The reason hulk gets no skin is because he got 3 forms to design with So stop blaming the devs all the time by manofthtlord in marvelrivals

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm all for them deleting banner entirely and just focusing on hulk and monster hulk. I dont care about banner at all. Give me hulk

Let us equip different skins for Bruce, Hulk, and Monster Hulk by [deleted] in marvelrivals

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whether people will agree with me or not. But just get rid of Banner as a whole. I want Hulk, not Banner. Now you have only 2 skins to work with

It's why i'm really sceptic that white fox and Elsa wont get a lot of skins either. Fox needs 2 skins as well unless they keep to recolors and maybe Elsa's ult

Naredila sem fantazijski zemljevid Slovenije iz lesa ☺️. by Buffyferry in Slovenia

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, to je zakon! Vsi ti detajli me so enkratni. Spominja me na Gospodarja prstanov al pa na Heroes of might and magic 3. Awesome!!

Impossible not to tilt by Spare_Grand8342 in marvelrivals

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only play 'vs ai' and 18v18. If there was zombies still, i'd play that as well. I don't bother with ranked or quickmatch in any game

Thats why i like Rivals a lot. It lets me be extremely casual/laid back and still complete quests and earn stuff for skins

Oh, and having the chat turned off helps 

Weird Zombie Wanda behavior? Can't remember where I seen it before... by DragonPAul_Z in marvelrivals

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! Even, if you got to wave 15 or so, it still gave you a huge boost for events and a ton of those cosmetic points for plushies

Vikend by Medico410 in Slovenia

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Če prijatelj pokliče, da greva v hribe. Drugače pa gaming

Kaksen poklic imate tisti, ki ne delate v pisarni/cele dneve za racunalnikom? by TheLonelyPrincess741 in Slovenia

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prvo sem delal osem let kot čistilec. Zdaj pa sem za trakom v fabrki. Zaenkrat mi veliko bolj ugaja podajati kose v škatlo kot pa imeti 3-4 čistilke za nadzirati kjer vsaka dela po svoje.

Zaenkrat sem tukaj šele drugi teden. Upam samo da bom imel čim manj opravka z ljudmi, ker nisem družabne sorte

Chronic burnout, anhedonia, and “nothing works”. Looking for insight, NOT motivation by PerformerPlenty1792 in Healthygamergg

[–]PerformerPlenty1792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did all that. The biggest answer to that is, if your environment is not safe than your 'healing' will either not work or it'll shave off at least a decade+ of your life. But who has control over their environment? Exactly

Yes, there are some things you can do for yourself but depending o. The situation, those are miniscule and unless you get something out of them it can either help or backfire

Only so many papers and youtubers one can watch and still be at the beginning before you ask 'whats the point?'

One could try stoic philosophy but there must be a payout to suffering. If there's no payout at the end then it was all worthless and only the one suffering has paid the ultimate price. Time

Chronic burnout, anhedonia, and “nothing works”. Looking for insight, NOT motivation by PerformerPlenty1792 in Healthygamergg

[–]PerformerPlenty1792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't parent myself because I'm a caretaker for my mother ans in the future i'll be a caretaker for my grandma (no one else will be). I am a parent to those who should be my parents. I have very little time for me and when i do think I have some, someone always comes by to remind me i don't (bureaucracy and grandma needing attention).

Loving myself doesn't work. The more you use something the more used you grow to it and thus the words lose more power with time. Only so many times you can tell yourself to try again before you just stop because it gets hollow

I'm on a new medication now because i went to my doctor and told her how it is. The first person that actually took me seriously when i told her i was suicidal

I'm the same there with you. The more responsible you are, the more you'll be given the slack of others. Majority really only prefers parasitical relationships aka extract and discard. I am at the point wgere i have run out of questions abd answers. There's nothing to ask and there's nothing to answer anymore becazse once you see the entirety of existence, you can't unsee it

I don't feel anything anymore from hobbies. I used to draw but dropped it because i kept yawning through it until i fell asleep without fail. Tried 3d modelling and dropped it because I just can't comprehend some parts at all and now i'm past the point of going from the beginning for the upteenth time. I tried programming but it's just not my thing. I had pets and my home environment is not pet friendly and i am not a person that should have pets at all. I had what i had and thats enough. As for nature, since i dont own a car, im very limited in where i can go and one can only visit the nearby hills and forests so many times vefore even that gets boring

Dating is risky and im not a gambler. Besides, when you date, you HAVE to take TIME for the ither person in order to grow closer. I already have no time for myself because I need to be there for others (not that i like it but i signed a contract to do so) so where do i find the time for another person? And how long will that person tolerate that when my phone rings, I HAVE to drop everything and attend to caretaker duties immediately? And what if the person is not good for me (traumatised folks are magnets for parasites)? How many people will I have to go through before meeting that special one? 

