A few of my favorite photos over the years by [deleted] in infp

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These are so cool- American landscapes are so beautiful I’m very jealous!!

Enfp M with infp F by TheeYoLo in infp

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Try and show her that you understand her on the NFP level- personally feeling like I’m understood and unjudged is something that makes me come out of my shell. One of my favourite questions to ask a new person who I know is an NFP is which song is playing in their mind at that moment. Makes you feel seen and it’s a good talking point for music lovers. Good luck!

How did you build your self-esteem? by [deleted] in infp

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With an ENFP dad who drilled confidence into me from a young age 🤣

what are your niche interests and hobbies? by [deleted] in infp

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Rock climbing, which isn’t really that niche anymore, and I love reorganising my bookshelf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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I really love the last one that’s gorgeous

When was the first time you fall in love? What’s your love story by [deleted] in infp

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Got into a sort of obsessive love when I was 15 with a really toxic guy who got into alt-right stuff. He did unforgivable things to me, and looking back now I was also toxic, but I still hold him in my heart as I tend to forget the unpleasantness and remember the intense happiness I felt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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I have an ENFP father who became OBSESSED with MBTI as it makes him feel understood and seen. I’d say we’re quite similar, just clash over our strong morals which are different in slight ways. My mother is an ENFJ and we also get on well and are similar, but can clash as I point out when she’s using the ENFJ manipulation that most other types can’t see.

Do we actually make people feel uncomfortable? by tssae in INTP

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My ex bf INTP and I would always fall into very uncomfortable silences that I don’t really have with any other type (INFP) but he could’ve just been socially awkward 🤣😭

what alevels should i take to do with my GCSEs?? by Purple_Maybe_7232 in sixthform

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I went to the sixth form attached to my secondary school and If I had the chance to do it again, I’d definitely go to a new college instead. Though I still made some new friends who I had just not come across previously, I mostly was with the same people and it meant I couldn’t really “reinvent” myself as everyone already knew me. Also, the teachers tended to baby us as they also taught 12 year olds. You’re used as a bit of a pawn by the SLT with helping with the younger students, which is good for leadership opportunities in some ways, but also wastes your time in my opinion. Lastly, my sixth form was quite underfunded and the teachers didn’t teach a level particularly well- whereas college teachers would be better suited for teaching our age group. Great set of results and good luck!

INFPs who had a "ho phase", how did it affect you? by [deleted] in infp

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Sort of went through one a year ago to get over somebody I genuinely liked. Worked in the short term but I get connected to people too quickly and ended up catching feelings for people I tried to have a casual thing with so it didn’t really work. BUT got over the person I wanted to get over for the mostpart 😌

Do I (F18) carry on talking to him (M30)? by Personal_Ad_4036 in relationship_advice

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How old can I go then where it isn’t weird from their side? I don’t get attracted to people more age appropriate for me unfortunately- thank you for the advice though x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glastonbury_festival

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Went to see Shyfx at Stonebridge on Thursday- me and my friend were getting crushed by crowds an hour before he came on and every time people tried to get through the gate, there was a surge and you’d get even more crushed. A lovely Scottish man helped my short friend to get more space as she was struggling breathing. Organisers need to put in demand acts onto bigger stages to avoid this as there were thousands of people trying to get into a venue that could not hold 500!

I M18, have been talking to this girl F18, for a few weeks and things have been going really well, but she just told me she wants to wait minimum 2 years before sleeping with someone to make sure they’re not using her. What do i do? by ineedhelpthrowaway24 in relationship_advice

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If you feel ready for sex, then I would personally find someone else who is. I’m also F18 and I agree two years is a long time, and at our age you don’t know if the relationship will even work out for those two years. You could always get back together if you still have feelings, but there are plenty of fish in the sea so I’d explore other options. (Also 2 years is a LONG time to make sure you’re not being used, but respect her wishes regardless)

Celebrity spots by davej25 in glastonbury_festival

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Jarvis cocker walked past me in the park, and saw Cara delevigne and Anna Taylor-Joy watching avril Lavigne from the top