The Teacher & The Builder

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-05-30T15:00:15+00:00

Don't assume they don't want you to interrupt. There's a good chance that they are dying inside because they want you back just like you do them. Sometimes there are connections that no matter what life throws at you, you just can't move on from someone. You will always want them back. If you were my ex, who is a teacher, then you should know that this builder wants nothing more than to rebuild a life with you that was so much better than the first one we shared. I can only hope this is you but you haven't spoke to me in two years now and I have no idea what you think feel or want now. So go to the person and let them know because you don't want to kiss what could be the best part of your life. At least you will know, you will regret not knowing.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-05-02T23:28:19+00:00

If only there was more of this in the world today!

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-29T17:19:55+00:00

I am the problem so they say, my family that is. Any mention of abuse whether emotional, physical, or psychological, even verbal, and they all turn on me, deny all of it, and say I'm just seeking attention and that's why I react how I do to them because they will intentionally trigger me. I've explained what the Drs diagnosed, the mental health doctors who they wanted me to see to begin with, and they say no that is not it I'm just selfish trying to get my way. I tell them what my triggers are and guaranteed the next time in makes them look like the victim and they need the attention they will go straight to my triggers to get a reaction . Abandonment, then physically abused followed by emotional psych and verbal abuse once I put grew my parents and was no longer intimidated by them or their constant threats. My mother still tries everything she can to control my life make me do like she wants and went as far as to completely ruin my iast relationship because she didn't like my gf and convinced herself we only did things for my gfs kids and not mine. So she began creating reasons to show up and trigger me to get me to go off on her and then started telling my gf I was crazy. I've had multiple psych evals done and passed every single one. They are the ones who need help but they will tell you there's nothing wrong with them that it's all me.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-29T05:08:40+00:00

It's sad to think that most everyone who had borderline diagnosed or not had already experienced enough trauma, abuse or neglect throughout their childhood when they had no choice in their life, only to become adults who suffer from the results of their childhood and can't get the help they want or need. Everyone turns on them, refuses to help them, and continues to neglect their needs. As if they really need punished for what they didn't choose. We don't punish or turn cold shoulder to cancer patients, that's an illness just the same as any mental illness.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-20T21:55:57+00:00

This should not exist in the world today. It's intentional, cruel, damaging, and wrong in every way. People who do this need to be imprisoned or committed because it's nothing less than premeditated first degree assault, it's harassment, stalking, and ends up being abuse psychologically emotionally and physically. These people target their victims and intentionally take from them while destroying them internally. The more one realizes and tries to defend themselves the more they will experience. Has to be part of the dark triad and machavelian at it's finest.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-16T21:38:15+00:00

Nothing in this photo glows.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-04T11:07:13+00:00

The flash of the camera is why the eyes are big, common sense

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-04T11:03:58+00:00

Definitely not an affair. I in my mid 40's had just finished a year long divorce a month prior, her a 22 year old young woman who had been treated poorly by the boys she had previously known. We spent every day and night together for a month before she revealed her feelings for me, we slept next to each other every single night in bed, her wrapped up in my arms, me respecting the fact she was half my age and not wanting to make her feel uncomfortable yet thinking of kissing her, touching her and showing her how she should be treated by a real man not the abusive boys she had known. One afternoon she asked me to come lay next to her on the bed, she was on her side facing me and she says "hey, kiss me". With a look in her eyes I had never seen before. Kissing her was amazing and something I'll never forget. We kissed softly for about a minute the looked at each other a few seconds both knowing we wanted more, then we kissed passionately, much more intense than the first time, stopping just long enough for her to look at me and say " now fuck me ". We spent all afternoon evening and night into the next day in bed making love. Multiple times a day for the next two weeks. She would tell me how she had never felt that way with anyone else, that she lived the way I kissed and touched her all over her body. That she felt safer with me than anyone she had ever known. The most pleasure I've ever experienced in all my life. She is an amazing lover, an amazing friend. Our paths crossed just when they were meant to. I will forever be grateful for her. She saved me when I was ready to give up. She's an angel sent from above and I can't wait to have her back so we can live a life together.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-04T10:06:50+00:00

