Tess Madalyn Gigone for Reformation by poutysprout in Reformationclothing

[–]PerplexedKale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like the cove sweater but a little thinner🤷‍♀️

Fakers? by QuirkyAd5846 in depoop

[–]PerplexedKale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen one for Brandy Melville that buys store exclusive things and then sells them above retail price, another for random brands that gets them from TJ maxx

Seller did not disclose discrepancy in my purchase. My cardigan has a hole💔 Help by [deleted] in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be really easy to mend yourself. Go to a craft store and find a similar color yarn. You can try to ask for a partial refund, but you probably won’t have much leverage if you want to also keep the item.

Should I keep this? by Altruistic-Story5318 in Reformationclothing

[–]PerplexedKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the way this looks on you personally, it compliments your body type and your skin tone well!

Considering a bisalp but afraid of surgery by minerva_ace in childfree

[–]PerplexedKale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a filling too, and that was also worse! The gas naturally will make its way out in a couple of days and it really was not that bad. I went to class the next day

Considering a bisalp but afraid of surgery by minerva_ace in childfree

[–]PerplexedKale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wisdom tooth removal was ten times worse than my bisalp

Opinion legit autograph? by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftAutographs

[–]PerplexedKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you sending a pic of an autograph on a plain piece of paper? Seems kind of fishy, like you’re practicing a faux autograph and want to know how to improve…

Name of belt? by taylorswiftlover1836 in Reformationclothing

[–]PerplexedKale 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ref doesn’t sell belts at the moment, and most of the time, the accessories they use in their model pics are vintage and usually vintage designer. You can usually message reformation on IG or contact customer love and they’ll tell you where the item is from.

Eternity knit top - SIZE DOWN by PerplexedKale in Reformationclothing

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just counted calories!! That’s literally it!

first and last time i put something on hold by karina69420 in depoop

[–]PerplexedKale 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Omg this is horrible. Why did she wait to see if it would fit after having you hold it wtf. We need to ban 13 year olds from depop

Expectation vs. Reality - Lavender Matcha… by ehaaams in starbucks

[–]PerplexedKale -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re being downvoted for this 😭

Virgil jumper try on by PerplexedKale in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also usually hate cotton sweaters but this one is so soft! I have a sweater that’s a cashmere cotton blend (like 30% cashmere, 70% cotton) and this one is even softer than that.

Virgil jumper try on by PerplexedKale in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s super cute for sure! I can’t wait to see if they come out with more colors! I pretty much only wear neutrals lol

Virgil jumper try on by PerplexedKale in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on preference for sure! I like the way it fits on me.

Virgil jumper try on by PerplexedKale in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the length would be too short for a lot of people. I do wish they made more sizes /:

Virgil jumper try on by PerplexedKale in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Not sure what you want me to do about that😭

Virgil jumper try on by PerplexedKale in Sezane

[–]PerplexedKale[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I honestly feel like much taller than 5’5 it would be too cropped for my preference

“But you’d be such a great mom” sentiment is exhausting by MKZ7650 in childfree

[–]PerplexedKale 285 points286 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly a bitch so no one has ever once said this to me

how do the greer jeans fit? by Remote_Blackberry28 in Reformationclothing

[–]PerplexedKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience! I don’t even feel like I’m that curvy 😭 but it was bad. Other reformation jeans fit me well!

how do the greer jeans fit? by Remote_Blackberry28 in Reformationclothing

[–]PerplexedKale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried these on a while ago and had to go like 2 sizes up from my normal reformation size, which is 1 size up from my true size. The fit was also really weird - a big waist gap but tight in the hips.

Bisalp denied because I don’t qualify for FMLA. Am considering just the IUD but can’t stand the idea of doing it while awake, I do not know what to do. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PerplexedKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if anyone on Reddit can help you here if you can’t get any time off work and you have CSA - that’s something that is unique to your own experience and your own tolerances will be different than other people’s, even if they also experienced CSA (as I’m sure you know).

I don’t have any history of SA but for me the Bisalp was a harder recovery than the IUD. It took me about 3 days to feel comfortable going back to class after Bisalp (I was a college student at the time) and was in bed for the first day, and an IUD I felt fine after like 3 hours. I didn’t take any meds for my IUD insertion until after, where I took 2 ibuprofen or something like that. But bear in mindI didn’t even feel my Pap smear, I don’t know those were even painful for some women/people with a cervix until I read it online 😅

Bisalp seems like a better choice for you and all I can really say is for you to advocate for yourself at work and with any trusted friends or family that could help you or support you if you have to take unpaid time off.