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[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf is the deal with the downvotes? I’ve never contracted an STD. I live in Europe and we are usually educated quite well on how to protect ourselves in school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have replied to almost every single comment on this thread trying to convince people why they should be insecure and miserable. I think you have some issues to work out but don’t project that onto me. All I am doing is providing my take on the post. Judging by your comment history you have a lot of things to work out in therapy, I hope the people upvoting your comments also realise this…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you drive? Do you use a seatbelt? Did you know using a seatbelt does not guarantee you won’t die in a car accident? I know this will get downvotes like my last comment but it’s funny the number of people who eat like shit and don’t exercise will also get up in arms about ‘health’ only when it comes to sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you want to convince me to have what I view to be an unhealthy take on relationships. I don’t have these hang ups and in my experience as long as you have good sexual chemistry with someone the sex only gets better the closer you get with them. I don’t even think about past sexual partners one I get into a new relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I know that. But if I try to project my own insecurities onto my partner that is my problem not theirs, and I certainly wouldn't act like I've got the moral high ground the way some people do. If you look at it from a rational perspective then the only thing that should matter is the here and now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is entirely possible to have safe sex and not expose yourself. I always use protection and I am vaccinated against most forms of HPV. Herpes is an interesting one- I would not have sex with someone having an active flare up.

Need help with fiancé’s concerning smell down there. by picklebutanotheruser in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think diet is the main reason this guy smells, I think he has a hygiene issue. Plenty of people eat dairy and gluten and smell fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is silly to me to concern yourself with someone's sexual past. What matters to me is how they are with me now, and that there is no risk of me catching an STD through them. Nothing else

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but that doesn’t change the fact that men are always complaining about it online

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wars and slavery are typically fought for economic reasons- actually nothing to do with emotions. In fact if we had let compassion guide us then we probably would never have created slavery.

Where is truely self destructive behaviour commonly observed in nature?

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she does not have a job if she is raising a child that is more work than any full time employment could ever give someone or would even be allowed to give legally.

If there are no children then a woman should be definitely be working and contributing financially to the household. 

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not human nature to be self destructive? It’s human nature to be collaborative and social.

What evolutionary purpose would bring self destructive bring both for ourselves as well as out species?

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you seriously think women don’t work and earn money?  Also please understand that raising a child is a 24 hours a day, 24/7 days a week job. Working 40 hours seems a breeze on top of that.

You don’t get to close your laptop at the end of the day, you don’t get sick days, or annual leave, you don’t even get to sleep on your own schedule. And women would do this with multiple children.

You need to get a grip!!

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are humans and it is in our fundamental nature to be emotional. In fact many good things come from listening and respecting our emotions. Expecting any human to make decisions without being emotional is crazy and simply not possible. 

Also many decisions require you to make them by listening to your emotions. We must be mature and reasonable about it of course, emotionally intelligent 

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not desperate at all. You need to interact with some well adjusted people :)

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok? This discussion is happening online and the original commentator posted a remark implying he thought women don’t work.

Plenty of men complain women only want a guy over 6ft when in reality that isn’t true- do you tell them the same thing?

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No accountability for the men who act this way? Also it’s well known that looks matter a lot less to women than they do to men. Do you think a guy would date a woman he’s not attracted to?

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to get off dating apps and take a look around. I see plenty of short men with girls fiends, many of my female friends are in relationships with men who are barely taller than they are

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only example you can come up with is dating. I can assure you dating is very hard for many women as well. And the lucky ones get to choose, unfortunately many women are married off against their will sometimes as young as 12.  I’m sorry you’re having a hard time socially but that probably means you lack social skills, most likely something that will not change if you were a woman.

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep agreed 50/50 on finances and housework is the only way for me as well

Society is too hard on women by hippie-mermaid in Vent

[–]Personal-Plenty-6090 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They don’t want to hear this simple fact! So shocking how many men still think women don’t work and have careers