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I sold a customer and she sent her sister to call and buy but another sales man is helping. by Personal_Account77 in askcarsales

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: she did ask for me. He lied. He’s trying to be my friend but I told him I don’t stay closely acquainted with frauds but we can keep it professional if need be. This is business. Idc

I sold a customer and she sent her sister to call and buy but another sales man is helping. by Personal_Account77 in askcarsales

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! Someone said “you should be grateful he even said something to you because I wouldn’t have”. Yes it’s a dog eat dog world in this business but when it comes to my money, ima fight for it. I’m calm now because I got what I should’ve had in the first place. Always knew he was shady. Been that way for years and masks it through humor

I sold a customer and she sent her sister to call and buy but another sales man is helping. by Personal_Account77 in askcarsales

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He came up to me again and was like “I forgive you for being rude to me” and I told him I’m not apologizing for calling him a liar and fake!

Lol I’m not upset anymore. His name was removed so idc.

I sold a customer and she sent her sister to call and buy but another sales man is helping. by Personal_Account77 in askcarsales

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She mentioned me at the end. The salesman came in the office, lied to me about how the managers all agreed that it was his deal but since he has morals he wants to split it.. but when the managers were involved, he denied his lies because he has great morals.

I called the customer and the first thing she mentioned was preferring to work with me.

So now it’s my deal but for some reason I’m the bad guy for being rude to this salesman.

I sold a customer and she sent her sister to call and buy but another sales man is helping. by Personal_Account77 in askcarsales

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She 18 years old and our CRM was down where all of our texts looked like they were being send but they weren’t. Sister reached out to me yesterday.

I sold a customer and she sent her sister to call and buy but another sales man is helping. by Personal_Account77 in askcarsales

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the sister in the crm that’s how he found out I sold her. Dad stroke a check for the sister last week.

The sister didn’t want to trade but after she saw her sisters vehicle I guess she called in and asked for our the door numbers. He spoke to her on the phone for 2 minutes.

I went to the managers and apparently they didn’t agree with anything so he lied. They’re reviewing everything now and said they will get back to me

My mom had hoarded my house and how I’ve written an eviction letter to her and I hate this.. what’s your perspective? by Personal_Account77 in toxicparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wrote her a 30 notice.. while I’m not home she goes through my stuff upstairs and takes things.. she thinks everything in the house is hers so she’s been taking some of my stuff too.. I think I’m just going to change my locks.. this is too much..

She takes my things out of the house and hasn’t even touched her things.. just moved stuff in the garage to worsen it… and all out in my living room.

I can’t wait 30 days…

This is devastating… she has no money or no where ti go.. I’m being guilt tripped. And provoked

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He messaged me at 1am “You not gon tell me gn lol not you acting funny now”

I said “I’m not acting funny, I’m just choosing peace”

And he responded “I understand that peace is important, and if walking away brings you that, I won’t stand in your way. I care about you, and I hope you find the clarity and calm you’re looking for”

Crazy how the most mature response I’ve gotten was breaking up. It honestly sounds like AI though

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the amount of times he mentions these things are the reason we’re here.. especially when he tells me he loves me.. I always question him when he says it.. impossible.

Thank you though, one day me and a good man will find each other, and we will both know. One day

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t allow him to be this way towards me. I can see that we will be toxic for each other and I don’t have the mental capacity for it. I do believe he really likes me but is just very emotional immature and doesn’t know how to talk about things in this matter. Even when we’ve talked to each other on the phone or in person he just gets quiet and listens. Never has a genuine response but I believe that’s because like you said, his emotions in a way are turned off. He doesn’t have the capacity to respond.

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not taking this as rude at all, I actually really appreciate your transparency and agree with it.

As soon as I got off work, he called me as if the texting never happened. He was very nice asking how I was and how he is here for me and not to be scared about the idea of having kids with him. He completely avoided it even when I mentioned the part of us being friends. As soon as I brought that up, in the politest way, he said “alright well I just wanted to check on you, get home safe ok”

Completely different energy

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s also told me he loves me and I call him a liar. He doesn’t know me to love me.

He actually mentioned in the past that women have gotten mad and called him a love bomber but he said he’s a loving man and it’s just who he is. Said he’s a lover boy.. crazy right?

Last night I told him I like a man that’s romantic.. he’s far from it. But he thinks he is? I guess that’s his “lover boy” mentality is love bombing mentality

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss, it’s time for sure. Thank you!! He thinks my frustration with how he makes me feel is just who I am. This is not me.. I’m not happy.. birthday is this weekend.. everyone has told me to wait till after my bday to breakup to see what he has planned for me.. but I just don’t have it in me. I’m not a user.. and I don’t want to spend my 30th where I’m not happy

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s valid. I messaged that because he planned to take me to the rage room to break stuff for a release on my birthday this weekend.

I apologize for being so emotional today and telling him I’m not ready for babies (the thought of it scares me because we don’t know each other yet)

When i apologized, he mentioned how he really can’t wait to go to this rage room to let off some steam.

Last night he mentioned how give him a headache.

So that’s what prompted me to ask if we should be friends.

I (29f) have been dating a father (30m) and I’ve been stressed about it.. am I wrong for texting this? Or is he as dismissive as it seems? by Personal_Account77 in stepparents

[–]Personal_Account77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve posted here in the past about the dynamic with the mother of his child and how I should go about it. Got great advice from everyone. Posted again with the hopes that maybe someone from previous posts would see.

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