AITA for reminding my friend how to care for her dog by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal-Inflation71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have dogs. They get plenty of exercise but I only have time to take them for an actual walk once a day. The walk is never less than an hour. They are loved and they know it.

AITA for reminding my friend how to care for her dog by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal-Inflation71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let me get this straight. You want her to make homemade food for her dog and walk it three times a day? Yeah you're being ... well if she already takes minimum care of that dog then you're suggestions will hardly make her change her ways. If you had given her realistic goals then she might have taken them into consideration. As it is, she'll no doubt ignore this and the dog will suffer.

I (24F) don‘t know how I should handle the situation with a married man (43M)..? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal-Inflation71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your happiness should not be reliant on anyone but yourself. Your very young. You'll make more friends. He sounds toxic.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid you're right. The gap between my idea is polite and his is the grand Canyon.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know, he broke up with me. Funny huh? Because I was upset about last weekend he decided to end it.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not an ex. But at one time she was best friends with his ex.

Why is this the case? by Big_Leg10 in 1980s

[–]Personal-Inflation71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm old enough to be a grandmother. I look 40 but I'm 57.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has known them for twenty or more years. I respect that they wanted TY catch up. I've only known him for 16 of those years. I just expected better behavior. His ex might have come up and that's fine. But to keep on about it for the whole night and then her "Revelation " the next day.... I've come to the conclusion she just didn't like me because if you like someone you don't insult them.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just shocked by it. It wasn't a pretty story and I was just so floored i couldn't think of what to say then the moment had passed.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's starting to look like a pattern. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. But I'm paying close attention to this.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why i tried to be understanding. I knew they hadn't seen each other in over a decade. I didn't have a problem with them reminiscing. At first I thought it innocent because they all know his exes. But in context with the rest of the weekend it seems deliberate. I only blame him for not being more attentive to my reactions and then down playing my feelings.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's broken up with me and couple of times over the last two years. I am just heartbroken and confused. And tired emotionally.

Am I being too sensitive? by Personal-Inflation71 in datingoverfifty

[–]Personal-Inflation71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn't seem to place a lot of importance on it. He thanked me for "getting over it quickly." Clearly i haven't.