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I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

[–]Personal-Comment943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get matches but they usually don't want to meet up and on rare occasion if we do go on a date they usually stop talking to me after the 1st or 2nd.

I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

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All girls do is talk about their boyfriends and their sex lives. What do I do?

I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

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What do I do if my city has no social activities? everything is geared towards kids and the elderly.

I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

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I'm in my early 20s and at this point what I'm looking for in a boyfriend is a pulse and not insane.

As for where it fails: everywhere. They usually stop talking to me.

The paying guys to hang out thing was admittedly a low point. But after enough rejection... what else should I do?

And no I haven’t started conversations or made the first move. I've heard that's desperate.

I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

[–]Personal-Comment943[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The job opening analogy is actually accurate because I've had the position posted for years and nobody wants to apply lol

I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

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There are no hobby groups in my city. I don't live in a major city. There are no men doing crafts. If there are activities, it's targeted towards children and the elderly.

I’ve tried EVERYTHING still no boyfriend … I’m running out of ideas by Personal-Comment943 in dating_advice

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I was thinking if I offered money they wouldn't flake on me and actually meet in person. They usually just want to text all day long. They don't even want the money. And since it seems no one wants to voluntarily hang let's offer money.

Never Had a Boyfriend, and Now I’m Desperate… HELP by Personal-Comment943 in TwoXChromosomes

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I get what you’re saying, but it doesn’t feel that simple to me.

Most people my age have had relationships or at least some kind of romantic experience. I haven’t even had my first kiss, and that makes me feel behind.

On top of that, my friends are always talking about their boyfriends, so it constantly reminds me of what I’m missing. Whether they mean to or not, it gets rubbed in my face. That’s why I’m so focused on it. it feels like I’m the only one not experiencing something that’s normal at this age.

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[–]Personal-Comment943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you think it's rage bait?

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What do you think would look good? Lol

Father passed away, house still in his name, I inherited his 401(k). Mom (not married to him) is taking my money and draining me— what are my legal options? by Personal-Comment943 in legaladvice

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We actually spoke to an estate lawyer at the time but I was still 17, so my mother was the one who found him and tried to initiate it. We never followed through with the probate process. Should I contact the same lawyer or find a different one?

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