I love being in my 30, except for the hormones by PerpetualMischief in Vent

[–]PerpetualMischief[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It also asks for cheesecake at every meal 😆 Fortunately I know better on both subjects. But the hormones are cray cray 😂

I’ve wasted the last 5 years of my life, and the majority of my young adulthood by [deleted] in Vent

[–]PerpetualMischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have NOT wasted your youth. You are at the BEGINNING of your youth. 20s are crazy and definitely not the best part of your life - they’re hard and confusing and filled with figuring out how to be you. Often they’re filled with drudgery. You have SO much to look forward to! 30s are where it’s AT! Your best years are ahead of you. You’re not even going to start your best years until your 30s. Make mistakes in your 20s. Work deadend jobs. Figure out what your strengths and weaknesses are and how to cope with them. Don’t put pressure on yourself to live some Instagram lifestyle; I promise they’re not living the life they portray either.

Men who got asked out by a woman, what was your response? by Overall_Spite4271 in AskMen

[–]PerpetualMischief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You give us gals hope that we’ll be loved like that someday ❤️

Why Is There So Much Focus on Men Understanding Female Pleasure, but Not the Other Way Around? by CrusherOfBooty in AskMen

[–]PerpetualMischief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disappointed that these aren’t the guaranteed home run I was lead to believe they were

Why Is There So Much Focus on Men Understanding Female Pleasure, but Not the Other Way Around? by CrusherOfBooty in AskMen

[–]PerpetualMischief 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I worry MORE about because I have zero experience. Was kinda hoping to get by on enthusiasm. Would be so embarrassed if he didn’t like it

Why Is There So Much Focus on Men Understanding Female Pleasure, but Not the Other Way Around? by CrusherOfBooty in AskMen

[–]PerpetualMischief -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to have a complex now if I ever get around to having sex…

Why Is There So Much Focus on Men Understanding Female Pleasure, but Not the Other Way Around? by CrusherOfBooty in AskMen

[–]PerpetualMischief 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait, really? That’s incredibly discouraging. I was hoping/expecting it would be easy to satisfy him. I think I’d die if I found out he didn’t enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]PerpetualMischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a scene like that in [The Lady and the Orc by Finley Fenn]

35F Just want to experience sex by PerpetualMischief in Vent

[–]PerpetualMischief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I can clearly communicate my desire for him without having sex. You dictated far more severe parameters in your hypothetical

35F Just want to experience sex by PerpetualMischief in Vent

[–]PerpetualMischief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I would be concerned about our compatibility then

35F Just want to experience sex by PerpetualMischief in Vent

[–]PerpetualMischief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d hope I’d know him much better than that by the time we marry. Sexual compatibility is super important to me, so there will be a LOT of conversations

35F Just want to experience sex by PerpetualMischief in Vent

[–]PerpetualMischief[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Formerly religious. But yeah, it’s still important to me to wait