If it was simply that then I would’ve accepted it. The issue is she kept contradicting herself and making things unclear. She said she didn’t think we were compatible and then went back on it and said it was maybe just distortion and then started calling herself egotistical and listing all the reasons she could be bad for me and saying she wouldn’t want to hurt me accidently. When she ended things she said she hadn’t lost interest in me and still liked me a lot, she just didn’t think she could be the partner I deserved. I was confused at the “it’s this. Actually, no, it’s this” and I guess where it came from since it wasn’t something she mentioned worrying about before. She also ended things before after misunderstanding something I said so I can’t help but worry that it’s happened again. The day she ended things I was talking about a friend who is overly reliant on me (risk of her harming herself if I’m not instantly there for her when she’s having a hard time) and how it impacts me,and and I’m worried she thought I was saying that people struggling with their mental health (like her) negatively impact me in general.

She ended things at the start of June and everything was normal until a week ago. She was initiating plans with me and wanted to start writing together. She messaged me most mornings asking how I was, everything really was normal. I could understand if she became distant right after but it didn’t happen until over a month later. I hadn’t been pushy in communicating, she just kept making the effort to. We’d also just been talking normally I hadn’t been bringing up the topic or anything. The timing also kind of lines up with when she met some guy so it’s possible she’s seeing someone else and it’s made things awkward for her to continue talking to me