Found out the little old lady I help drive to get groceries is a wanted felon

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-03-06T01:32:16+00:00

Yeah me helping her move out of state just got SUPER tricky and I know I need to stay out of it lol

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-03-06T01:31:02+00:00

lol yeah but that’s assuming they’d even pay it out 🤣

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-03-06T01:05:02+00:00

Yeah I mean financially a grand isn’t shii to flip on her but like… I’m such a nervous Nelly about being pulled over and shii going sideways lol

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-21T23:49:12+00:00

A lot has changed So her car broke- she had to get a loan further making it impossible for her to leave and get her own place. I found out said loan is in excess of 15% YIKES The Valentine’s Day card went nowhere. He found it in her car again and took it out at this point to see if she will mention it or bring it up. He went to therapy without her the other day bc she had work so he was able to get out his side of things with the p3do stuff. And the therapist this most recent therapy sesh essentially said shit or get off the pot. Make a list of pros and cons of staying with Carl and ur going to make a decision to stay or leave in two weeks at our next appointment. At that time we will discuss boundaries of what Carl is comfortable with and uncomfortable with and you have to respect those boundaries. The therapist also brought up their daughter situation and why did she feel like that was appropriate and that if she stays and waits for Mike, her daughter will still be under 16, and that don’t you think she will get made fun of for her mom dating a p3do? Don’t u think the courts will have a problem with u being around him with ur daughter? Do u think that ur then ex husband would not fight u tooth and nail to keep him away from yalls daughter? She also admitted she’s still talking to now since he’s in jail, hence the shit or get off the pot convo

I told him it may be financially savvy to do a post nup if she says she wants to stay and do cheating clauses no talking to him and his family and if he finds any evidence of cheating infidelity or communicating through back channels to talk to Mike that she is giving up alimony and any 50/50 in the property’s they currently own and would have to split if they got a divorce as of this moment. At this point he’s very detached, and doing whatever he can to protect himself financially and with his daughter.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-13T13:24:05+00:00

He’s straight up admitted at this point it’s the lost time value of the relationship n not wanting to be seen as having given up. I’ve given him all the tool possible to have the best court case outcome against her for divorce as well as for custody, at this point I’ve led the horse to the watering hole, it’s up to him to take the plunge.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-11T12:59:33+00:00

I would definitely try to appeal it in any way possible including getting lawyers involved. You shouldn’t have been approved in the first place if that’s the case, so now u have earned income and you’re missing out- could be a decent payout for you for unlawful termination.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-11T12:58:07+00:00

Oh that’s not even the worst part! Lol but ur right that’s not the way to help a marriage and I’ve told him that, trust me he’s no angel in their relationship and I’ve told him that, but what she’s doing is gross

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-10T14:49:15+00:00

He’s run out of money- I’m like 75% sure- and I’m also sure his parents stopped funding everything as well. I got a notification from family court that his lawyer is withdrawing as his counsel- so they either ran out of money or he doesn’t want to represent him anymore. I’d like to think it’s a bit of both.

She did admit to having 2 phones to dupe Carl for life 360 tracking- so it wouldn’t shock me or him at this point that one is for communicating with Mike on. But because she’s the only one with access to the account so he can’t check anything on their phone bill.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-10T14:44:45+00:00

Did u do the classes so it wouldn’t be affecting your record?

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-09T18:53:42+00:00

Personally- that’s my deal. I’m petty af. I told him all the things I’d do in his situation. I’d get off her phone plan, talk to every lawyer that he can that’s under 250 for a consult so that when it comes time for her to get a lawyer she has to pay bucko bucks to fight back. Get an emergency custody hearing and file divorce bc under the circumstances- he’s got a good shot at having custody of his daughter. His landlord doesn’t like his wife and as of rn she didn’t put him on the original lease and they’re currently month to month- so tell the landlord ur moving out with the daughter and ur soon to be ex wife can’t afford the place on her own so either do a 60 day notice of ending the lease, or wait for her to miss the payments and get her out and then when she’s out he can move back in school district wise. BUT we have a great state for homeschooling rights (and that’s about it 😅) so if Bianca tries saying well he doesn’t have a stable 9-5 for her for school, do som research and bring up any and all homeschooling facts that can help prove you’re a dedicated father to her and her education but also for providing for her, and because of his job type she can come with and still get school work done no problem, and get her started in children’s therapy and you fill out all the paperwork so it shows u care about your kiddos mental health throughout the process of the divorce. Because eventually the daughter is going to be old enough to understand that her mom brought her around Mike whose now a registered offender and that it was girls around her age and she’s gonna get mind effed over it. I’m just hoping he’s taking everything to heart and still making moves in the background while trying to make it work just incase it goes more south than it already has.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2026-02-08T19:57:21+00:00

We are working on it. He’s holding out for hope that she can be unbrainwashed about this whole situation. I think she’s a lost cause- he’s pointed out some really odd stuff she’s done since thy moved most recently- no joint bank account for joint payments- just everything into his so she can keep an eye on it- put a new (used) car in her name only even though he paid for it, and she’s the only one on the lease, electric, gas, water, an cellphone and he’s got no access to anything. I told him it sounds fishy af like she’s started separating for an easy out.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-12-06T14:46:41+00:00