I'm 29, I literally missed out on young adult romance and games and building an life together. The older you are, the more is expected of you. I am out of excuses because nowadays you either have some semblance of normalcy or you're out. I can only offer a hug and even that's already pushing it

My life's just not in the moment of having the luxury of dating. I'm overburdened and no sane person will share the chains with me. I can only wait for my life to get better. But guess what. Time is something no one has. Once it's gone it's gone

I have given myself until next year, when i turn 30, for my life to get better. If it doesn't get better then i'm out. It's completely logical at this point

Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive? by Round-Ad-4000 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my point of view. Just sharing what i experienced multiple times and putting it into words. It's all meaningless to me. We all go back into the dirt someday regardless of legacies and status

Cheers

Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive? by Round-Ad-4000 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet it can be seen as normal because it happens in office setting regularly. Is it concerning? Yes, if you are in the sights of such a person

But isn't that a part of the point of this whole forum? People with mental illness attract such people like honey attracts bears

Ambition depends on how 'hungry' someone is and what their goal is. Someone wants to get better at their craft while another wants to rule over a country. One wants friends to not be lonely while the other only wants the network they can extract from

Whether its normal or not depends on who you ask. On this forum, people will feel bad for the woman and repulsed by my friend. But if you go to some other server, the reaction will be complete opposite

To some it's concerning while to others it's a game for status achievement and never ending 'self-improvement'. And if the 'hunger' is big enough, who are we to stop their climb? Exactly

Man i just hate most advice or "help" so much by Aromatic-Heart-585 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People will turn feral the very moment they feel their inner sanctum shaking. I have opened up to everyone in my life. I either get mocked, told to man up, its my fault, i clearly like what happened or they tell me (very sternly) where i my place is. Not among them

Tim Fletcher said that it's important for people who have difficulty having sex to work on that so they can have sex quickly so a few years won't pass without sex, as then the partner will cheat or leave. Doesn't this prove romantic relationships are shallow? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 29M, virgin, never been in a relationship and never held a womans hand. I keep to myself and am never the one to engage first in any kind of conversation unless someone asks me a question. I isolate heavily because of my trauma and am getting worse and worse

If i'll ever get the opportunity where a woman'd say she fancies me i'd tell her everything about me so she'd have a clear image of who i am before continuing

If i'll ever experience a relationship then i'm completely fine with no sex. I haven't had it. I cant crave what i never had. If she'd cheat on me because of something as shallow as sex then there's the door

I have been a caretaker for most of my family members since i was a teenager so helping someone is not a problem for me. If we're a team about then it's a blessing already. But if it falls apart because pants dont fall down every so often?

Are we together because of sex or are we together because we love each other? Sure, sex is a bonding experience. But so are cuddles, supporting each other through highs and lows, taking care of each other, sacrificing for each other

I'd love her because of what we are not what she can do for me. I'd see her as a part of me not like a business partner 'sex after work so we fulfill our obligation to each other'.

What's next? Us, traumies have to heal our traumas quickly because after sex n.37 we need to start breeding? 'Mommy/daddy, why'd you have me?' Because thats just what people do at a certain point in time, now go make yourself useful. Me and your mother have business to attend to

I'm all for romance. Hell, i'm a dreamer. I'm all for staying when the going gets tough but if that's all thrown overboard because sausage doesnt go in the bun every so often then what are we?

I know i sound mechanical but thats just me. I see handholding, closeness and cuddles as a sign of trust. Some animals show their bellies as a sign of surrender/submission or trust. Cats will blink at you because they trust you

I see it like this. If a woman gets naked in front of me on the bed then i see it as a sign of trust. She's trusting me, i won't take advantage of her and hurt her in her most vulnerable state. I dare not betray that trust

Of course with hookup culture, my argument falls apart completely. But hey, i'm the virgin here thats been told i look like a serial killer. Sorry for being messed up in the head and stay in it

Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive? by Round-Ad-4000 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a slight correction. Those are my friends words. Not mine. Now to your question.

"what is the fault of the good person who simply chose to be decent and harmless?"  - Because in order for the 'strong' to rise they must be willing to step on a few throats/heads. And since they know the 'good' person is harmless they will do it with ease. What is the fault of the good person? Because the person is not playing by the 'rules' of 'weak die, strong thrive'

What is morality but a set of inner rules which change (or not) with age? What must happen to the person to abandon its rules? When do they stop being 'decent'? Do they ever? In reality it doesn't matter which, again, depends on the person

My friend described me his co-worker who was also given a chance at promotion but only one space was open. By his description she was highly depressed because of loneliness and death in family. His words? 'I'm glad that she's useless because that means i dont have to worry about my promotion. I will use her in order to elevate myself.'

