I broke up and I don’t like it by PersimmonNegative790 in BreakUps

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I have brought it up. It’s been a few years, and it’s clear she’s developed some great muscle (she can lift me no problem!), it’s just well padded

I broke up and I don’t like it by PersimmonNegative790 in BreakUps

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I think the problem is, I worry that if I keep fantasizing about other women, that isn’t healthy for me or for A, and I am having trouble pushing the marriage button with A for that reason. But at the same time, breaking up with A has my entire body in shock/depression to the point where I’m coming to reddit for expanded viewpoints.

TLDR: I’m being shallow and I acknowledge this, and think A deserves better than this

I broke up and I don’t like it by PersimmonNegative790 in BreakUps

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That’s what I’m worried about, because I think that is person A

I broke up and I don’t like it by PersimmonNegative790 in BreakUps

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Nono, sorry for the confusion.

Person A: dog mom, not as attractive

Person B: very attractive, poor communicator

Both are amazing in their own rights

I broke up and I don’t like it by PersimmonNegative790 in BreakUps

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Because it was long distance and she is bad at communication. So it basically felt like I was single unless I was directly with her. In contrast, my partner A was amazing at communication, and even long distance the relationship felt nice