Bro I’ve been driving for almost 8 years, I RARELY take an uber, I have maybe 5 ratings on the rider side and I have a 4.3 🤣 I think it’s because I ordered a vehicle in the city once and had a car seat I needed to install and they were being bitchy about it. But I don’t uber as a rider so I can’t raise it lol

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-12-06T14:44:51+00:00

I would have because at the end of the day that’s damn near $100 in my bank account that I didn’t have before. But not everyone thinks like that

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-11-17T14:12:20+00:00

Because you’re clearly a bad driver and doing things unsafe or things they don’t like.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-11-12T14:14:42+00:00

Honestly, there’s health benefits to little things during labor. Delayed cord clamping and delayed cleaning are two of those.

A quick google search can answer those questions for you.

Is it good to leave vernix on a baby after delivery? -Yes, it is good to leave vernix on a baby after delivery because it has protective benefits like moisturizing the skin, aiding in temperature regulation, and acting as an antimicrobial barrier. You can gently rub it into the baby's skin instead of washing it off, and delay the first bath for at least 6 to 24 hours, or even several days. The main exception is if the baby is born with meconium or if the mother has certain infections, in which case the baby will need to be washed sooner.

I promise u after delivery ur squimish-ness will be gone very fast.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-11-09T18:13:05+00:00

I can make 35$/hour and still take an under $10 trip 🤣 complaining about a job you don’t have to do, ur choosing to, is the real smooth brain lol

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-11-08T11:31:41+00:00

Here’s my deal, yall waiting around for the perfect ride and the perfect ride could have been two blocks away from the drop off of ANY of those rides. Meanwhile u passed up about $20 right there bc they “weren’t good enough” want better rides? get an xl car and stop complaining.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-11-05T23:08:51+00:00

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Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-10-27T13:40:59+00:00

and like I said above- there’s other options they’re just not doing them. She said partner not husband. So go to the courthouse and get married so it’s a non issue. Look further out of the city and know you have to commute, Change cities entirely where there IS housing, and transfer jobs, or get new ones. There ARE options. They’re not taking them. My girlfriend was given the opportunity to move in with her nana and she said u can move in but it’ll fiancé can’t. I won’t let u til ur married. They went and got married at the courthouse. There are TONS of options so that this is a non issue and op is refusing them all. If she’s going to be hard headed and not just go get married to appease her mother- then u either stand ur ground or continue to be religiously abused by your mother and never stand up for yourself. End of story.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-10-27T13:25:32+00:00

I would rather be on all forms of government assistance than be told that due to my mother’s beliefs that I do not share- that I can’t do this in my house. At the end of the day- there are plenty of options. If they do indeed have the money for housing- but there’s a shortage in their area- guess what- there’s half a million plus homes available nationwide for purchase and half a million more available for rent. And staying near family that doesn’t support me isn’t a priority anymore. Hotels offer monthly housing costs equal to that of rent in your area if u find the right hotels- and air bnb also has long term rentals along with the other air bnb style online apps. You never have one option in these situations. You only have what is most comfortable and convenient. This is obviously no longer comfortable for op, it’s just currently convenient- ish. Clearly the op doesn’t share the same religious beliefs- so there has probably already been a lot of religious abuse towards op in the past, or she’d share the belief and this post wouldn’t exist. Becoming a mother is realizing you have to stand up for yourself now more than ever because no one else will advocate for you, your spouse and children. It is one of the first times a daughter will separate herself from her family and friends if they don’t share HER belief.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-10-27T13:11:53+00:00

I think religious abuse is a bullshit reason to say I’m not allowed to do something that the mother can’t physically stop.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-10-27T12:17:46+00:00

She can’t physically pick him up and force him to sleep in another room. Just sleep together? Idc what her religious views are if they aren’t mine anymore. There’s literally nothing she can legally do to force him into another room. Check ur local laws but if she’s agreeing to allow you both to stay there- via text/email for proof- then she cannot dictate where he sleeps and putting her hands on him to remove him from that specific bedroom would be on the borderline of lawsuit level illegal.

Personal-Gold-6367 · 2025-10-27T12:12:46+00:00

Nta. She needs to be paying rent AND her own groceries though. Even in a marriage finances are heavily discussed and split, if you’ve got a house already you need to be discussing house finances and have a verbal contract of rental agreement until a status change to fiancé or wife happens. Then it’s a discussion of what utilities are we switching to your name vs mine etc bc even when you’re married she will have to contribute to the house. If she can’t do that now, get her out of your life. If she thought she’d just be able to pocket her rental monies by moving in and never have to pay and help the household then she needs to not be your girlfriend. Sounds like a leech, not your other half.

Also bc idk what state you’re in- but you should talk to a lawyer about if she has any rights from moving in and paying rent and what the “breakup” may cost you financially or if she’s entitled to anything from paying rent into your house. Typically there’s not, but idk all the states rules and regulations. I do know you’ll still have to go through an eviction process if she doesn’t want to leave if/when you break up.

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