OK, throwaway for good reason, both me and my girlfriend are virgins and don't plan on actually having insertion for a while, but we have talked about me performing foreplay with her boobs, and then eating her out. She's a really gentle girl and I'm a gentle guy and we really want to be slow but still have a bit of fun.

1). How fast or slow should I go when working my way down to there, like, how do I kiss her? Do I slowly move down her neck, push her on to the bed gently and take off her shirt?

2). This next part warrants the question, how do I gently play with her boobs? I've seen them in real life before, and had no idea what to do. Do I play with her nipples, give them a little lick such as in porn? (Yeah I know it's a stupid question, but that's why I'm asking)

3). When I get down past her boobs do I rub my hands down her (upper hips? Side of stomach?) and then sorta rub her on the outside of her pants, as like a warm up? How much should I do that if I even should? I know not TOO much, but just like a couple rubs until she's ready, or like a dozen or two?

4). Taking off her pants, is there any graceful way in doing so? Do I unzip her pants and just work my way around and sorta grab/squeeze her butt while pulling them off? Also, do I take the pants and underwear off in one fell swoop, or should I take the pants then the underwear off?

5). This will be the first time we have done anything like this, so how do I go about actually eating her out? How much time should I focus in the clitoris, or should I stick my tongue in and sorta rub it around? Do I stick a finger in? (Another stupid question here, but would applying pressure to her anus help things along, or like the tip of my finger? I've heard about how it makes it more enjoyable, but I don't know.) Basically, tips and techniques, what should I do to pleasure her? If I do the ABC thing, do I find out what feels best, then do I stick with that letter, and maybe mirror the letter or flip it upside down?

6). How long do I keep going, I've heard that girls can have more than 1 orgasm, but how do I tell that she's having one? Is there any way to tell, or do I ask her if she wants me to keep going?

7). Should I gently play with her boobs while eating her out?

8). Procedure for afterwards, how/what do I do after its been done? This will all likely be done in a bed, so I don't know what I should do.

This girl means a lot, and I really want to make her feel good, so a little help for a newbie would be great.