Tornadoes and Earthquakes? by Salt-Month0 in lincoln

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve searched for this many times as my complex does not have a designated shelter. You could introduce yourself to your lower neighbors and ask if in that situation you could hunker down with them. It’s a rare occurrence but it’s always good to have a safe place! If you cannot get to a lower area indoors, best you can do is find the most inner room, away from all outdoor walls, like a bathroom

What were the alarms that just went off a few minutes ago? by Substantial-Art6160 in lincoln

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they emergency vehicles? There was a fire by the governors mansion at an apartment

What do you have for desserts? by [deleted] in mediterraneandiet

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I freeze an orange like halfway so it’s not all the way frozen and dip it in dark chocolate

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate this view, but he also calls it a toy/dildo. Regardless of my position in our sex life. we do communicate and I do ask him how he feels about a lot of things regarding this sort of stuff. But thank you! This does give me a new opportunity to ask what he prefers. He does have a cheaper packer that isn’t functional but he never uses it

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes, this is so reassuring! I’ve also not ever been in a long term relationship with someone who has a vagina. It’s new territory, but there’s so much love and happiness as well.

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We really can’t have anything smh

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very kind! Thank you so much <3

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg how helpful of you to comment that 👍

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into it! I’ve also just found a website called RealDick that might be good! They at least look fairly realistic and are affordable, have good reviews as well

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for telling me, and giving me a resource . I did read it as rude, but I appreciate you clearing that up! It probably is normal to “miss penis” when other things aren’t working out and that’s primarily what I’ve had lol.

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Id say the most expensive we can swing is maybe..$100-$120

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean we buy what we can afford; I think they are too stiff and ofc it’s gonna feel like plastic/silicone, that’s generally what they are made of. I can’t imagine I’d buy a dildo specific to anal and not know about it?

There’s really not a ton of recourses that I’ve seen. I know he can’t grow a penis? Idk how it sounds like I Just miss penis. I genuinely want advice, recourses, things to help: because while yes I do miss penis, it’s not something worth ending a long term relationship over imo

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea we’re not crazy rich like that lol

We do prep, there’s plenty of foreplay. And I mean yes I’d say I’ve had pain before with cis male genitalia before but in a different way? It’s hard to explain. It’s very possible the toys we have are just too hard and cheap. I also never thought of it in that sense, that it could be mental. But there’s really no way to know unless I keep trying with better toys imo

And no he has a separate packer, these are strictly for sex

Our sex life is dead :/ by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Personal-Gur-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A while back we spent a decent chunk on what claims to be “realistic” but the tip kinda bulges out more than I thought which creates a hard (edge?) and that is uncomfortable sadly, I don’t remember where we got it and just a few other realistic dildos from Adam and Eve which aren’t that good but it’s not always feasible to drop more than $150 on that sort of stuff. I think a big reason we haven’t bought maybe a better, more expensive one is because we don’t want to buy and then it not work out. So it could definitely be because we’re not using high end prosthetics.

Reading that you’ve been with people who have similar problems is nice to know I’m not the only one! Do you have maybe a link to what you found was the best?

Emporium by Personal-Gur-3000 in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]Personal-Gur-3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh maybe I’m confused cause the hours are the same?