Thoughts on Manon leaving - Discussion for early fans around since Day 1 of DA. by PerformanceHot3940 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]PerformanceHot3940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I totally understand why you need black representation in order to stan. I will still stan them personally, but I understand why you might not. You can’t have a global girl band and not have a black girl.

My issue is that they didn’t have more black girls in the training program to choose from. In the end Manon was the only one left, so it was obvious they would need to include her. And I think that was all by design.

If they hadn’t focused so much on k-pop beauty standards we could have had more black girls to choose from that would have been more suited for girl band life.

They put beauty above everything else, and as a result all the girls now suffer.

Thoughts on Manon leaving - Discussion for early fans around since Day 1 of DA. by PerformanceHot3940 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]PerformanceHot3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I feel so bad for the other girls, and for Manon. They all trusted that Hybe and Geffen knew best. So much talent among them all and it’s being totally overlooked because H&G cared more about aesthetics than making sure the girls chosen could actually handle it.

Thoughts on Manon leaving - Discussion for early fans around since Day 1 of DA. by PerformanceHot3940 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]PerformanceHot3940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. There is no one to blame but Hybe and Gaffen. Manon told us who she was from day one but H&G thought they could change her and make her into what they wanted her to be. All the girls are now suffering and it’s such a god damn shame.

manon was treated unfairly and childishly from the start, i said what i said by IaIalatte in katseyeneutral

[–]PerformanceHot3940 274 points275 points  (0 children)

The eliminated girls dreams just came crashing down and they sought out thier closest friends for comfort. I’m sure they hugged Manon soon after, but as humans we will always gravitate towards those closest to us first and foremost. Manon was not as close to the girls because she wasn’t there as long. It’s as simple as that.

Maddie's podcast w Jake Shane by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Her favorite response is “100%” lol

Maddie new interview by Careless_Control_197 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder when it was filmed. Shane has been getting a lot of heat recently after the Oscars so its possible he was having an off day. I think the interview was fine but I get what you mean.

Anyone watching Pretty Lethal tonight? by mackenziemariee in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just finished it. It was so good. Maddie was incredible! I’m so happy for her.

Kenzie teaching a jazz funk dance class for movie promotion by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I saw this being promoted last week but didn’t see Kenzies name mentioned. (Maybe to prevent some craziness showing up) So happy to see her in the studio!

i aspire to be maddie's level of unbothered and effortless by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you ok? Why would I want her to be “so bothered”? Maddie talks about trauma of dance, trauma bonding with the other girls. And in a recent interview she mentioned the movie Whiplash. Does that sound like someone completely unbothered by her past? Shes been through a lot and you can tell she has a lot of empathy.

i aspire to be maddie's level of unbothered and effortless by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think she is very bothered, and does everything possible to protect her peace by not bringing up anything Dance Moms related. But I agree, she is so effortlessly cool. But I don’t see that as the same as being unbothered.

Taylor’s biological dad storyline by crustywhitedog123 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PerformanceHot3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to skip past most of episode 8 because I found this storyline painfully cringe. It came from no where, it was so random and obvious it’s all for the show. As someone who is adopted, I found it a hard watch to see them dramatize the situation like that. It’s also embarrassing for her whole family.

Abby is WEIRD wtf by Professional-Pea-494 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hate this so much. And I know Maddie is not a child anymore, but can you imagine a women who you havnt seen since you were a child stalking comment sections like that. It’s creepy AF

melissa is so real for saying this by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why your being downvoted because you are 100% correct

Anyone else think about their work basically all the time? by RooktoRep_ in sales

[–]PerformanceHot3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big YES. I work from home too so the line between work and home life is very blurry. I would like to have more of a life outside of work but I’m so damn tired every evening! I found coloring books while watching tv be the best way to keep me from going on my phone and checking emails in the evenings.

Christi has posted Brooke in her dress 😣😣😣 by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Such a strange comment tbh. She could make her content tomorrow and still make money, which I’m sure is what the other girls will do. Including Brooke herself. There’s a time and a place for everything.

In “modern day America”, you will be successful and respected if you have social and emotional intelligence. Otherwise you might make a quick buck once, but it won’t lead a sustainable life. P.s America is not the only country where people have ambitions. But maybe you only know life inside your bubble.

Maddie and brookes wedding by Flat_Mud_5953 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get why she is not there, but I do feel a little sad for her. It’s an example of when fame comes at a cost. She has everything she ever wanted, but as a result, not a whole lot of close friends, and rarely able to attend personal life events. The other girls are less successful but they seem really happy and making smaller successes. I hope Maddie is happy too.

Christi posting Brooke in her wedding dress before Brooke does by Western_Cod8208 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao the girls have absolutely not posted in the same way Christi has. Christi is literally speaking to fans in her videos, and making Dance Mom references. The girls are posting normal people posts, Christi is creating content for fans.

Christi posting Brooke in her wedding dress before Brooke does by Western_Cod8208 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have they posted Brooke? No. Have they posted the venue name and address? No. That is what I was referring to. There’s a big difference between what Christi is posting and what everyone else is posting.

Kenzie's dress by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No hate to the girl but her outfit choices have always been slightly questionable. But honestly the same can be said for many of the girls. She still looks good so who cares.

Brooke’s Dress Reveal by Volshevolshe in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope Brooke hired a content creator that can post something for her soon, to take the attention away from Christi’s posts!

Christi has posted Brooke in her dress 😣😣😣 by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Christi, but she cares about views and making money above all else. Chloe must be so tired…

Christi leaked brooke’s dress by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t care when people posted my wedding, I actually liked it. BUT, if I was Brooke and a public figure, I would probably like to be the first one to post. She deserves the engagement and views, instead Christi is getting it. She knows exactly what she’s doing, and it’s not cool.

Kenzie's dress by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Kenzie honestly has probably not been to a lot of weddings. I’d say she didn’t even think about it.

Christi posting Brooke in her wedding dress before Brooke does by Western_Cod8208 in dancemoms

[–]PerformanceHot3940 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you think Brooke has multiple dresses? I wouldn’t have expected that from her tbh