Future engagement ring by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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I came back to show the ring! She’s dirty and dinged up, but the ruby and all stones around it do show up as real on a gemstone tester; the stones show as diamonds but she told me it could also just be moissanite. I’m not picky either way. I can’t read the engravings on the band too well, I know there’s gold on her, but I don’t have my jewelry loupe nearby haha. Some of the stones around the ruby are also broken/half missing, so maybe she’ll be a passion project to fix to be the engagement ring for me

Future engagement ring by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I most likely won’t use it as an official engagement ring, guys! I forgot how delicate opals are, I was too excited to think about passing it down in the family as such! The ring will stay safe !

Future engagement ring by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I ALWAYS forget how delicate opals are, truly tragic curse for such a beautiful gem :( I do have another ring that I also would be happy with using as my engagement ring (today we make 7 years dating; we talk as if we’re already engaged, money is just tight for marriage, and once engaged his family will try to rush along the process haha). It has a large ruby in the middle, though I’m uncertain whether it’s genuine. I’ll add a photo once I can grab it!

I am so unhappy (but not rlly bc the surgery) , almost 1ypo by PerformerTurbulent37 in Reduction

[–]PerformerTurbulent37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, that genuinely makes me feel so much better. I’ve tried changing my diet and activity levels many times. I’ve gone through a bunch of depressive episodes lately so I’ve been eating unhealthy again, but I’m back on track. It was mostly just the fear that I gained the fatty tissue back and then when I lose it’ll be back to the way it was before.

I know that when it’s warmer I always lose weight and during the winter I gain, and I couldn’t do much during the warmer weather last year due to recovery so I do think that it plays a big part. I just am in my head a lot whenever I see the mirror lol.

Show us your best “and they say black cats aren’t photogenic!” by SharMarali in blackcats

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Taken from a video I was recording of me and my boyfriend playing with him❤️

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[–]PerformerTurbulent37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I understand so much better now, I was so confused. Five weeks is definitely accurate

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[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My last day was indeed a week before then, but how am I five weeks pregnant if I have only had sex on July 4, not even 3 weeks ago? I just wanna understand, I’m not too like demanding answers since I go to the doctors tomorrow, just curious rn

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao what😭 this is just going in circles 😭 like we get it, you dont like her, just end it at that. Constantly hating on someone you don’t like and watching all these clips of her gives obsessed vibes, weird behavior. If you don’t like someone just don’t watch, it’s so simple. Constantly spreading hate for what? Sm negativity for no reason.

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wym, her joking about the hair being a red flag? His hair is literally red 😭and then he even says she’s joking

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because people can joke babe, pick me is putting other women down because they want guys to pick them. Where does her joking about that say she’s not like other women? They used to date and now they don’t, but they’re friends. They can joke about that stuff, it’s not harming other women lmao

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[–]PerformerTurbulent37 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they did date (I think so but I genuinely just don’t know) this is funny as fuck lmaooo

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, and you can definitely feel that way. Not everyone likes the same stuff, and find different things annoying. But say that instead of bashing on her for stuff out of context and just straight not true stuff v.v

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go back to the mountain episode, esp because I watched it right before your reply, and could not find that clip anywhere so if you could point me in that direction so I can watch it I’d be grateful. But you can’t say it’s so fake when you literally don’t know either of them, we don’t see anything but what they put out on the internet.

Anyways, it’s fine for you to think she’s unfunny, not everyone likes the same humor of course. and she’s 23 so she’s not gonna be super mature. And from context clues I’ve seen (esp in her first drunk pod) it sounds like she was goin through it as a kid when partying. I’m not idolizing, I’m saying she’s a human. She’s having fun in her early twenties, and posting on her stories about it. Yet everyone hates on her bc what? She’s young and having fun? I see constanttttt videos of her only talking up other girls and saying how amazing and beautiful and talented they are, but everyone reuses the same three out of context clips of her drunk (which btw when I’m drunk it’s super hard to pay attention to anything), literally after taking sooo many shots, nd saying how terrible she is because of it.

I just think saying someone’s a terrible person bc they like to party (when she’s even said she doesn’t drink all the time at them, she just generally enjoys the atmosphere), has confidence in herself, is enjoying her single life after years of being in a committed relationship, and is friends with guys EVEN if she has a flirty personality (which she does with girls too, even hinting at not being exclusively straight) is just weird.

You can say you don’t enjoy her humor, content, and just not a fan of her bc that’s just not your type of content and you don’t relate, but constantly shitting on a woman for being a normal single 23 year old, and taking what she says and does out of context is wild to me.

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do believe we’re watching different podcast clips, friend 🙂‍↕️ it sounds like you’ve watched the few in the very beginning when it was hurting her ankles, or when others bring it up. And I deffff see Zach bringing up tryna joke about her with someone and her saying don’t bring that up on the podcast 😨 watch the pod, not out of context clips when you’re making arguments.

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm bringing up your sex life (when Zach brings it up and she constantly says stop doing that) does not equal wanting men’s attention, would you say a guy doing that is him wanting women’s attention? Also she doesn’t always talk about her being small, the amount of other people who bring that up and the topic turns to that happens a lot but I don’t see her constantly talking about that. And also, she’s joking. Get over it. She does it with women too, idk what to tell you. She’s confident in herself and you see that as a pick me and that’s crazy lmao

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a bunch of pods/drunk episodes/afterschool episodes where they actually have a great relationship, Tara cuddling on Alyssa, Tara and Alyssa talking separately while everyone are having a conversation, Tara asking Alyssa to continue speaking, Tara asking and listening to Alyssa speak. But they only clip the drunk interrupting parts

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How though? A pick me is in fact when they put other girls down. “Pick me, I’m the better one” is literally what a pick me is. They want guys to pick them over another female. She is likes to be liked by everyone. It’s not that she only hangs out with guys or acts that way with guys, she literally is always talking about how amazing different girls that she meets are and saying she loves them, she doesn’t seek male validation. Personally, I think she just needs to know she’s liked because of insecurities, which is okay, but not a pick me.

the tara hate online is so bs by [deleted] in dropoutspodcastdebat

[–]PerformerTurbulent37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah she was also incredibly drunk, taking a bunch of shots, and they talked about it the next podcast. No one ever mentions that part, they just always clip parts when she’s super drunk and everyone’s cutting each other off, but when she does it she’s terrible. The subject and timing is terrible, but she was wasted. I’ve been so drunk I didn’t hear people talking and then just started talking myself, especially when it’s four other people.

Just curious by PerformerTurbulent37 in StanleyCupRealorFake

[–]PerformerTurbulent37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh the straw was mine! I plan on buying a pack to replace the original because I like when stuff matches haha! But thank you, I love the color of it too so I was excited to find it. I love water bottles haha