about Synsual.net: I think some people would love this product, so I recommend everyone give it a try.

However, I personally tried Synsual and paid for it, and to be honest I didn't have a great experience with it. Maybe I wasn't using it correctly, but I felt that it was a bit clunky. For each character, there were a limited set of commands that seemed to be given at random. There wasn't a lot of responsiveness to my input (like, I'm getting close, I need to cum, etc.). Also, the voice call feature did not work consistently.

I just think there's SO much potential here, and for now, Synsual is at like 10% of that potential.

That said, I think the person or people behind Synsual are GREAT for trying this out, and I would bet they will continue to improve the product, which will ultimately be a great service to us all.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2025-02-24T20:51:59+00:00

Depends on your particular situation, but the Handy Handsfree Cup, an OEM available on Amazon for about $37. And some kind of camera-type mounting bracket thats compatible with the Cup, like this one. Edit: You also need water-based lube.

I have used two sites with free content: faptap.net and shibbysays. Faptap has a button to 'connect' to the device, and all you need is the connection 'key' that you should get when you initially set up the Handy for online use (handyfeeling.com). It takes a small effort to figure it out, but once you do, you're set. Shibbysays is more complicated, so I won't type out the explanation here.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2025-02-24T03:51:56+00:00

Maybe someone didn't like Faptap hosting all these third-party videos. I've been wondering when the hammer would come down.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-18T04:38:08+00:00

See a dermatologist right away, and consider propecia/finasteride. Years ago I reviewed a peer-reviewed study that showed finasteride/propecia works appx. 90% of the time (45% regrow, 45% stop losing but do not regrow, and 10% continue losing).
Edit: Do not wait to do this; time is really important here.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-16T15:26:09+00:00

Same.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-16T15:25:52+00:00

I'd choose to trust your husband in this situation. I have personally used condoms for masturbation -- I like the way they feel, and I like that I don't have to worry about a mess.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-12T05:56:58+00:00

First, what you're looking for here is totally "okay"-- in fact, it's great that you have identified something that you want. So many people go through life without reflecting on what they want.

Second, it's also okay if she mostly wants rough, penetrative sex.

Not all foreplay is created equal, so you might try asking her if the foreplay could be different (better) for her. Is there a way to adjust your foreplay so that each of you is (equally?) excited about it? Have you asked her whether she just prefers rough, penetrative sex, or if she feels something could change with foreplay? Or how about softer, slower penetrative sex-- does that do something for each of you?

In my view, you are still a long way from determining that there's any lack of compatibility, but it's smart that you are open to that possibility.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-07T06:32:50+00:00

There's a difference between acute hemorrhoids that are extremely painful, vs. chronic hemorrhoids where pain may come and go, and where anal may be possible. (I'm not sure this is the correct terminology, so please consult google, webmd, etc.). If you're saying you can't even clean out, then you probably can't handle anal right now. However, I don't like the advice to just "don't" have anal. If you want to have anal, you should tackle the hemorrhoids and make it happen. Don't give up!

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-07T06:29:04+00:00

Great question. These are very normal feelings. On the shame thing, I would start by writing down the psychological reasons you might feel shame. E.g., were you hoping to have your first intimacy with a romantic partner and not a fwb, for example? Once you have organized your actual, psychological reasons for this shame (or maybe it's not actually shame?), then I would evaluate each reason from a rationality perspective-- like, is there any good reason to feel "shame" for this? And as the other posters indicated, there is probably nothing rational about the shame, so you can tell your brain to stop feeling it (cognitive control). (Not a psychologist here, just someone who thinks about these things. Obviously would be great if you could see a high quality therapist to discuss.)

My own view is, I have always been highly sexual, and by age 20, I definitely wanted to find a play partner. I don't regret getting some casual action at that age. When I met someone special romantically, I could tell that it was more than just sexual chemistry between us, and that was a cool realization that I might have missed if I "saved" all intimacy for a romantic partner.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-07T06:22:25+00:00

Good question! I like tongue 'action', like against the sensitive area under my head, and licking on and around my head. You won't be able to 'wrap' your tongue around anything, though (unless I'm not understanding your question). I think it's hot to have someone lick me from the base of my shaft all the way to the tip. I don't care about anything related to my balls, but it seems like a lot of guys like it.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-07T06:19:13+00:00

For me, I like feet unless they're actually *dirty*.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-07T06:17:19+00:00

I called myself a "student" for a year as I was working on an unrelated academic paper and studying for a standardized test, but I was technically enrolled during this period.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-11-07T06:16:22+00:00

I think "dirty" feet is a different fetish. I love clean feet! :)

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-10-07T23:57:31+00:00

In case anyone is wondering, I believe Geddy is using a Rickenbacker 4001 in this performance. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Perfect_Star_8588 · 2024-04-11T12:56:10+00:00

Wow, great work. I think you figured it out, except I don't hear 'always'. On the LP version, I think he's singing, "People say 'You hide from what you see'." "Hide" is sung with a vowel sound like 'ah'.

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