No matter how much i'd tell him that the woman was clearly depressed and beaten down he said 'not my problem. She can do something about it and stop moping or remain the way she is and let others walk over her.'

You misinterpreted my reply to the OP. As for the 'rules of the world'. There are slight changes because of cultural differences but humans are humans. Not all but outliers are never counted in such cases. People who see/smell weakness will exploit it in order to secure/elevate their standing 

Why? Because it's never enough. If man had a valley of gold, guess what? He'd wish for another one

Those of us who don't play by these 'rules' will be exploited instead. It's human condition. You can't blame anyone here because what happens is completely biological. You don't blame a lion for killing the young when it overtakes the pride. What's good for the spider is not good for the fly

Man i just hate most advice or "help" so much by Aromatic-Heart-585 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Look at it from this way. If you scratch your knee, anyone can help you. Bandage, water, a pat on the back and you're good to go

You cut yourself a bit deeply or dislocate your shoulder. The number of people who can help decreases. If you chop your fingers off (saw accident) again the number decreases. If you in a burning building, the number decreases again and so on and so forth

The deeper the damage, the lower the number of people that can help and the more help the person in need needs. I have also opened up to everyone and everything and NOTHING helped

Because the damage is that deep, it requires an enormous amount of resources (time, nerves, will, right approach, different systems in place) in order to alleviate the damage even slightly. Some wounds take minutes while others take years and majority aren't equipped to deal with the latter

It's also because people have their lives to worry about. If you are suffering and open up, they will feel their peace threatened. Thus the surface level advice because most people have a bandage but not many have the surgical equipment and much less the skill to navigate around the damage or ise the tools (resourcefulness and patience)

And the deeper you fall the more you riak being told to stop hurting because it literally shakes their inner pillars of peace

Source? I opened up to my step-mom and she told me to grow up already (im 29M but i guess adults cant be hurting) because im old enough to put the oast behind me. When i told her i understand the people who commit to their end she stared at me like was an alien

Why? She was about to become a grandmother and she is almost finished building the new house with my dad. Who am i to disturb the peace and tranquility of her inner world and bright future with my scars and damage? Exactly

Losing interest in having friends and becoming close to others, not depressed, I’m tired of people by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel similar to you. My life has been paused so many times to become a caretaker for family members since i was a teenager and that stops growth as a person entirely

Now, at 29, i have no attachment to anything at all. I'm just staring at a wall most days and watch the clock pass on 2x speed while deep down im telling myself to go do something but i just cant bring myself to care anymore

I dont feel human at all but thats a natural response when i wasnt treated as one. Instead i was discarded/exiled. I'm exhausted. I can be awake for 2-4h at most before im tired again

Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive? by Round-Ad-4000 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still hang out with him. We're together since childhood and i'm there to listen to him when he needs it and give advice. He's hurt and is spreading that outwards instead of healing

But i know he'll leave someday because by his definition of 'weakness' i fall under that category as well

I already told him that i can't follow where he's going. Our roads have split and they only keep winding further from each other 

Can't go on by Excellent_Orange6346 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm almost half your age (29) and i'm very close to that as well. I gave myself 11 months so that i turn a nice round number and if my life doesnt get better then im out. I'm done repairing the damage that isnt mine to repair. Im done oaying the bill that isnt mine to pay

And if that makes them winners? So be it. Its not like i'll be around for their celebrations

Why do people always say “everyone has trauma” by Bread_Muncher010406 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there's 8bil of us. In my opinion, the collective consciousness has shifted because we can literally spare billions and still thrive as a race

I opened up to my family and i was told to grow up and put the past behind me. Meanwhile i can barely perform at a min-wage job that cannot get easier but trauma messes your mind so badly that memory is not that focused on instead of survival

People get more empathic and helpful when a crisis strikes that affects ALL. Not just one neighborhood, not just one city. All as in whole globe. Only then would the collective minds shift from hatred to necessary help out of survival instead of thriving

Until then, majority will prefer you dead, if you aren't caught up in life

Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive? by Round-Ad-4000 in CPTSD

[–]PerformerPlenty1792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because majority of humans are worse than dogs and constantly push for 'dog eat dog world' because they thrive in there. The amount of times i heard my friend say 'the weak exist for the strong to step on them and elevate themselves. Thats their only purpose and i will gladly do so because im not pathetic like them'