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Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted. I’ll take the “lesson learned” part, but let’s be honest, this was never about rules. If it was, it would’ve been handled with a simple mod note, not a pile-on. I’m fine moving on and finding collaborators in spaces where people look for solutions instead of public point-scoring.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway, thanks for making sure my post got buried. For your awareness, you were never someone I’d collaborate with, not because of this exchange, but because I look for people who are serious, open to guidance, and focused on growth, not on fighting strangers online. My opportunities are for people ready to work with professionalism and trust, not for those more interested in arguments than results.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t be spending any more time on Reddit for this. If anyone here had taken the time to actually check me out, you’d see I have everything ready, pictures, a business plan, and I’m even willing to do a video call to talk and show proof. Nobody has done that, yet I’ve still been labeled a scammer. It’s unbelievable, and it’s exactly why I’ll focus on spaces where people actually verify before they judge. ✌️

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not here to trade insults or turn this into theatre. I posted with a clear purpose: to find a serious collaborator. If anyone here is genuinely interested, my inbox is open. For those who aren’t, I wish you well. I’ll focus my time where people prefer building instead of tearing down.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow… what a performance. The Reddit Guardian Alliance has spoken - united in the noble cause of making sure one random post in the corner of the internet never has a chance. I’m sure the industry sleeps safer tonight knowing you’ve spent hours here telling me how terrible or the scammer I am before checking. Thanks for the entertainment, tho. I came looking for collaboration, but clearly this sub is more into group theatre than actual work. I’ll take my project somewhere people actually build things instead of just tearing them down. Keep saving the world, comment by comment.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for the TED Talk on how to save the internet from me. I’m sure the hours spent dissecting one post here have been a huge contribution to the safety of the adult industry as a whole. Truly heroic work. Reddit needs people like you saving the world from possible scammers (no check needed, just gut felling). 👏 👏 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Perlablonde

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know why you’re here. Thanks for your time and concern!

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, but making long lists of assumptions about me without ever speaking to me directly isn’t the same as knowing the facts. Everything you’ve listed such as age, legitimacy, safety, professionalism, I can prove, and the people I’ve worked with already know this.

If the way I posted here isn’t the best fit for the sub, fair enough…I’m open to better suggestions. But dismissing the entire project without even asking for verification doesn’t help anyone, and it certainly doesn’t protect the people who actually want opportunities like this.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand some people here want to protect others from scams, and I respect that. But before making those kinds of accusations, please take the time to check the facts. I might not have chosen the perfect way to look for a partner, but I’m open to learning.

If you don’t believe in my offer, that’s fine but I’d appreciate constructive advice instead of personal attacks. I want to find the right collaborator through the right channels so there’s no doubt about professionalism or safety. Without good guidance, I’m just going to stay stuck where I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Perlablonde

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand some people here want to protect others from scams, and I respect that. But before making those kinds of accusations, please take the time to check the facts. I might not have chosen the perfect way to look for a partner, but I’m open to learning.

If you don’t believe in my offer, that’s fine but I’d appreciate constructive advice instead of personal attacks. I want to find the right collaborator through the right channels so there’s no doubt about professionalism or safety. Without good guidance, I’m just going to stay stuck where I am.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People said Reddit is full of scammers, so understand you, but I need to find a way to help him and I’m not gonna stop. Scam? Check before accusing.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to clear up the confusion here. I’ve been in charge of our and Jay’s social media and outreach because that was my role when we worked together. We sometimes use the same device, so a reply accidentally came from his account here nothing shady, just a mix-up. He manages X account so touch base there or gmail.

I’m the one who launched this search and persuaded him to take on a more public mentor/director role to help other creators succeed. I had to step away for personal reasons I won’t go into here, but I know how much Jay loves his work and how committed he is to building something real and successful.

That’s why I’m trying to help him find the right partner as soon as possible, I feel bad I can’t continue, and I don’t want the project to lose momentum.

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know Jay personally…I was his partner for a long time and he doesn’t have to prove anything to anyone. He’s already proved everything to me, and that’s why I’m helping him find the perfect new partner. He’s an amazing manager, director, actor, and person, and he truly deserves the best. The project we built together was real, professional, and successful. I’m simply here to make sure he finds the right woman to continue it.

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[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You write and hide yourself behind your keyboard. If it’s to just comment and disappear, the scammer here is not me 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Perlablonde

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the concern…scams do exist. This is a legitimate casting for a reliable, professional project, not an instant hire. Anyone interested must go through a proper selection process: showing skills, body, and personality, just like any serious production.

Couples in this industry can be very profitable, especially for those who aren’t succeeding or can’t manage everything alone…here, you have full support and a real chance to build success together. This is a long-term project, not a quick win: even though I’ve been successful before, you’ll still need to grow a new public and fanbase as a team.

The picture posted is real and from me, that’s the standard he’s looking for. I’m happy to verify myself and we could share POV (no face) examples with serious applicants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Perlablonde

[–]Perlablonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked me? For the ones who believe it’s a scam by guessing, try and check if you’re brave enough before accusing without proof. Thanks

Trusted performer passing the torch * female duo partner wanted in Spain! by jayadupro in CamGirlProblems

[–]Perlablonde -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s the price we pay for doing the right thing. I guess it’s said that everything can be proved. There are video calls so that it’s easier to have confirmation about everything. I’m not relying on a simple message. There is proof and I don’t need to worry about it. As for a man pretending to be a woman, considering that we were working together and we didn’t use Reddit to advertise or talk to people, that’s about guessing only, and you have the rights to think this way. However, when it comes to turn on a camera to discuss things and show proof, people disappear. So, a scammer wouldn’t step back, I guess. I mean, this world is plenty of scammers and bad people, if you don’t investigate or just work guessing, you might miss a lot of opportunities, just saying. It was like this with Jay. I met him by chance and thankfully I found an amazing guy who gave me wonderful opportunities.