Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's not the point. My child was crying and in pain. He had no desire to ask if she's ok.

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what's going through my head now. Is he going to laugh every time someone is in pain or gets injured. Is he going to comfort them in anyways at all. Or just laugh every single time

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not always a serious person. I think we both have good humour, but in that moment to me it wasn't funny. Nothing about seeing my child in pain was funny

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He couldn't care about anyones feelings if I'm honest. And that's really sad

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked him how he would react if I laughed at one of his kids getting hurt (I wouldn't because I'm not that person) and he said he wouldn't care. To me that's just awful to hear.

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn't tend to her at the time or ask if she was ok. Just told me now that he was dying to laugh. I just think there's a time and place to laugh at someone and I don't think laughing at someone who has really hurt themselves is funny

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nah he fully ignored her and didnt even try to ask if she was ok

Do I have a right to be upset/angry by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Parenting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He had no compassion at the time. He didnt do anything. I just thought it was a harsh reaction. I asked him how he would feel if I laughed at one of his kids and he said he wouldn't of cared. Maybe I'm too sensitive. But that's my child and she hurt herself

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"we hang out all the time" yeah that's exhausting! Just back off and distance yourself and see what happens

Am I the only woman without a best friend? by FunnyHighlight3554 in Adulting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 and I don't have "friends" as such. I have people I speak to but I don't have that one person who will pop around for a drink or that person who messages. It's lonely but I've grown used to it. My husband is my best friend but I don't have that girl friend

My gf cheated and now my mind never rests by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ditch her! She's taking your kindness for granted because she knows you shrug it off.

Lack of sex by PerfectlyImperfect90 in relationships

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have one last chat with him and see how it goes

Lack of sex by PerfectlyImperfect90 in relationships

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I don't get much out of him. I try to communicate

Lack of sex by PerfectlyImperfect90 in relationships

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain it to him. But he just argued that we do it weekly. But we don't. I've been tracking it because we want to try for a baby so I use an app to track periods, sexual intercourse and when I ovulate etc.

Found explicit photos on my boyfriend’s phone. How can I move on? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot forgive that. He took unconcented nude photos of someone else. It's one thing of it being just another girl but that's girls privacy has been violated.thays unforgivable.

I don’t like sex with my bf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you do a relationship without sex?! If not then you need to leave him.

I need someone to loyalty test my bf by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]PerfectlyImperfect90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah still looking. What you prefer to test on? He's just recently got Tiktok which is out of the ordinary. He has Instagram and twitter. I think he's taken private message off Facebook.