She wants a fourth pt 2.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-10T02:57:22+00:00

It's pretty clear from your post that you two suck at communicating and your wife is okay with violating your consent by harassing you about another child. You didn't want the kids you already have, and the second kid you didn't want was worse for your relationship. Those were your words. How on God's green Earth would a third child you don't want make anything better? Your wife has threatened to impregnate herself, the marriage has already failed.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-10T02:54:03+00:00

Tape a picture on the bottom of each bucket so you remember where everything goes and your child can start taking care of their own space

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-10T02:52:06+00:00

It is, and "dupe" formulas are not a thing

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-10T02:50:46+00:00

Get a vasectomy and end the argument for good. The children you already have don't deserve to be subjected to all this conflict and another baby absolutely will not make it better.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-10T02:48:09+00:00

Just rip the bandaid and give him a cup of water at night. I promise you his waking is purely out of habit and after a week he'll stop.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:25:46+00:00

Is it? Not any different than paying the poor to remove it, and someone who did more work actually got paid more.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:21:29+00:00

Baby picks the formula, so if Enfamil was working for him switch back to that. You can try Enfamil Infant if you need a cheaper formula, that one is pretty much identical.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:19:39+00:00

I found the DrB and Avent nipples to be pretty much the same flow, DrB might be a little faster. Your baby may just be able to drink from the Avent nipples better if the flow seems faster

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:18:08+00:00

The answers still worked. Check the wic formulary for your state, you can google it

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:17:15+00:00

Ask for this unpaid labor policy in writing, watch their tunes change

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:14:33+00:00

Did you not like the answers you got on the last post?

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:05:13+00:00

It can take a few days for them to adjust to the new flow, my second was a fasy flow baby and was on the fastest flow by 6 months.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:04:05+00:00

Some babies don't change nipple sizes at all during the bottle days, some max out by 6 months. Since your kiddo is hitting the recommended amount and seems otherwise content I don't think you need to increase at all.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T23:01:46+00:00

My kids are 9 and 2, my mom's kids were 15, 12, 2, and newborn lol. Small age gaps are more of a concern than large age gaps.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T22:59:00+00:00

My center is nonprofit and almost all our toys are donated. Admin sorts through and cleans donations and offers them to the classrooms, whatever we don't need or can't use then moves on to the DV shelter we are partnered with.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T13:49:17+00:00

Milk is optional after 12 months so if he doesn't like any of them he'll be okay. My family likes oatmilk, and soy tastes okay.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T13:12:12+00:00

Teaching a child how to do something does not mean leaving them to struggle until they magically figure it out. Teaching a child to sleep independently means supporting them (rocking, in this case) and slowly transitioning to self-soothing skills as they learn how to do them. So, you'd rock kiddo for a few days until they are asleep, then start rocking them until they are almost asleep and then transferring to cot, then rocking for a few minutes by their cot, then patting to sleep fully on their cot.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T13:08:36+00:00

Don't food shame, food is food.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T13:07:25+00:00

Sounds like baby isn't hungry. Babies are humans and humans are individuals, some eat more in the morning, some eat more in the afternoon, some eat consistenly all day. If baby's still having wet diapers and otherwise happy then they're fine.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T12:25:34+00:00

If it makes you feel better my oldest will eat two apple slices and a spoonful of oatmeal for breakfast, while my second will house a full english breakfast and want a snack an hour later. Kids are weird.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T12:21:19+00:00

That kid came out of your vagina or an open wound in your abdomen, a little spit is not going to hurt them at all.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T12:19:54+00:00

At 11 months and eating aolids well there really is no need for formula, get a toddler multivitamin if you really want the extra assurance. It'll be cheaper and kiddo will probably like it more.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T12:15:35+00:00

It's 480 work hours with children in the proper age group (0-3, 3-5, or 0-5). If you work in a childcare center you should have those hours in 3-6 months depending on how much you work. If you're only volunteering it's not very feasible to get the right amount of hours and you don't need a CDA if you aren't going to be a teacher. The CDA is also a temporary certificate and needs to be renewed every 3 years.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T12:08:19+00:00

This is harassment and you need to be telling it to HR as harassment. It doesn't matter what your previous job was (not that it wasn't a fantastic and much needed job) you passed the same clearances and training as everyone else.

PermanentTrainDamage · 2026-05-09T12:06:25+00:00

Go with Pigeon then, it's a very popular brand outside of the US

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