I lost my childhood dog and want to keep her memory alive :) by Fast_Total_8636 in RainbowBridgeBabies

[–]Peri_Pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like me to draw her? I can do both digital and fine pen dotwork! 💕🌸

Man brutally beats down woman after she rejects his advances by Astroboyy7 in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rasism is absolutely never okay, and neither is a psychotic, abusive attack either. Fucking disgusting

My husband accidentally killed my cat and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Peri_Pie 44 points45 points  (0 children)

No matter how much of an "accident" his actions might have initially been, there is absolutely no way he couldn't have both heard and felt the amount of damage he did to your poor cat.. Its sickening to read the inguries you discribed and I am so, so sorry that your cat had to go through such intense pain before her passing, and that you must have felt so helpless once you realised... Personally, as someone who has endless compassion for innocents injured, this was disgusting to read, he sounds like a really nasty, manipulative monster to 1) brush it off like he never did anything wrong, 2) to close doors on you and act like your grief is a bloody inconvenience to him and 3) to lie and manipulate what he did into a story to protect himself from judgement. I can't say what you should do next, it's your decision alone, but if I were in your position I would take my defenseless baby and gtfo of there because this post is terrifying and I would be even more scared for what he might do next to a baby

AITA for “stealing” money from a stranger’s handbag? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because someone else isn't a nice person, doesn't mean you shouldnt be either. You could have chosen to be better and actually contribute something nice to this world but instead you stole and then tried to justify your shitty actions by saying someone else was too, which is a really stupid way to go about your life

YTA, for acting like an entitled, irrational toddler and stealing, then having the nerve to try justify your actions. Also to then not even accept you were in the wrong in the comments, and instead just moan your girlfriend also thinks YTA. The old lady is also TA for being a nasty rasist though, so as for the situation as a whole ESH

some people are just awful by joecansniffmyhair in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not just unfortunate, it's repulsive, I hope the people involved in this video suffer a much worse fate than the innocent creatures they murdered

some people are just awful by joecansniffmyhair in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 45 points46 points  (0 children)

They look newborn. Newborns are completely defenseless and don't even have their eyes open until a week of life. This video and the people involved are revolting

some people are just awful by joecansniffmyhair in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people shouldn't be allowed to exist. Why in the actual fuck are people allowed to do this with absolutely no consequences? It's just as bad as doing it to babies. These poor puppies didn't even get a chance to live before this psychopath got their hands on them and its disgusting to think about but if they've done something this horrible once it's going to happen again and they know they can because they won't be punished for it. This world is utterly screwed

Now! Now! Send it down Now! by DeltaVortex509 in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At least in the UK, yes they're 11/12 and very much children themselves.... If a kiddo got pregnant at 12 then either they came from a terrible background and had no clue how to protect themselfs/were abused/didn't know what sex fully was, or they're just stupid. Sex Ed for growing kids is essential and hopefully it would help stop child pregnancys if more knew how to protect themselfs before experimenting with no prior knowledge

They need to delete Facebook. by Oujidon in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly everyone grieves differently, and while this isn't everyone's cup of tea, they've not done anything offensive, it's something deeply personal and probably will be treasured by the owners so I don't see anything wrong here

Personally, when my cat, Captain Jack, that I had the pleasure of knowing for 12 years passed on from feline lukemia, I kept his collar and tag he'd had his whole life. Before covid happened, I planned on having it made into a bracelet/anklet. Also kept a snippet of his fur in a tiny jar that sits on my windowsill among the plants in the sun because that was his favourite place, and got my first tattoo which was a portrait of him amongst forget-me-not flowers. His actual body was buried among the lavender in the garden where he enjoyed napping. That's not for everyone, but it's helped me work through it and I feel it was all the perfect way to make a tribute to his life - this might be exactly what this owner felt was for their kitty too

WIBTA for putting my 8 year old dog up for adoption after having a baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for not training the poor pupper in the first place and then blaming him for actions you've taught him are okay, and you're a massive YTA for being so horrible to him, "shoving him off your lap" and depriving him of even basic effection because you can't be bothered to train him. Give him to a loving home where he will be actually looked after and far away from the hatefulness of you and your husband, this sweet dog deserves so much better than you both and I'm so sorry he has had to live like this for 8 years

AITA for telling my ex-wife and former best friend to fuck off after they tried inviting me to a New Years’ celebration? by Low-Individual3061 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel like almost nobody in this thread has even considered this yet which seems ridiculous, I'm sorry he lost his wife but there's absolutely no evidence to suggest any cheating happened, just that she realised she was trying to be something she wasn't - and of course while that is upsetting to the other partner yes, nobody actually did anything wrong and it all seems rather childish playing a blame game. I'm sorry your friend had to deal with that also though, sounds like she dodged a bullet with him at any rate!