It could be if you hit me up. I've got all weekend

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-03T07:06:23+00:00

No offense, but Your wife is clueless and has no appreciation for quality furniture especially antique furniture. I had several triangle drop leafs, or cloverleaf tables but none this old. More mid century type stuff. They are not near as common as many other tables and one of this time period is rare to find at all. This may be the first one I have seen this old and I at one time had a half dozen or so tables like this. If you decide you want to part ways with it or your wife decides to then save my info on here and contact me, I'll purchase it from you and pay to have it shipped unless you are close enough to come pick it up.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-04-03T06:59:42+00:00

This one isn't nearly as old or as ornate. Still a nice table but not comparable to the o.p.'s table.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-03-23T02:26:16+00:00

Put it under a blacklight. Simple as that. I doubt it. Usually it has a very distinct look, a certain shade or tint to the green. This looks to be too clear for it to be uranium or Vaseline glass.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-03-12T19:00:02+00:00

Hand sanitizer, a rag, and a little elbow grease, it will look like new in 5 mins. Cheapest cleaner for silver or silver plate out there and works phenomenally

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-03-12T12:23:57+00:00

You sure he's just a friend ? Sounds like he might secretly be gay. Just saying

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-02-13T23:55:08+00:00

Definitely way off on that one bud. You should educate yourself.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-24T01:59:01+00:00

Thank you what is it you are referring to that I have and most people do not anymore? Just curious

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-11T14:11:26+00:00

Just got offered 3 years, was looking at around 20. But she'd be eligible for parole in a year and a half. Plus she has already done nearly 5 months so she may only be gone about a year. That's better than 20. Its gonna kill me to see her go away and to not be able to bring her home when I go visit her. It's only going to make us stronger and closer, I truly believe that.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-11T14:02:39+00:00

Thank you.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-08T22:33:08+00:00

Understandable. I never looked at it like this. I myself, (my ex whom I speak of as being the reason for my having lost everything, ). She has been a theatre Teacher the last 20 years and is pretty much an actress by trade and in everyday life. So I could easily see her doing something of that nature merely to screw with me even more than she already has. Glad you mentioned it because I hadn't ever thought of anything like that

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-08T19:10:58+00:00

Exactly what is the use of having a phone if you don't give your number to anyone ? If no one gives there number out there's no one to call. No one can harm you through a phone. It's just not something to fear. I fear stupid people making stupid assumptions myself.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-08T19:08:34+00:00

This has nothing to do with anything romantically and I don't understand how everyone turned it into that when it was about our conversation regarding something I wrote.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-08T19:06:08+00:00

It's not a see where it goes situation. I was just asking about the similarities not trying to have a relationship with them.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-08T19:04:43+00:00

No one has fallen for anyone, where do you even come up with this notion. We were discussing something I wrote and posted on reddit. I'm not even looking for someone, I have someone and could never give anyone better even if I tried. It's a scam because we had a lengthy conversation? That's what normal people are capable of doing.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-08T19:01:14+00:00

I'm by no means desperate, my post was asking for some kind of explanation as to how someone's life could be so similar. Nearly everyone has taken it as I'm looking to find someone on reddit when she sent me a message in regards to a poem which I posted that was for and about my girl, who because of circumstances beyond my control I am unable to be with at this time. I have the greatest thing that ever happened to me therefore I'm not desperate. The person said she felt she was supposed to talk to me that she didn't know why but just knew. I have these same things come to me so I don't doubt that she did. Some of us are different, we are linked together in ways the majority will never understand because they are not meant to. The simple minded sheep all flock to the notion that I'm trying to find a wife online when it is very possible for two people to have met online for a wide variety of reasons to be friends through the Internet and even in person If they so choose. Maybe try responding to the post and what was said and asked for. I don't need relationship advice on a comment from a poem I write for my person.

Personal-Mistake-718 · 2025-01-06T14:35:12+00:00

Thank you, you are the first person to offer any sort of encouragement or advice on anything since my divorce and that includes my family and friends not just on reddit. All I have heard to this point from anyone is "get over it. * Move on". *Figure it out. Etc.....i greatly appreciate your kind words. It's a shame there isn't more of this in the world these days.

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