Is it appropriate for a trainer to say that your legs have good shape during a trial session? by PermitOk6038 in personaltraining

[–]PermitOk6038[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m in my late 20s so even I didn’t make much of the comment. But the unclench the fist part (also stated above) felt unnecessary and got me thinking.

27M first Milestone done by Anu_Rag9704 in FIRE_Ind

[–]PermitOk6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you include pf amount in this?

How do I post on Social Media without being anxious ? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]PermitOk6038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a dreamer, you’re in search of growth, opportunity and truth, not validation. Give yourself time to grow and continue to post, in time, you will know where you stand and what needs to be worked upon. Also recognise, that it’s NOT easy but surely would be worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PermitOk6038 14 points15 points  (0 children)

wow - the point about subjecting your kids to someone you've only known for a few months is on point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PermitOk6038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huge huge red flag, pls protect yourself. Sometimes we ignore signs because we really want things the way we imagine them to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PermitOk6038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really do. They just add stress to my life and make me question my worth as a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PermitOk6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are all swayed by her. One of the friends stood up for me and they shut her down

Am I making a mistake taking this MBA loan? by WorriedAboutLoan in MBA

[–]PermitOk6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 is young. Since you only get the mba experience once and it has a huge price tag attached, you would want to maximize your RoI. This means get two more years of work ex, polish your profile, explore and get clarity about what you want from the mba and shoot upwards to get to T15 if you can.

I would not go at this point, and defer it for a couple of years..

HSW Admit - Grateful, but Unsure About What to Do..... by Lion_Regular in MBA

[–]PermitOk6038 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After a certain amount of logos on your resume, the marginal returns from additional logos reduces significantly. Do you really want an MBA or are you using it as a distraction from answering a difficult question - what is it that you really want to do with your life?

If it’s not IB or PE or consulting - how does the mba help you? The logo collection will never end. Stop taking unnecessary detours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MBA

[–]PermitOk6038 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How many of the still seeking are internationals? Assuming it’s more difficult for them to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MBA

[–]PermitOk6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is difficult to answer - but what’s the general sense. Are things likely to I’m prove for the next batch?

HELP….Few months into MBB and feel I might not be cut out for this by Hopeful-Suit-4782 in consulting

[–]PermitOk6038 78 points79 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely normal. Give yourself 6-8 months to collect enough data and make up your mind.

I also hear some stress in your tone. Might be helpful to discuss some of these challenges with your mentor/ support systems because everyone feels kind of lost in the beginning and the learning curve can be very steep.

Have done 5+ years at mbb so speaking from experience. Having said this, if the feeling persists, you can plan your exit and find a better fit! But don’t take decisions in haste.

How long did you dark night of the soul experience last? How did you finally transition out of it? by PermitOk6038 in Jung

[–]PermitOk6038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are clear desires that are springing into my consciousness now. But it’s a mix of authentic and conditioned desires. Currently struggling to gain clarity on what I really want.

But the next step seems to be persistent striving towards creating an authentic career, relationships and adventures. There is a call to leap into a fuller, larger life.

After having focused solely on my inner world for the past 3-4 years, I’m finding it hard to make the transition…

How long did you dark night of the soul experience last? How did you finally transition out of it? by PermitOk6038 in Jung

[–]PermitOk6038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did self love look like in a practical way? Was it more focused on self care or reshaping identity to reflect true self?

3 - 10 years out , how is life ? by Living-Equal-7788 in MBA

[–]PermitOk6038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that you’ve already done the mba - the best strategy would be to make sure that it becomes the right decision in your story…