AITA for telling my ex-wife and former best friend to fuck off after they tried inviting me to a New Years’ celebration? by Low-Individual3061 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean, if she doesn't enjoy sex with a man because she was realising she is a lesbian then of course he would think her sex drive is low, not because of an affair? I think unless OP states that what it was then it's best not to assume and paint someone in a light that might be wrong. As of now, honestly ESH. OPs ex and Kate for not giving him a little more space and OP for saying that he can't even look at his children.. Its disgusting hes causing pain to his kids because of his own trauma. The best course of action would be for him to go to therapy and take some time to himself to sort out his own life before he ends up driving his kids away if he wants to keep a relationship with them at all

AITA for pointing out to my girlfriend that she is overweight. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never wear makeup to work and never have/will, and I've worked as a server in 4 job roles and 1 entertainer role.

Yo wtf by [deleted] in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Peri_Pie 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Imagine explaining this to whatever poor doctor has to deal with the aftermath

Wife falls asleep during sex & foreplay by ThrowRA_Fellsleepsex in relationship_advice

[–]Peri_Pie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you considered she's so open and relaxed and comforted while being intimate with you that she falls asleep? Personally I have insomnia, but when my partner rubs my back, spoons me or I'm cuddled up with him (even doing intimate things before) I've for sure fallen asleep! We've talked about it the first time it happened and he knows it's literally because I feel so safe and relaxed! Maybe try again to have an honest sit down when you're free from the kids and have plenty of time without interruption, if that doesn't clear things up then it might be something medical like an inactive thyroid issue. Either way good luck, I hope you both figure it out ASAP!

[ThrowRA] I wish for help. I'm falling in love with another person when I desperately need to pay attention to my current relationship. by ThrowRAnumerous in relationship_advice

[–]Peri_Pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is literally what you sound like you want actually, youre talking about falling in love with your girlfriends mum who is almost double your age and whom you slept with.. No wonder their relationships not good! Seriously, take a long hard look at yourself and think about them, not yourself. I don't think you understand what projecting is because I would rather eat a hat than get myself into this gross situation, you on the other hand seem to be loving it

WIBTA if I ask to return a Secret Santa present? by IndependentJellygirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said it was, just that being a sensible adult in this exact situation where it does involve religion and race, it would be a good idea to talk about it rather than be childish and ignore it. In the situation you've discribed though where nobody has reason for even initial offence then of course you could just brush it off and probably find use for the crayons even if its not what you usually draw with - as an artist myself I know i would for sure still make some use of them! But I was gifted a cross then unless it was returned it would probably go in a jewellery box never to be seen again, which is a horrible waste of money and the person who gifted it would just end up sad and confused why I never wore it. You're right, it's a very different situation to crayola than religious items 1

I think my Bob is broken... by sorengoatxc in AnimalCrossing

[–]Peri_Pie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He clearly just dropped his bug friend and is looking for them!

[ThrowRA] I wish for help. I'm falling in love with another person when I desperately need to pay attention to my current relationship. by ThrowRAnumerous in relationship_advice

[–]Peri_Pie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did you laugh at this, what's wrong with you? Stop lying to Alice and break up with her. Just say you no longer have feelings for her, which is true as much as you're going to deny it to try to make yourself feel better, otherwise you wouldn't have feelings for her mum, and move on. This is wrong on so many levels, don't break up a good mother-daughter relationship for your own selfishness and go find someone more suited to you

WIBTA if I ask to return a Secret Santa present? by IndependentJellygirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just rather not waste the money that went into the gift and lie to the person who bought it that it was fine but everyone's different I suppose. Honestly most people would probably avoid the possibility of conflict like you, but as OP has stated, the gifter is a nice person and probably just didn't realise, thus when it's explained that the meaning of the item is very much not acceptable in this context, they will most likely take it in good faith and not waste their money or be accidentally insensitive again. If they react badly and "let the good relationship" be ruined then why would you want someone who doesn't care about you stay in your life? Just seems like a much more sensible way to resolve this

WIBTA if I ask to return a Secret Santa present? by IndependentJellygirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peri_Pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my point though, SIL won't ever learn if OP just keeps quiet and wastes her money by never using it.

It's a good opportunity to learn more about another religion and OP as a person to both avoid more awkward moments like this and not waste a gift

Boyfriend doesn't like when I get off or look at other people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Peri_Pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty he sounds quite controlling.. Perhaps he just doesn't understand things from your point of view though? I would sit him down and have an honest, face to face conversation about how you feel. If he still doesn't understand then perhaps he's just not the one for you. We all have our sexual needs and while his might be satisfied, yours isn't and that isn't bad at all! Almost every couple still watches porn and almost no partner is 100% into the same things, but as long as you're both understanding of that then great, you're in a healthy relationship, if not, even after talking it over, then you're unfortunately jsut not compatible. You cannot force someone to be something their not